heard sumone use this phrase recently
"never with anyone older than my mum or younger than me eldest child"
so we was wondering - wats yr limit - if u have one - and y?
we generally try and choose those we think r old enuff to have learnt discretion but not so old as to need viagra
and as with most things its the personality of the ppl we chat to that makes or breaks a meet in the end
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I have been told I'm too young more times than I care to remember. It's down to the fact that I have somewhat of a penchant for older women.
I don't have an age limit either way, it's how the person behaves and comes across etc that determines whether I will want to play or not.
IN EDIT: Shireen I'm sure you only said 28 because I'm 27! Not long 'til my birthday. :twisted:
I don't have an age limit either way, it's how the person behaves and comes across etc that determines whether I will want to play or not.
IN EDIT: Shireen I'm sure you only said 28 because I'm 27! Not long 'til my birthday. :twisted:
I have to admit - we refused a couple on young age 
ops: Our age range is quite wide 30-50. Being F35, M46, we both prefer what we would call mature (now i'm not saying that 21 is childish) just that to us it feels far too young and do you really know what you want at 21? - now, i know everyone is different - I got married at 21 and for me it was the right decision and i knew what i was doing, so its kinda a contradiction in terms !!
I suppose though that my turn will come for being refused as too old
I have double standards Kiss Those age ranges are for men, women are completely different ops:
You summed it up perfectly when you said it's how the person behaves and comes across etc that determines whether I will want to play or not. And I cant explain why I feel like that either
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Those age ranges are for men, women are completely different ops:You summed it up perfectly when you said it's how the person behaves and comes across etc that determines whether I will want to play or not. And I cant explain why I feel like that either
:lol2: Our age range is youngish to oldish. There are people we've met socially and thought "nope too young" and others the same age who we would happily play with... same with our upper age limit. We don't have a set age range, although most of the people we would/could/have played with would fit in an age bracket not too dissimilar to our own.
It's all down to what you personally are comfortable with. I tend not to ask ages though. If I like them, I like them and then it doesn't matter how many birthdays they have or haven't had.
It's all down to what you personally are comfortable with. I tend not to ask ages though. If I like them, I like them and then it doesn't matter how many birthdays they have or haven't had.
I personally prefer someone around my age and older (35 and upwards)
I can find 20 odd year old guys attractive but I would feel too insecure in myself, with having the odd silver hair and "laugh lines".
Actually, as Ive got older, I find silver hair and wrinkles more attractive on a guy too!
I can find 20 odd year old guys attractive but I would feel too insecure in myself, with having the odd silver hair and "laugh lines".
Actually, as Ive got older, I find silver hair and wrinkles more attractive on a guy too!
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Our age range is youngish to oldish. There are people we've met socially and thought "nope too young" and others the same age who we would happily play with... same with our upper age limit. We don't have a set age range, although most of the people we would/could/have played with would fit in an age bracket not too dissimilar to our own.
It's all down to what you personally are comfortable with. I tend not to ask ages though. If I like them, I like them and then it doesn't matter how many birthdays they have or haven't had.
we were going to put something very similar
the only difference being, we like to ask there age if they look too young,just to make sure they've gone 18 :twisted:
lilnfil xx
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Our age range is youngish to oldish. There are people we've met socially and thought "nope too young" and others the same age who we would happily play with... same with our upper age limit. We don't have a set age range, although most of the people we would/could/have played with would fit in an age bracket not too dissimilar to our own.
It's all down to what you personally are comfortable with. I tend not to ask ages though. If I like them, I like them and then it doesn't matter how many birthdays they have or haven't had.
we were going to put something very similar
the only difference being, we like to ask there age if they look too young,just to make sure they've gone 18 :twisted:
lilnfil xx
:wave: Hope you two are well :kiss: :kiss:
Ok good point on the over 18 thing....never met any under 18's in a club yet though
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Ok good point on the over 18 thing....never met any under 18's in a club yet though
just in case you were having a malteser moment
we were joking
:lol: btw we're fine thanks :kiss:
lilnfil xx :lol:
edit: unless you were joking,then we were having the malteser moment (i think
:lol I usually like guys to be a bit older than me. Women, I don't really have age limits for.
I have played with younger guys but they have to have a certain level of maturity before I'm interested. Its down to whether they interest me and I just like them!
Generally at the moment, I can't imagine playing with an 18 year old, so probably mid 20's to 50ish?
Its all relevant to the individual though
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I have played with younger guys but they have to have a certain level of maturity before I'm interested. Its down to whether they interest me and I just like them!
Generally at the moment, I can't imagine playing with an 18 year old, so probably mid 20's to 50ish?
Its all relevant to the individual though
Fee
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I get this one a lot. Some people have said they think I am too young to swing at all. Personally, I wouldn't want to go with someone the same age as my parents and I think I might feel too self-conscious to go with a younger woman lol And i have to say, I like my men older, even just by a couple of years. But ultimately for me, it comes down to whether or not I like someone and feel a connection.
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we see the words matuirity and attitude mentioned a lot - so is that really the key?
no matter the age of a person the real deciding factors are their attitude to yourselves and swinging - they must show a maturity towards the whole swinging scene and if so ...................
......................... how do you judge these things?
no matter the age of a person the real deciding factors are their attitude to yourselves and swinging - they must show a maturity towards the whole swinging scene and if so ...................
......................... how do you judge these things?
