A strange conversation

26 Jun 2004

I'm sorry but this will be of limited interest but I've just had a rather strange conversation with Mrs TE.
We were both commiserating over the fact that she's got a stinking cold an that the sports for the evening were OFF! She then said that I'd better visit that Swinging site - dunno

:doh: :doh: :doh:
After picking myself up off the ground I pointed out that sex was really not part of the part of the site I visited (did you get that??). I mentioned that the humour and friendliness of the site were really the attractions and she didn't blink an eyelid. I had to warn her that some of the humour is zany in the extreme - she's only a beginner in Bollox - but that everyone really was friendly when you joined. Did she seem to like the idea? I don't know.
Now the question is if she were to venture on here would you lot treat her gently? I really don't know if there is a glimmer there but.... I think I dare hope. So soon after Easy and what's more by mistake as well. Sorry to introduce such a naff topic into Saturday but i've gotta say I'm nearly beside meself!

26 Jun 2004

TE
I think you can be safe in the knowledge that she would be treated gently and with respect. Certainly from the regs anyway.!
Big hugs, Alex x x

26 Jun 2004

Quote by westerross
I'm sorry but this will be of limited interest but I've just had a rather strange conversation with Mrs TE.
We were both commiserating over the fact that she's got a stinking cold an that the sports for the evening were OFF! She then said that I'd better visit that Swinging site - :doh: :doh: :doh:
After picking myself up off the ground I pointed out that sex was really not part of the part of the site I visited (did you get that??). I mentioned that the humour and friendliness of the site were really the attractions and she didn't blink an eyelid. I had to warn her that some of the humour is zany in the extreme - she's only a beginner in Bollox - but that everyone really was friendly when you joined. Did she seem to like the idea? I don't know.
Now the question is if she were to venture on here would you lot treat her gently? I really don't know if there is a glimmer there but.... I think I dare hope. So soon after Easy and what's more by mistake as well. Sorry to introduce such a naff topic into Saturday but i've gotta say I'm nearly beside meself!

Remember if she comes on site she can go back easily through your profile and read everything you have written. SO make sure you only say things she will find she is happy with you writing about her my friend biggrin

26 Jun 2004

Bring the lady on Tune ......
mrs davej sits next to me most nights and is a much a part of the posts as I am. Tis true that for the most part its banter and bollox and I have rarely seen anything that has given rise to offence being given or taken. Although why anyone would want a fence is beyond me......ugly bloody things, no you plant a hedge its so much better, yes I know they take a bit of caring for but hey its only a cut once a year and a feed, I mean you dont have to paint a hedge do you ....could'nt really not all them leaves......be there ages.
hope this reassures you

26 Jun 2004

Tune, All i can say is; keep chippimg away (but gently) and maybe, just maybe she'll come round. Be gentle. I love this site, but there are more important things.
I've only just recently (at 43 lol ) discovered the importance of that special friendship.
I have in the past had friends that I would kill for, friends that I would die for; but that special friendship really is something else.
I wish you well, and hope you can find whatever it is you seek.
(Heavy; I know, but heartfelt)

26 Jun 2004

Dave
Whatever it is that you are on - can I have some?
Alex x x

26 Jun 2004

Quote by Alexandra
Dave
Whatever it is that you are on - can I have some?
Alex x x

ssshh I had to be sensible she's standing right next to me......see
(normal bollox will be resumed shortly)

26 Jun 2004

To get back on it ...Tune has your lady sat and read any threads I'm sure that anyone reading them would see that we are just a friendly bunch of characters.

26 Jun 2004

Quote by Morgan
I'm sorry but this will be of limited interest but I've just had a rather strange conversation with Mrs TE.
We were both commiserating over the fact that she's got a stinking cold an that the sports for the evening were OFF! She then said that I'd better visit that Swinging site - :doh: :doh: :doh:
After picking myself up off the ground I pointed out that sex was really not part of the part of the site I visited (did you get that??). I mentioned that the humour and friendliness of the site were really the attractions and she didn't blink an eyelid. I had to warn her that some of the humour is zany in the extreme - she's only a beginner in Bollox - but that everyone really was friendly when you joined. Did she seem to like the idea? I don't know.
Now the question is if she were to venture on here would you lot treat her gently? I really don't know if there is a glimmer there but.... I think I dare hope. So soon after Easy and what's more by mistake as well. Sorry to introduce such a naff topic into Saturday but i've gotta say I'm nearly beside meself!

Remember if she comes on site she can go back easily through your profile and read everything you have written. SO make sure you only say things she will find she is happy with you writing about her my friend biggrin

Wise words from someone with 20 posts - very perceptive - you are that new are you? Thanks.
And a thanks to all those who've indicated a wave

so far. I s'pose I've got to accept it may never happen but.....

26 Jun 2004

Sorry TE - quick Hijack
WooHoo Dave!
You two look great!!!! Lovely pic.
Hello MrsD!!!!!! Nice to meet you.
Hugs, Alex x x
.....end of hijack.....

26 Jun 2004

Quote by Morgan
I'm sorry but this will be of limited interest but I've just had a rather strange conversation with Mrs TE.
We were both commiserating over the fact that she's got a stinking cold an that the sports for the evening were OFF! She then said that I'd better visit that Swinging site - :doh: :doh: :doh:
After picking myself up off the ground I pointed out that sex was really not part of the part of the site I visited (did you get that??). I mentioned that the humour and friendliness of the site were really the attractions and she didn't blink an eyelid. I had to warn her that some of the humour is zany in the extreme - she's only a beginner in Bollox - but that everyone really was friendly when you joined. Did she seem to like the idea? I don't know.
Now the question is if she were to venture on here would you lot treat her gently? I really don't know if there is a glimmer there but.... I think I dare hope. So soon after Easy and what's more by mistake as well. Sorry to introduce such a naff topic into Saturday but i've gotta say I'm nearly beside meself!

Remember if she comes on site she can go back easily through your profile and read everything you have written. SO make sure you only say things she will find she is happy with you writing about her my friend biggrin

Morgan, the old fart in me says "Be open and honest", regardless what it might cost.
I know deffo that my currebt ex reads this site now, and am pretty sure she has actually registered. If I go back and edit my posts; would that not be a lie??
If she's not big enough to see the reality; who has the problem, me; or her.
Of course, I'm speaking metaphoricly(SP); not just about my own situ.
Tune - be nice. Be gentle. It might work

26 Jun 2004

You would be more likely to be shocked by sitting within earwigging distance of any table of 4 or more teenage girls in a pub than by joing this forum .
IMHO

26 Jun 2004

Tune, I really don't there being a problem with anything of yours that Mrs TE might read. You've never pretended to be in any other situation than the one you're in, and to my knowledge, never said anything untoward.
It appears to be a weekend of congratulations. I knw nothing has actually happened for you as yet, but it's certainly looking at least slightly more likely now! So good luck, and if Mrs TE does read this..........Hiya!!! wave

Now TE, get yourself back to the GFZ, there's a loofah with your name on it :twisted:

26 Jun 2004

Quote by dambuster
Morgan, the old fart in me says "Be open and honest", regardless what it might cost.
I know deffo that my currebt ex reads this site now, and am pretty sure she has actually registered. If I go back and edit my posts; would that not be a lie??
If she's not big enough to see the reality; who has the problem, me; or her.
Of course, I'm speaking metaphoricly(SP); not just about my own situ.
Tune - be nice. Be gentle. It might work

Dambuster
It cost me a great deal being honest and open and I agree with what you say but I was also very niave about how the man I loved would react. I would do anything to change that but hey life goes on biggrin

I just think when you write, think before pressing the submit button!!!!!!!

26 Jun 2004

Quote by Morgan
I just think when you write, think before pressing the submit button!!!!!!!

oops! why dont they put that on a sticky ? or in the posting guidelines ? confused

:?
brb, just deleting all my previous posts wink

26 Jun 2004

Quote by Morgan
Dambuster
It cost me a great deal being honest and open and I agree with what you say but I was also very niave about how the man I loved would react. I would do anything to change that but hey life goes on
I just think when you write, think before pressing the submit button!!!!!!!

But would that not dilute the openess and honesty.

27 Jun 2004

Quote by westerross
I'm sorry but this will be of limited interest but I've just had a rather strange conversation with Mrs TE.
We were both commiserating over the fact that she's got a stinking cold an that the sports for the evening were OFF! She then said that I'd better visit that Swinging site - :doh: :doh: :doh:
After picking myself up off the ground I pointed out that sex was really not part of the part of the site I visited (did you get that??). I mentioned that the humour and friendliness of the site were really the attractions and she didn't blink an eyelid. I had to warn her that some of the humour is zany in the extreme - she's only a beginner in Bollox - but that everyone really was friendly when you joined. Did she seem to like the idea? I don't know.

I was the same - Mr RSAB2 nearly had heart failure when I showed an interest.

Now the question is if she were to venture on here would you lot treat her gently? I really don't know if there is a glimmer there but.... I think I dare hope. So soon after Easy and what's more by mistake as well. Sorry to introduce such a naff topic into Saturday but i've gotta say I'm nearly beside meself!

Of course we will - so long as she is clear about the definitions of bollox and how some of us have strange versions! (My fairies are here again!)
I'm sure that if she dips her toe she will soon want to dive in, I did!
Mrs RSAB2 xxx

27 Jun 2004

Thanks again all for the constructive encouragement.

27 Jun 2004

Oh TE how brilliant - when she comes on here, she will just see that you've been completely honest about your situation from the start. Not sought anything other than online friendship. In your own words - just a load of ol bollox really :lol2:
Look forward to meeting her
Hello MrsTE
and don't worry, we will look after her. If she has any questions or worries she doesn't want to put in the forum, then let her know she can always PM me, or anyone really.
Be careful tho, she might get the bug and you won't get a look in on the forums anymore :shock:
Ooooh Ooooh and and and, you can both come to the munches :bounce: she will love em, honest, just a good ol get together with loads of people you know but haven't actually seen before, quite surreal, but quite brilliant too!

28 Jun 2004

8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-)
Very happy for you mate. See you didn't need my (useless) advice after all.
How does she know that you visit this place? Get the feeling she may have been checking over your old posts anyway?
Put yourself in her place. If you discovered that she'd been visiting a swinging site would you have a shuftie round just to see what it was all about? :shock: wink

I'm just happy that everythings out in the open for you now mate biggrin

and of course I'll be nice to her. :wink: :rascal: :P lol

:lol: :lol: :lol: