( for want of a better word ) has made me feel as though I'm having to gain entry into the inner circle again ( without much success )
If it helps....I'm considered quite good at gaining access to inner circles :P
Act in haste
repent at leisure
sassy please dont leave, I dont know whats gone on, but hold tight and ride it a bit like knitting, the jumper might not be shaping up like you expected, but dont undo it all, just put it down and you can always come back to it later.
ive never been a part of any inner circle, or magic one come to that lol but i hang about on the fringes sometimes i get very involved, lots of socials, meets, active in threads life and soul of chat room and sometimes this place makes me wanna scream, but its also a comfort blanket when im bored, or fed up and dont wanna face the real world but need some company.
ok as for acting on impluse... probally posting this thread cuse although the intention is true, ive probally posted a load of gabble lol i was desperate to get it in to stop you leaving lol.
impulse... i tend to think wayyyyyy to much about everything, ive gone into card shops before and taken hours to decide. i often go home empty handed cuse i cant make desisions. so sometimes impulse is good.
god i ramble
xxx fem xxxxxx
What you been up to then you daft bint!
Ive been away too, but thats cos Ive been on kink fest which takes up most of our weekends and also been away to the city of kinkiness that is San Francisco again....
I love this place though. People here are just so welcoming and nice and sometimes bitchy and horrid too but thats life isnt it.
I mean Im not all sweetness and light myself you know. Dont let this sugar coated exterior fool you Sassy, Im a bitch in sheeps clothing. (hey who mentioned mutton??)
Anyway, dont cancel, dont do anything. Enjoy life and your postings on here. I for one, enjoy reading them.
Big hugs and kisses
Mr and Mrs 39 xxx
Sorry if this is off topic, but do you realise that the mention of this 'inner circle' just perpetuates the whole clique mythology that this forum suffers from!
Back on topic, per Sassy's original post....I suffer badly from impulse action....particularly at work. To the extent where I will now try to compose letters/emails etc then review and send the next day because sometimes you can just get so caught up in the moment that you are not seeing the full picture clearly.
Step away from the keyboard, Sassy, take a few deep breaths....
...go geocaching!!!...
Then think about that delete account button.
You might not change your decision, but you'll be doing it clear headed.
Sassy,just out of interest....
Has that bloke chased you down the street with flowers yet?
My biggest regret on acting on impulse is the number of time I FAILED TO ACT.
I'm really not an impulse person and it's crippling sometimes. I wish I could learn to do it.
) but I have to ask myself if it's enough to make me want to cut off ties with this place altogether though that added to a little recent 'misunderstanding' ( for want of a better word ) has made me feel as though I'm having to gain entry into the inner circle again ( without much success ) 
both here and in Vanillasville too! 
ops: impulse one night stands :oops: impulse just-one-drink-after-work-that-turned-into-an-all-night-bender-despite-meeting-next-day :oops: impulse kissing of friends when really you should know better :oops: impulse accepting new jobs and moving to the other end of the country without thinking things through....
I guess it's better as I'm not in as much trouble as I previously was though ;)
