Hello all, i am newish to this site but for the love of me i find it so difficult to meet the right type of female, all adverts seem to seek a younger male to play with, now im not saying that young is bad, for some open activity, but where expirence is sort, surely age and expirence go had in hand, i have made many visits to couples and single females, who wanted a mixed evenings entertainment, on every count the staying power by, shall we say 18-.35 year olds has been very dissapointing for the couples and singles, some i still visit on a one to one..... so come you randy females, give us older males a look in.... try and test... and enjoy the over 45s ..... and all that they can give.......
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Age seem to be a problem for some
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I think the problem is more in being new and expecting a "quick hook up" if you read through the threads you'll find complaints from younger guys and actually guys in general about not getting replies to ads etc think the advice is stick around make friends let people get to know you, swinging is a social scene
Hope you have fun and find what you are looking for xxx
Hope you have fun and find what you are looking for xxx
Sex God
oooooooooo is it post a whinge day again? Gosh they come around so quickly don't they 
Sex God
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Hello all, i am newish to this site but for the love of me i find it so difficult to meet the right type of female, all adverts seem to seek a younger male to play with, now im not saying that young is bad, for some open activity, but where expirence is sort, surely age and expirence go had in hand, i have made many visits to couples and single females, who wanted a mixed evenings entertainment, on every count the staying power by, shall we say 18-.35 year olds has been very dissapointing for the couples and singles, some i still visit on a one to one..... so come you randy females, give us older males a look in.... try and test... and enjoy the over 45s ..... and all that they can give.......
1. ALL adverts do not seek young(er) males. This is FACT.
2. Age and experience do not necessarily go hand in hand. Some old chaps are crap at sex. Some young blokes are brill shags. In my opinion I'd say it's more about attitude than owt else.
3. You saying that ALL couples are disappointed by the "staying power" of anyone under 35 is frankly rubbish! All I can say to that is you must have asked a very narrow sample of couples!
This sounds to me like a whinge.
As has been said, the search button is your friend.
Do we really need another thread of this nature?
no no you have me wrong....... i am not moaning, i am happy with my lot.... but i am new to the site and not after a quick hook up... i feel that adverts placed should be more....how can i say.....open and to too precise in there wants..... i have had lots of contacts on other sites with people whom i would never have thought would be compatable.... and i am ashames to say that i too have placed advert with short age groups 18-25 and for a man my age there is a dream of a nice young supple body next to me..... but i think there is more to females that young...... i am not sure i am making sence and to slate me off for my view is churlish and very un open minded.....bad girls......tut tut
:wink: , if you know what I mean, it seems like us men are doing most the moaning these days You seem to be saying that those ads that are asking for younger guys should now ask for older guys.
How about women looking for other women - perhaps they should now ask for men?
Couples looking for well endowed guys should look for guys with small ones?
Gay guys looking for other gay guys should now look for str8 guys?
Its about personal preference!!
How about women looking for other women - perhaps they should now ask for men?
Couples looking for well endowed guys should look for guys with small ones?
Gay guys looking for other gay guys should now look for str8 guys?
Its about personal preference!!
Sexpert
I for one like older guys but I dont have an add.
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Well it is nice to know that some people do appreciate us oldies - but there again I made shure of that before I took the plunge and joined in here. As far as I can see there is something for everyone here - irrespective of age. Experience comes with age and I would have thought applied to joining a chat room as well as with sex.
On a personal note I dont think it is worth my time replying to adverts that do not apply to me and the "Hi - middle age man fancies a shag tonight" approach seems wrong for me as well.
Since I have been involved I have already been involved on the forum and believe that is probably the best way to know people.
On a personal note I dont think it is worth my time replying to adverts that do not apply to me and the "Hi - middle age man fancies a shag tonight" approach seems wrong for me as well.
Since I have been involved I have already been involved on the forum and believe that is probably the best way to know people.
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no no you have me wrong....... i am not moaning, i am happy with my lot.... but i am new to the site and not after a quick hook up... i feel that adverts placed should be more....how can i say.....open and to too precise in there wants..... i have had lots of contacts on other sites with people whom i would never have thought would be compatable.... and i am ashames to say that i too have placed advert with short age groups 18-25 and for a man my age there is a dream of a nice young supple body next to me..... but i think there is more to females that young...... i am not sure i am making sence and to slate me off for my view is churlish and very un open minded.....bad girls......tut tut
As a young couple... we are very new to the swinging secen.. although the idea of an older participant i not a bad one (quite a nice idea at some point in the future) - as we are new... we kinda want a bit a familiarity to begin with and maybe expand our sights after we have had a few encounters. Us asking for a similar couple is our way of haviing something vaugly familiar in the whole experience.
Thats our slant on it... but not everyones of course!
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i am not sure i am making sence
No, you're not.
