Edit: I did not post the above post twice - honestly!!
i dont have a personal ad on the site but still manage to arrane meets one to one or otherwise
Earthy xx
Well i aint got an add and i have a meet soon took a while to do but i think im better for that any way.
Im not keen on ads for some reason so i havent done one.
Maybe its fear of no replys. But more likly i'm just not over keen on them
Definately not....I have made some great contacts through the forums. I prefer to get to know someone that way rather than look at the ads and just go on that information.
I think it depends who the ad is aimed at. As a single fem my ad for bi fems hasn't brought much luck but when I placed an ad for single men, I had over 200 replies and had to take the ad off within a week! :shock:
I've had more luck as far as bi fems are concerned in the forums and chatrooms using than the ad system and vice versa when looking for single men.
Only managed one meet as a single and that didnt origionate as a direct result of my ads..
So it seems an ad is not strictly required but I have noticed a lot of women/couples who say in the chatrooms when approached by a guy " there's nothing in your profile,no ads,no pictures" so it would seem an ad with a simple picture may be a help in some instances..