I think sometimes people might put that, meaning that age/looks are not the only things that matter. They might be lower down on the list of priorities - say if you only wanted a man with a 12", thick cock :shock: In other words, as long as they get the primary criterion correct, the others aren't as significant.
Although I don't doubt that there are people out there who will fuck anything that doesn't get out of the way quick enough :giggle:
I wouldn't say you're over sensitive, but maybe you should avoid the people who type age/looks unimportant in their profile!
Only profiles with age/looks unimportant on them are willing to meet me anyway :lol2:
I agree with the others above - and you just can't believe anyone who uses that phrase really means it, can you.
By the way, see also here:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/301768.html
I wouldn't respond to an advert that used that line. It would automatically put me off a profile also. Not really sure why other than it screams desperate somehow. Age also matters to me. I don't want to fuck someone I could have given birth to and likewise I don't want to fuck someone old enough to be my dad.
I don't necessary think that looks are the first and most important thing for me... if someone gets me mentally and vice versa then that's way more important. There obviously needs to be a spark but for me that comes with getting to know someone. I never did -meets so I've never had to worry about the getting to know afterwards, I've always done that first.
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Of course age looks are important, if it wasn’t they’d be queuing outside my door day and night ....
Now, my opinion is very different to Kaz and I did have this discussion with someone in the chatroom the other day.
I am here for sex. If I am looking for a meet then I have to find the person/people physically attractive. When I am just looking for a meet then I dont need to get to know a person's personality, I am not looking to form a reationship. Sex is a physical thing!!
Yes I am shallow!!
Now there are some people who I have got to know and class as friends. Some of these people I may not initially find attractive but when I get to know them I find their personalities attractive and then yes I would play with them.
For me, the age/looks not important thing is a bit put off. It gives the impression that a shag is a shag and it doesnt matter who it's with.
pmsl Kaz. I'm even more shallow when I'm in a shag for shag's sake mood. I have to find someone attractive. If I know them and am attractive to their personality then looks are not as important.
If you want to fuck someone, look at him/her, if it works for you, go and do it. If you want to settle down with someone, talk to him/her, if you can't get on, it won't go the distance.
We did once put this in an advert but it wasnt that we was desperate, it was my very poor way of saying you dont have to be a supermodel or superhunk as it is the whole package that is important (ie feel comfortable with the person, find them attractive and find them sexy). I was also because I do not have a specific look that I go for, and what I find attractive others may find very unattractive.
So although I would never use this now, I can understand that some people put it on meaning that it is not a specific look or age that matters, but is more down to finding the right person (does that make sense or am I waffling again).
When I saw this title I got so excited - then I read the thread and got so depressed.
Plim :sad: :sad: :sad:
We think that looks are important. Certainly not at the top of the list but what we do here is based mainly around the physical asspect. In reality if you do meet someone from the site how do you know they are being themselves anyway? Alot of the time people seem to try and tell you what they think you want to hear anyway!
Of course we do meet people in our travels and as we get to know people in person the importance of looks slips further and further down the list.
We can see where some people are going with putting that on the adds/profile trying to re-assure others that they will not be judged but it does come across as I/We will shag anyone and we're just nor into that, it kinda cheapens the experience.
Age on the other hand doesn't seem to bother us within reason. Can't really say we gave a fixed idea on age we just decide as we speak/meet people.
That's our 2p's worth anyway lol
Mr & Mrs P xxxx
Maybe i'm just naive?
