age issues

20 Nov 2005

hi there. im a 24 year old black male, i actually do not know why i always have to put black in but its been a habit for some odd reason. anyways i have always been interested in older women, 30s-40s and always wanted to have sex with one. the only problem is i can never seem to meet one, and if i never know how to tell them what i am thinking, but find telling 20yo fairly simple. what i would like to know really, is do older women really like younger guys, or is this just a fantasy i have cooked up in my sick twisted head? and if they do, and i meet one that i like (which is usually when shopping,at work or one of those odd ocassions), how do i let them know that i am interested in them in that sort of way. please help me on this one.
oh and if there are any older women on the site who do not mind a younger male i would be very much interested wink

vincie

20 Nov 2005

There's plenty in the photo-ads. Have fun - hope you find what you want.

20 Nov 2005

It would have been far simpler to put a post in LMU that said '24 year old black male wants to meet ladies aged 30-40'.

20 Nov 2005

xxx

20 Nov 2005

Hi hun, welcome to the site.
I am sure you will have no trouble finding older ladies to get together with. Post more about yourself and join in on the forums for a better chance of this happening though.
Good luck..... I am sure you won't need it.
x

20 Nov 2005

there are lots of women who like younger guys, i would suggest you post a add in the lets me up section and don't hold your breath

20 Nov 2005

xxx

20 Nov 2005

thank you for your replies guys, i will try the ad posting idea definitely. and im sorry if i made it seem like 40 was old, i indeed did just mean older than me, like a considerable age gap.

20 Nov 2005

Actually i have just read your post again as i didn't remember you saying 40 was old, and on the re read nope you deffo didn't say 30-40 was old just older which is it

20 Nov 2005

Quote by janeandwill
Posted by Jane seriously trying to convince herself that 40 isn't old, and dreading her next birthday for some reason.

You don't look that old sweetheart, I would have sworn you were 10 years younger wink

20 Nov 2005

i know this is like totally changing the topic, but whats a munch? :shock:

20 Nov 2005

a munch is a social meet arranged on swinging heaven by a member for the members, its usually held in a 'normal' put, usually in a funtion room so away from other pub users, great way to meet genuine members :thumbup:

20 Nov 2005

Quote by janeandwill
30 - 40 isn't really old. Older than you are - yes! but in the scheme of things even 40 is not considered to be old.
You have just as much chance getting together with a lady in this age group as one is her 20's if you treat her as an individual. Age is but a number and attitude is far more of a sign of maturity than how many birthdays you have had.

Posted by Jane seriously trying to convince herself that 40 isn't old, and dreading her next birthday for some reason.
OK so how do i word my add " a guy with a lot of attitude"
Jane look at it as lifes just beginning

20 Nov 2005

it sounds good, have you ever been to one. i was surfing the site and saw a snog munch

i honestly got confused coz from what had read earlier i thought that a munch was just for chating and meeting there any other lingo i need to know for this site. oh and does anyone know what tc/ts/tv/cd stand not too sure about tc though

20 Nov 2005

Quote by Amber
Hi hun, welcome to the site.
I am sure you will have no trouble finding older ladies to get together with. Post more about yourself and join in on the forums for a better chance of this happening though.
Good luck..... I am sure you won't need it.
x

Quote by naughtynymphos1
there are lots of women who like younger guys, i would suggest you post an add in the lets me up section and don't hold your breath

Why didn't you all tell me that a 1000 posts ago :!: Drops everything including his trousers wink

and runs off to the LMU (Just watch it plummet down the pages :cry: ).
Regards
Harry Jones

20 Nov 2005

xxx

20 Nov 2005

thank you janeandwill, helped quite a lot actually smile

20 Nov 2005

Quote by janeandwill
30 - 40 isn't really old. Older than you are - yes! but in the scheme of things even 40 is not considered to be old.
You have just as much chance getting together with a lady in this age group as one is her 20's if you treat her as an individual. Age is but a number and attitude is far more of a sign of maturity than how many birthdays you have had.

Posted by Jane seriously trying to convince herself that 40 isn't old, and dreading her next birthday for some reason.
40 ISN'T old, Jane.
I'm older than that, AND I became a grandmother 5 months ago, and I certainly don't feel old. Anyway, your age has nothing to do with how old you are. I'm 17, and always will be wink

20 Nov 2005

Quote by Vincie
hi there. im a 24 year old black male, i actually do not know why i always have to put black in but its been a habit for some odd reason.

Why is it any more strange to put "black" in than it is to put "24 year old" in? They're both things that contribute to giving a good description of yourself.
So if you think your skin colour is "kind of neat" and will attract people then there's no reason why you shouldn't mention it. It's just the same as me mentioning my huge cock and double jointed tongue...
M.

21 Nov 2005

Quote by Mark Horne
hi there. im a 24 year old black male, i actually do not know why i always have to put black in but its been a habit for some odd reason.

Why is it any more strange to put "black" in than it is to put "24 year old" in? They're both things that contribute to giving a good description of yourself.
So if you think your skin colour is "kind of neat" and will attract people then there's no reason why you shouldn't mention it. It's just the same as me mentioning my huge cock and double jointed tongue...
M.
I can breathe though my ears too!

21 Nov 2005

I am 43 and, to be honest, would never meet up with a 24 year old bloke. There are two reasons for this, firstly, my kids are only a couple of years younger (22 and 19) so that makes it feel a little odd. Secondly, I have done it in the past and just find we have nothing in common to talk about..when I meet someone I don't just want a quick shag, I like to talk as well and, well, there's just so little I have to say to someone in their 20s. I've also got to say that no matter what anyone says about the sexual peak thing, all the best sex I have had has been from guys in their late 30s/40s, it's experience over stamina. wink

Still, that's just my opinion and I know others don't agree, so good luck with what you are looking for, I'm sure you will find it. biggrin

21 Nov 2005

Quote by HarryJones
Why didn't you all tell me that a 1000 posts ago :!: Drops everything including his trousers and runs off to the LMU (Just watch it plummet down the pages :cry: ).
Regards
Harry Jones

Harry - in the interests of health and Safety, could I suggest that you don't drop your trousers until you have safely reached the LMU. Running with them around your ankles is just too dangerous.

21 Nov 2005

Quote by amalthea
all the best sex I have had has been from guys in their late 30s/40s, it's experience over stamina.

All the more reason to visit Bristols , ooops sorry, I meant Bristol, difficulty focussing elsewhere than the avatar lol

21 Nov 2005

Quote by Alexandra
Why didn't you all tell me that a 1000 posts ago :!: Drops everything including his trousers and runs off to the LMU (Just watch it plummet down the pages :cry: ).
Regards
Harry Jones

Harry - in the interests of health and Safety, could I suggest that you don't drop your trousers until you have safely reached the LMU. Running with them around your ankles is just too dangerous.
Thank you for your concern Aunty Alex, unfortunately it is too late and I have already broken my nose falling over in my haste to post (and I think I've got a positive response already biggrin

)
Regards
Harry Jones

21 Nov 2005

Quote by HarryJones
Why didn't you all tell me that a 1000 posts ago :!: Drops everything including his trousers and runs off to the LMU (Just watch it plummet down the pages :cry: ).
Regards
Harry Jones

Harry - in the interests of health and Safety, could I suggest that you don't drop your trousers until you have safely reached the LMU. Running with them around your ankles is just too dangerous.
Thank you for your concern Aunty Alex, unfortunately it is too late and I have already broken my nose falling over in my haste to post (and I think I've got a positive response already biggrin

)
Regards
Harry Jones
How can you have broken your nose............ when you hit the floor something else would have landed first.............. your nose would have been at least 9 inches off the floor rolleyes

:wink:

21 Nov 2005

Quote by Him'nHer
How can you have broken your nose............ when you hit the floor something else would have landed first.............. your nose would have been at least 9 inches off the floor

:D :D