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Forum Virgin
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hi there
my gf really wants to meet a woman or be chatted up in a pub by a woman
i know what ur saying why dot you just post on here for a single woman ....
i would do that but shes really not into these sites so that makes it a little difficult for me
so .... any advice on where to go around brighton/ sussex area??? that would be more likely to happen
thx
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Brighton! And you are having trouble finding a woman to chat up yer missus? Jeepers. Send us her phone number n I will get minx to drag her to almost any bar there.
Sexlightened
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Brighton! Send us her phone number n I will get minx to drag her to almost any bar there.

You saying brighton girls are easy. ok you have a point smile
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Brighton! Send us her phone number n I will get minx to drag her to almost any bar there.

You saying brighton girls are easy. ok you have a point smile
Or alternatively, perhaps there are lots of gay / bi women in Brighton, it being renowned as an easy going relaxed place where gay / bi women might feel comfortable expressing their sexuality, without in any way casting aspersions on their sexual availability or looseness of morals.
Now doesn't that sound better? lol :P
N x x x ;)
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Or alternatively, perhaps there are lots of gay / bi women in Brighton, it being renowned as an easy going relaxed place where gay / bi women might feel comfortable expressing their sexuality, without in any way casting aspersions on their sexual availability or looseness of morals.
Now doesn't that sound better? lol :P
N x x x ;)

slightly... but I still like my one better. the thought of half of brighton chasing ben down the street is a sight i would like to see smile
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Quote by Ben_Minx
Brighton! And you are having trouble finding a woman to chat up yer missus? Jeepers. Send us her phone number n I will get minx to drag her to almost any bar there.

:sad: You must make some allowance for people's social skills and confidence in expressing their sexuality. What may come very easily to you is obviously a great hurdle to the OP. And not sure dragging would help, either lol Totally sympathise - also in Brighton and couldn't/can't pull a woman to save my life!
Forum Virgin
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yer dont think dragging would be the word in this case tbh smile
and pebble maybe u should tell me where u go drinking in brighton :P
also correct on the social skills and confidence
where some people are full of confidence and others just lack in this area which the gf does
so this could take a little longer to find some1 to plat with
but im sure if we go out into brighton enough we will find some one to play with ....well me watching biggrin
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Quote by pebble
:sad: You must make some allowance for people's social skills and confidence in expressing their sexuality. What may come very easily to you is obviously a great hurdle to the OP. And not sure dragging would help, either lol Totally sympathise - also in Brighton and couldn't/can't pull a woman to save my life!

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yer dont think dragging would be the word in this case tbh smile
and pebble maybe u should tell me where u go drinking in brighton :P
also correct on the social skills and confidence
where some people are full of confidence and others just lack in this area which the gf does
so this could take a little longer to find some1 to plat with
but im sure if we go out into brighton enough we will find some one to play with ....well me watching biggrin

hmmmmm Lisa suddenly wants a weekend in brighton :twisted:
wave:wave:
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Quote by nuaghty monkey
hi there
my gf really wants to meet a woman or be chatted up in a pub by a woman
i know what ur saying why dot you just post on here for a single woman ....
i would do that but shes really not into these sites so that makes it a little difficult for me
so .... any advice on where to go around brighton/ sussex area??? that would be more likely to happen
thx

Is she aware your posting this?
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Quote by Ben_Minx
Brighton! And you are having trouble finding a woman to chat up yer missus? Jeepers. Send us her phone number n I will get minx to drag her to almost any bar there.

:laughabove:
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Quote by nuaghty monkey
hi there
my gf really wants to meet a woman or be chatted up in a pub by a woman
i know what ur saying why dot you just post on here for a single woman ....
i would do that but shes really not into these sites so that makes it a little difficult for me
so .... any advice on where to go around brighton/ sussex area??? that would be more likely to happen
thx

Your profile says that you're single.
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we are kind of in the same position. Posted adds here but to no avail.
But we are looking for herts or midlands
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Have you been to any of the club meets or socials advertised on here?
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Have you been to any of the club meets or socials advertised on here?

Not sure if that was for us or the other couple..
but we havent yet
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I cant remember aiming it at anybody, it just seemed important to point out. In essence swinging is like anything else. You get out what you put in. Yep you can join a website and expect to find the dream fantasy fuck from the thousands of tourists time wasters and genuine people. You can increase your chances significantly by getting out and about and meeting other people who swing. The easiest way to start doing that is to go to munches social and club meets advertised on here I reckon. Just a thought like.
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Hi, I've no questions regarding your "single" profile, but I do recommend you follow ben's advice and go to a social and meet genuine people if you wish to pursue this as a couple.
The other thing, more in response to your post is that you could take her along to bristol gardens, on the couples only weekend session if you prefer. There are some attractive bi and gay ladies who go there from time to time, but of course I'm assuming that your g.f. is up for this.
If you're just hoping for a spontaneous encounter then there are some obvious bars just east of brighton pier and popular with girls of all ages. After that any bar in St. James street will attract gay women and men as well as the hetro and not sure crowd. I use the thomas kemp and the sidewinder regularly and both see lesbian customers as the norm. It's also highly likely that any bar with a large staff bank will employ gay bar staff, male and female.