Advice for first timers

25 Apr 2004

Hi all,
My girlfriend and I are very new to all of this and we want to take things quite slowly to start with, we want to start by my girlfriend exposing herself a little and maybe the two of us being watched while we have a little fun before we think about involving another person. What is the best way to do this without getting peoples hopes up if we're not going to go all the way (and without getting arrested wink

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Is there an etiquette to follow? etc.
Any advice would be appreciated

25 Apr 2004

hello to you both and welcome to the world of swinging :welcome:
I have not been into the swinging world for long myself but the only advice that i can give you is be up front with whomever you choose and there should be no problem.
Also don't expect miracles overnight,we all come here with ideals but often they don't match saying that there are lots of people here so some dreams come true.
There are enough people here with differing tastes so i'm sure that you'll find someone for you both,have fun

25 Apr 2004

Quote by chris19802
we want to start by my girlfriend exposing herself a little and maybe the two of us being watched while we have a little fun
Is there an etiquette to follow? etc.

Hi Chris
Welcome to the Forum. You are right, there is an etiquette to follow. It is the custom in these parts that your girlfriend exposes herself for the first time in the company of the Head of Security (ND) in order that he can verify that things are being done in accordance with EU Regulation 4571, before moving on to the being watched having a little fun stage, which surprisingly, should also be observed by the same Head of Security. :shock: wink

:wink: :wink:
Pleas let me know when I can assist you with this matter. :wink: lol

:lol: :lol:

25 Apr 2004

SARGE!!! you may well be head of security but I believe EU thingies may come under MY duristiction flipa

... Thinking did I mention Man U lost 1-0 ... lol

..no leave it