Hello, firstly if this is posted in the wrong section then please accept my apology's.
I was after a little information before i take the plunge as it where and go to Adam and Eve's. I am quite nervous about going to a club as it will be my first time (aawww i here you say) no but really i am. I am a little unsure as to what to expect and quite what the etiquette is. I'm sure the people there will do there best to make me feel welcome but i dont really want to stand out as being a total newbie to the whole thing.
I guess what i am asking is what can i expect when i get there and is there any unwritten laws i should be aware of, obviously respect for all others and just plain old good manners go without saying.
thanks for your help in advance.
Quietguy
ps. is there cross dressing allowed there?
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Adam and eves (Manchester)
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The unwritten rules are respect and good manners so you sound as though you've got that bit covered. Adams is a small friendly club and you will be made welcome. You will need to get changed when you arrive - a towel is provided but shorts or boxers are ok too.
Take your time, chat to people, including the other single guys who will be a mine of information, and watch what goes on. Relax about being new, everyone had to have a first time and no one will be bothered that it's your turn.
Cross dressing is not common there but not unknown. It would be better not to dress on your first visit though - chat to the staff about it and ask what might be a good time. If cross dressing is important then club Selecta in Farnworth, or the T-gurls nights at Toga Toga (google sauna sauna northwich) might be a better bet for you.
Hope that helps.
ps take the club reviews here with a large pinch of salt - ignore most of the glowing ones and the ones that slag a place off - they are usually written by people with vested interests.
Take your time, chat to people, including the other single guys who will be a mine of information, and watch what goes on. Relax about being new, everyone had to have a first time and no one will be bothered that it's your turn.
Cross dressing is not common there but not unknown. It would be better not to dress on your first visit though - chat to the staff about it and ask what might be a good time. If cross dressing is important then club Selecta in Farnworth, or the T-gurls nights at Toga Toga (google sauna sauna northwich) might be a better bet for you.
Hope that helps.
ps take the club reviews here with a large pinch of salt - ignore most of the glowing ones and the ones that slag a place off - they are usually written by people with vested interests.
I have been going to Adam & Eves for quite a few years now. I suppose everyone has their own likes and dislikes, but I find it a very friendly place where it is easy to sit and relax, and get chatting to people.
You are absolutely right that politeness is very important. If you treat people with respect you should be fine. Remember that just because it's a swingers club, it doesn't mean every man / woman / couple wants to have sex with everyone else.
It might take a while to get used to the etiquette as a newbie, but remember everyone was a first-timer the first time, so they understand. Just relax and enjoy it!
I haven't seen much cross dressing there, but they say variety is the spice of life. The fact that everyone has to change into a towel or undies when they arrive is a great leveller, and any nerves usually only last a few minutes.
See you there soon
Steve
You are absolutely right that politeness is very important. If you treat people with respect you should be fine. Remember that just because it's a swingers club, it doesn't mean every man / woman / couple wants to have sex with everyone else.
It might take a while to get used to the etiquette as a newbie, but remember everyone was a first-timer the first time, so they understand. Just relax and enjoy it!
I haven't seen much cross dressing there, but they say variety is the spice of life. The fact that everyone has to change into a towel or undies when they arrive is a great leveller, and any nerves usually only last a few minutes.
See you there soon
Steve
Hello again,
thanks to all those that replied some good advice, and thanks for letting me know about wearing the towels once you get inside would of flustered me a bit possibley if i hadn't been expecting it.
Well as you will of guessed by now i have been and paid a visit to Adam and Eves. However having spent the afternoon there i still found myself a little lost now this is probably just me being to shy to ask the people there. First up i wasn't really shown around and just had to wander around and get a feel for the place myself. anyway i think i found all the rooms and worked out what each one was for. i was a little disappointed that hardly anyone spoke to me even when i sat in the room with the pool table which i assume is just a lounge area. most of the chating seemed to be at reception area but this was between two couples who seemed to know each other however one couple was in towels the others fully dressed so i didnt want to try an join in.
In the end i decided to just ennjoy some of the videos that where being shown in the various room then this is where i really knew i was a newbie, ok so your watching a porn film, and its ok to have a play with yourself while you watch. but its getting near hometime and you want to cum. obviously you need to ensure it is kept off the furniture etc. so what is the correct proceedure do you cum on your towel and then go and ask for a clean one? get some toilet paper and cum on that or put a condom on? i didn't have a clue so chose the safe option got myself real close then went to toilet to finish the job off. but what would of been acceptable?
thanks again
quetguy
thanks to all those that replied some good advice, and thanks for letting me know about wearing the towels once you get inside would of flustered me a bit possibley if i hadn't been expecting it.
Well as you will of guessed by now i have been and paid a visit to Adam and Eves. However having spent the afternoon there i still found myself a little lost now this is probably just me being to shy to ask the people there. First up i wasn't really shown around and just had to wander around and get a feel for the place myself. anyway i think i found all the rooms and worked out what each one was for. i was a little disappointed that hardly anyone spoke to me even when i sat in the room with the pool table which i assume is just a lounge area. most of the chating seemed to be at reception area but this was between two couples who seemed to know each other however one couple was in towels the others fully dressed so i didnt want to try an join in.
In the end i decided to just ennjoy some of the videos that where being shown in the various room then this is where i really knew i was a newbie, ok so your watching a porn film, and its ok to have a play with yourself while you watch. but its getting near hometime and you want to cum. obviously you need to ensure it is kept off the furniture etc. so what is the correct proceedure do you cum on your towel and then go and ask for a clean one? get some toilet paper and cum on that or put a condom on? i didn't have a clue so chose the safe option got myself real close then went to toilet to finish the job off. but what would of been acceptable?
thanks again
quetguy
ok thanks for all the replies been really helpful, most of my questions have been answered just one regarding cross dressing? is it allowed or is it just not the done thing?
i'm guessing at adam and eves its not the done thing as from what i can gather it's everyone in towels even the ladies dont get dressed up.
if you could advise me on this i would be greatful if not no worries i will just have to ask the receptionist next time i go.
Again thanks for all your help and advise it is and has been very much appreciated.
cheers
quietguy
i'm guessing at adam and eves its not the done thing as from what i can gather it's everyone in towels even the ladies dont get dressed up.
if you could advise me on this i would be greatful if not no worries i will just have to ask the receptionist next time i go.
Again thanks for all your help and advise it is and has been very much appreciated.
cheers
quietguy
We have seen someone dressed on a couple of occasions but it is by no means common. However, the club is fairly liberated - have a word at the bar and see what the staff advise.
If you've only seen women in towels it just means that you've not been often enough, or you've been at the wrong times Try a Friday or Saturday night, or a Sunday afternoon.
As I said earlier, if you're looking for a club that is very TV friendly try Selecta or a Toga Toga T-gurl night.
If you've only seen women in towels it just means that you've not been often enough, or you've been at the wrong times
Try a Friday or Saturday night, or a Sunday afternoon.As I said earlier, if you're looking for a club that is very TV friendly try Selecta or a Toga Toga T-gurl night.
