Hi everyone,
i would appriciate any advice and help on the subject of anal sex.
i am a bi guy with only limited experience on anal sex (receiving) i have tried it a few times and nearly every time the pain is just too much! is there a better position for the guy receiving? the thought is very appealing but when i get down to it the pain is a big turn off even with the guy being gentle. i am relaxed ( i think!) but cannot seem to get over this barrier.
thanks
Simon
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i think the best way to go about anal if your new is start with something smaller, maybe a small vib or something, loads of lube and slowly build up to a willy lol i know im female but a bums a bum after all and for ages i was ok with something thinner, and i do think its the width with anal not how long it is, but not having a man inside me, maybe get a smaller dildo and try it at home a few times alone so you can build up to it in your own time.
thanks for the advice!!
i have tried it at home (alone!) lol and with a thin vib and that seems ok but it is when i try it with the real thing it hurts!! i think i might try and build up as you suggest to a slightly bigger one (width wise) and get used to that first and see if i can stretch myself a wee bit.
thanks again
Simon xx p.s great pics on your profile!! very horny indeed. x
i have tried it at home (alone!) lol and with a thin vib and that seems ok but it is when i try it with the real thing it hurts!! i think i might try and build up as you suggest to a slightly bigger one (width wise) and get used to that first and see if i can stretch myself a wee bit.
thanks again
Simon xx p.s great pics on your profile!! very horny indeed. x
Sex God
sometimes the, ahem, 'angle of insertion' makes a difference too..... 
I love anal most of the time, i find it easier to cum from that rather than oral, but occasionally it'll be bloody sore and bring tears to my eyes!
I always reckon if that had happened first time I tried it, I'd never try again!
I have definately found there is a certain way for it to go in, where it just 'slides in' with no effort whatsoever.....
I don't imagine there's one position that is easier for everyone, you'll just have to practice lots
- but as naughty nymphos have already said- you definately have to work up to it.
Hope this helps,
Maz xx
I love anal most of the time, i find it easier to cum from that rather than oral, but occasionally it'll be bloody sore and bring tears to my eyes!
I always reckon if that had happened first time I tried it, I'd never try again!
I have definately found there is a certain way for it to go in, where it just 'slides in' with no effort whatsoever.....
I don't imagine there's one position that is easier for everyone, you'll just have to practice lots
- but as naughty nymphos have already said- you definately have to work up to it.Hope this helps,
Maz xx
Sex God
As everyone has said, u need to be nice and relaxed and to use loads of lube.
I also find lying on my side works for me aswell.
Miss Cream xxx
I also find lying on my side works for me aswell.
Miss Cream xxx
Quote by sexmadandup4it
Hi everyone,
i would appriciate any advice and help on the subject of anal sex.
i am a bi guy with only limited experience on anal sex (receiving) i have tried it a few times and nearly every time the pain is just too much! is there a better position for the guy receiving? the thought is very appealing but when i get down to it the pain is a big turn off even with the guy being gentle. i am relaxed ( i think!) but cannot seem to get over this barrier.
thanks
Simon
Have you considered becoming a masochist?
Sex God
One thing I do now wonder is what the difference between ass and pussy?
I had always assumed that it would feel very different, much tighter etc, and that would be where the enjoyment came for for the guy.
Den said that he actually doesn't notice any difference between the two, and then I asked 'so why bother?' (apart from the fact that I really enjoy it :twisted: )
He said it's more to do with it being a bit still, a bit more dirty than the norm, that makes it more of a turn on and even more enjoyable.
Thoughts please!!
M xx
I had always assumed that it would feel very different, much tighter etc, and that would be where the enjoyment came for for the guy.
Den said that he actually doesn't notice any difference between the two, and then I asked 'so why bother?' (apart from the fact that I really enjoy it :twisted: )
He said it's more to do with it being a bit still, a bit more dirty than the norm, that makes it more of a turn on and even more enjoyable.
Thoughts please!!
M xx
Sex God
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i have found that being drunk makes it easier for me....maybe its cos i am more relaxed, or maybe the alcohol numbs the pain
but it works for me, although I miles prefer the front entrance LOL
:spit: 
:inlove: Sex God
Quote by mazandden
One thing I do now wonder is what the difference between ass and pussy?
I had always assumed that it would feel very different, much tighter etc, and that would be where the enjoyment came for for the guy.
Den said that he actually doesn't notice any difference between the two, and then I asked 'so why bother?' (apart from the fact that I really enjoy it :twisted: )
He said it's more to do with it being a bit still, a bit more dirty than the norm, that makes it more of a turn on and even more enjoyable.
Thoughts please!!
M xx
It does feel different, but it depends what mood you're in.
The ass feels tighter, which is nice, and grips the base of the cock in a different way. The pussy though is all nice and squelchy, and feels much warmer, sometimes hot depending on the woman. Also depending on if the woman's got good muscle control, there are extra ripply effects that are just … mmmmmmm.
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
i have found that being drunk makes it easier for me....maybe its cos i am more relaxed, or maybe the alcohol numbs the pain
but it works for me, although I miles prefer the front entrance LOL
Ha ha me too Boney!! Also taking it easy on entrance, pushing in slightly then waiting for the muscles to relax before pushing in further.
Me too preferring the front entrance.
pink x
