Hey there to all! I dont know about anyone else but as a newbie couple we would love some advice from experienced couples BEFORE we go about shagging the local district lol. A bit of gentle reassurance would be great. Its a shame that we cant go to munches but i understand why but they do seem the perect place to get all the info we need...help! who do i need to sleep with to get in?
Anyone please feel free to give us a shout
Angie
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Advice Please xxx
This sort of question is generally asked in the cafe so you might find it moved.
:welcome: to the mad house :giggle:
Everyone is nervous when they are trying something new, this thread might be of use to you:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
You might like to put a bit information in your profile about yourself, and some tastefully done pictures they dont have to be nude ones and you can mask your faces.
You say you cant go to munches
I cant see why not if you are full members, them and socials are a great way to get to know people. The cafe is good to can get a bit addictive 
but its a great source of information and fun way to chat to like minded people.
Hope this helps you and that we see more of you, happy :swingingchair:
:welcome: to the mad house :giggle:
Everyone is nervous when they are trying something new, this thread might be of use to you:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
You might like to put a bit information in your profile about yourself, and some tastefully done pictures they dont have to be nude ones and you can mask your faces.
You say you cant go to munches
I cant see why not if you are full members, them and socials are a great way to get to know people. The cafe is good to can get a bit addictive but its a great source of information and fun way to chat to like minded people.Hope this helps you and that we see more of you, happy :swingingchair:
Casanova
& :welcome: I understand your frustration at wanting to jump straight in and attend a munch, but once you have been here for awhile you will understand that the rules are there to protect everyone,you the newbie included. Theres no rush take your time to look around the site read the stickys and get to know what swinging is all about.
A Munch is open to all - couples, singles, Gay, Bi, CDs, etc., there are no limits. The exception to this is thebrand new newbie, i.e. those who have just joined the site or have not been an active participant on Swinging Heaven. This is only to prevent gawpers, journalists and those who are just TOO curious. Remember, if you are keen to attend a Munch and meet other swingers, but are considered too new for this one, join in and keep posting because there'll be another Munch coming along shortly.
Taken from here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/132221.html
Relax,take your time and above all have fun.
Nicky
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Quote by Ukwineman
oh I never knew thatprobable because I never went to one yet 1) I could not go and the others are to far away. Exception being manchester
So who was impersonating you at Louise's London meeting then ... I distinctly remember being told the tall slim guy in the room was you
DD
Quote by devondelight
oh I never knew that
So who was impersonating you at Louise's London meeting then ... I distinctly remember being told the tall slim guy in the room was you
DD
That was a social of which I have been to several now, but I have never been to a munch, was trying to get to Bristol but events took over sadly
and why did you not come and say hello
:smackbottom: Quote by Ukwineman
oh I never knew that
So who was impersonating you at Louise's London meeting then ... I distinctly remember being told the tall slim guy in the room was you
DD
That was a social of which I have been to several now, but I have never been to a munch, was trying to get to Bristol but events took over sadly
and why did you not come and say hello
:smackbottom:Erm I was shy
DD
Quote by devondelight
oh
DD
That was a social of which I have been to several now, but I have never been to a munch, was trying to get to Bristol but events took over sadly
and why did you not come and say hello
:smackbottom:Erm I was shy
DD
Even if you had said hello DD he was too busy talking plumbing and other manly things. I did try to distract him but even flashing my tits didnt work
Quote by buckingfabe
oh
DD
That was a social of which I have been to several now, but I have never been to a munch, was trying to get to Bristol but events took over sadly
and why did you not come and say hello
:smackbottom:Erm I was shy
DD
Even if you had said hello DD he was too busy talking plumbing and other manly things. I did try to distract him but even flashing my tits didnt work
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
Quote by buckingfabe
oh
DD
That was a social of which I have been to several now, but I have never been to a munch, was trying to get to Bristol but events took over sadly
and why did you not come and say hello
:smackbottom:Erm I was shy
DD
Even if you had said hello DD he was too busy talking plumbing and other manly things. I did try to distract him but even flashing my tits didnt work
I think you might find the others things were me talking to a very sexy lady who got me all of a flutter
Quote by Ukwineman
oh
DD
That was a social of which I have been to several now, but I have never been to a munch, was trying to get to Bristol but events took over sadly
and why did you not come and say hello
:smackbottom:Erm I was shy
DD
Even if you had said hello DD he was too busy talking plumbing and other manly things. I did try to distract him but even flashing my tits didnt work
I think you might find the others things were me talking to a very sexy lady who got me all of a flutter
Well then it would have been very rude of us to interrupt you both ...
DD
Quote by Ukwineman
oh
DD
That was a social of which I have been to several now, but I have never been to a munch, was trying to get to Bristol but events took over sadly
and why did you not come and say hello
:smackbottom:Erm I was shy
DD
Even if you had said hello DD he was too busy talking plumbing and other manly things. I did try to distract him but even flashing my tits didnt work
I think you might find the others things were me talking to a very sexy lady who got me all of a flutter
Who on earth was that then? I only saw you talking to guys
hwoar: Hi Mo-paul - what really worked for us is to have a simple rule - at any point in the proceedings, no matter how early on or how far we've got to, either of us can say "I want to go home now". And we'd go, no pressure, excuses, or explanations required. No matter how much the other one is enjoying themselves. We just go. As it happens, we've never had to call up each other on that rule, but it still stands and it's rock solid. Basically, it's good to walk into a room knowing that - it's okay, I can change my mind, my partner is with me.
Good luck - you'll have heaps of fun, I'm sure of it.
Good luck - you'll have heaps of fun, I'm sure of it.