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Not saying nothing except READ........
I went to a party,
And remembered what you said.
You told me not to drink, Mum
So I had a sprite instead.
I felt proud of myself,
The way you said I would,
That I didn't drink and drive,
Though some friends said I should.
I made a healthy choice,
And your advice to me was right,
The party finally ended,
And the kids drove out of sight.
I got into my car,
Sure to get home in one piece,
I never knew what was coming, Mum
Something I expected least.
Now I'm lying on the pavement,
And I hear the policeman say,
The kid that caused this wreck was drunk,
Mum, his voice seems far away.
My own blood's all around me,
As I try hard not to cry.
I can hear the paramedic say,
This girl is going to die.
I'm sure the guy had no idea,
While he was flying high,
Because he chose to drink and drive,
Now I would have to die.
So why do people do it, Mum
Knowing that it ruins lives?
And now the pain is cutting me,
Like a hundred stabbing knives.
Tell sister not to be afraid, Mum
Tell daddy to be brave,
And when I go to heaven,
Put "Daddy's Girl" on my grave.
Someone should have taught him,
That it's wrong to drink and drive.
Maybe if his parents had,
I'd still be alive.
My breath is getting shorter, Mum
I'm getting really scared.
These are my final moments,
And I'm so unprepared.
I wish that you could hold me Mum,
As I lie here and die.
I wish that I could say, "I love you, Mum!"
So I love you and good-bye.

I cut and pasted this, just some food for thought I hope nobody minds but it really got to me and it's a message worth showing to everyone.
If that doesnt make people think of the seriousness of drink driving, nothing will.
Just dont do it folks.........please!
MQ, I have a lump in my throat......
Christmas time two years ago a good friend was knocked over and killed by a drunk driver....... we buried him on new years eve.......
Things will never be the same at christmas and new year after that.
To be honest I have read it once and can't bring myself to read it again, it is such a powerful poem and I feel sick inside to think what some ignorant bastards can do, but it happens all the time. It had me in tears, it is one of your worst fears that somebody you love could be taken away from you this way just because some pissed up arsehole decided to drive a car.
I know there are a lot of shock tactics in advertising about this subject but it is worthwhile if it makes people think twice.
Def agree x
Thinking of my friend Sharon who was taken this way - and her two kids that were left without their mum.
There is frankly no excuse
To Sharon x
Cathy x
MQ this isn't a hi-jack but people need to think about speed, talking on mobile phones and drugs as well. All needless killers.
Thank you for the post.............even if it stops just one person then the poem has done its job
Dave_Notts
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MQ this isn't a hi-jack but people need to think about speed, talking on mobile phones and drugs as well. All needless killers.
Thank you for the post.............even if it stops just one person then the poem has done its job
Dave_Notts

I totally agree Dave
I've seen this one a couple of times now.. and each time I read it it makes me cry!! Very true message :cry:
Have seen that before too. really does make you think.
Especially today...........today, well. I recieved the phone call we all know we will get but never want to hear.
My partners Dad died suddenly this morning.
He will be missed.
M
Sorry about your loss tonmar, my father lost his dad not so long ago......
I know how it can affect people, try to look forward and remember all the best times you had with him.
:cry:
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Have seen that before too. really does make you think.
Especially today...........today, well. I recieved the phone call we all know we will get but never want to hear.
My partners Dad died suddenly this morning.
He will be missed.
M

Please accept my condolences... I know its an awful thing to happen to anyone at anytime.. but somehow this time of year just makes it that little bit harder. :therethere:
I was on the receiving end of a drunk driver a couple of years ago. Literally I was 100 yards from home, driving to a friends house. I had to wait to pass a parked car as another car was coming towards me. I just assumed that it would pass and I could continue on my journey.
WRONG!. The other car hit my front wing, pushed the side of the car in, and only stopped when its front wheel got locked in my rear wheel arch. Thankfully, as I was stationary, I was unhurt. Inside the other car was a little, frail old lady who lived in the next road to us.
I only realised that she was drunk when she took a television remote control out of her handbag and tried to telephone her husband on it. He didn't answer, as we dont get good reception of channel 5 here. She had a bottle of wine in her handbag and admitted to having spent the day drinking whisky.
When the Police turned up, they arrested her on the spot. And after several statements from me going into the small hours she was charged. The outcome was she was banned from driving for 3 years and had a 2 year community re-habilition order served on her.
It didnt stop her from drinking as we have seen her on a number of occasions in the local shops buying more alcohol. Only she has to walk there now, rather than drive. And as there are two schools very close, I am thankfully that it was me she drove into that evening, rather than a child walking to school the following morning.
Ian
Sorry didnt mean to hijack the post...........
Just, well you know....got me thinking that was all........
M xx
:upset:
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To be honest I have read it once and can't bring myself to read it again, it is such a powerful poem and I feel sick inside to think what some ignorant bastards can do, but it happens all the time. It had me in tears, it is one of your worst fears that somebody you love could be taken away from you this way just because some pissed up arsehole decided to drive a car.
I know there are a lot of shock tactics in advertising about this subject but it is worthwhile if it makes people think twice.

I never drink & drive. But the scary thing is I've known a few people who say "Oh I don't drink & drive either... I never have more than 2 pints"! How fecking stupid can you get?
It's easy to be judgemental about drink drivers but when judges themselves lurch out of cars onto the pavement pissed as rats and their 'colleagues' let them off what are we to expect. It's corruption at the highest level and smacks of cronyism - but its still not an excuse for everyone else to do it - it simply makes it harder for messages like the one contained in this poem harder to impact onto to the general public.
This poem ought to be sent to the BBC or whatever gov. dept. is responsible for the xmas ad campaigns and used as the basis for a drink/driving awareness campaign
that leaves nothing else to be said. well done MQ. maybe that poem should become a sticky at the top of the forum
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Have seen that before too. really does make you think.
Especially today...........today, well. I recieved the phone call we all know we will get but never want to hear.
My partners Dad died suddenly this morning.
He will be missed.
M

tonmar,
not much anyone can say! genuinely sorry to hear that, especially at this time of year!
lost my dad a very long time ago. you both have my sympathy, tho it's a poor cliche to say that! sad
neil x x x x
Very sorry to hear your bad news tonmar, my condolences.
Followed a drunk driver on the way home from my mate's last night. He managed to kerb it twice, I just dropped back in the end, no point in trying to overtake idiots like that.
I personally hope he binned it on a wall somewhere quiet with no pedestrians around. Wanker. mad :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x
Rick.
sad :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
Think everyone has said how im feeling after reading the poem...
cond to tonmar xxx
also thinkin of u beenyboy...its my dads memory today aswell xxxx
love
candj
xx