Hi there. I know that there was been a lot of discussion on the subject on smoking and swinging. But I was wondering what peoples views on drinking and swinging was. I myself do not really drink, it is not something I really enjoy. Though I really do not mind others that do. The reason I ask is that I have been in a couple of group sessions where the lady likes to have more than a bit too drink before the fun starts. Once this stopped me playing as I though that maybe she had a bit too much and it was a bit too silly.
i don't drink anymore. after the initial buzz it gets boring for me. a body sweating out booze is also not exactly pleasant for me either. but with booze it could get a bit down or aggressive, and you can't be sure how it will go if too much is drunk.
I'm not a big drinker at the best of times so it's never really been an issue for me. I don't need dutch courage so have never felt the need to have a drink to actually get me to a meet. When it comes to swinging I generally have a couple to be sociable at a munch or a social, more so if I'm with mates rather than it being a meet. If I was meeting someone new then no, I wouldn't drink. I like to be in control and safe so for me alcohol is a no go on a meet. I have been horribly drunk on one occasion, however, that was at camp with a whole bunch of my friends, whom I trust completely and we had such a good laugh it's one of the highlights in my swinging years. There's a time and a place and everything in moderation. :thumbup:
my personal opinion and it is just an opinion is if you need to drink to swing then you shouldn't be swinging when we go to chams i do drink wine but never ever to excess and the one time i took a diff wine to normal that turned out to be stronger so same amount as i would normally drink made me a wee bit tipsy and as soon as a noticed this i stopped playing and ended the night i seriously do not understand how someone can play drunk it is very rare i get drunk in my vanilla life either yet when i have everytime i lay down the room does that spinning thing so i have no idea how i could manange to shag in that state i would most likely throw up on the poor guy we do not play with anyone we feel is inebriated and have walked away from quite a few situations over the years due to other peeps being drunk
My limit is two beers, a wine or a short. I do not need it and would never play with someone who was drunk, or approaching it. Meets are about the fun, if I can not remember, why did I meet. Travis
I have a few times been put off playing as a result of a persons over indulgence in the Dutch courage department (separate note waiting to be hijacked – why is it Dutch courage ?). Most recently was a lady on her own (had come with a couple) – got amorous in the Jacuzzi took our play to the couples room. I then realised that clearly she had had too much to drink. It wasn’t the easiest thing to get out of to be honest and I tried a retreat without ruining it for the other couples in there – managed to extricate ourselves for the room and then spend a short while until I could reunite her with the friends she came with. Was not enjoyable and a little tricky – good thing was one of the couple in the room later took pity on me !! and Whey hey was all good). I can see why some people need a bit of Dutch courage to go into a club – especially a lady effectively on her own – I think it’s a sad reflection on our rubbish drinking habits that prevent some from drinking in moderation and going too far. So I am with bouncy – if you need to be drunk to swing – don’t swing. I am always driving when I visit a club and so drink nothing. I think there is nothing wrong with some wine / beer in moderation but drunkenness is a real turnoff. Right rambled on long enough. :-)
We dont drink much at all. Very rarely in the house and we only have a couple if we go to a club or a party. We dont need it. We are confident enough to not need any dutch courage. A girl at one of our parties was soooo drunk and her hubby told us that she needed that to play. How wrong is that!! She was completely out of it and I dont believe that anyone can consent in such a state!
Quote by Funlovers2009 We dont drink much at all. Very rarely in the house and we only have a couple if we go to a club or a party. We dont need it. We are confident enough to not need any dutch courage. A girl at one of our parties was soooo drunk and her hubby told us that she needed that to play. How wrong is that!! She was completely out of it and I dont believe that anyone can consent in such a state!
Not what I heard Fun... Lee has been known to take several single fems and you have a predilection for hung single males - allegedly :giggle:
Quote by GnV We dont drink much at all. Very rarely in the house and we only have a couple if we go to a club or a party. We dont need it. We are confident enough to not need any dutch courage. A girl at one of our parties was soooo drunk and her hubby told us that she needed that to play. How wrong is that!! She was completely out of it and I dont believe that anyone can consent in such a state!
Not what I heard Fun... Lee has been known to take several single fems and you have a predilection for hung single males - allegedly :giggle: yeah and thats just vanilla parties!! :twisted:
Ohh I do like to be the odd one out :twisted: I guess I am a fairly heavy drinker, have just recently cut down quite a bit it all goes with the weight loss. I like drinking, I like drinking when I am out. Have been more than a bit drunk at munchs and socials as has Mrs Tweeky :roflmao: Like it always gets said in the bareback threads it seems that no one does but I can say for sure from the offers we have had whilst out that there certainly are those that will play drunk and with the drunk too. I am 35 have been drinking for nearly 20 years and can safely say I am not going to go out and do something and wake up thinking "ohh my God did I do that" I dont think I could possibly get that drunk!
I don't get steaming drunk, but I certainly appreciate the dutch courage. It just takes the nerves down from mail-biting to pleasantly tingly. It's nothing to do with needing a drink to be 'able' to do it because I've always had fun, I (and quite a lot of people in general) struggle with severe nervousness and a drink just strips a bit of that away.
For us its no different than any other night out, some time we have a drink, some times we don't. Depends on where we are going and what we are doing. Too old now to go out and get steaming drunk We tell people on our profile we drink socially and the wife smokes, its all out there to see. Don't like it, don't meet us! Having said all that, I rarely drink as 99.9% of the time I am driving :twisted:
Swinging and drinking is allot like drinking and driving. A social drink or two is acceptable. However once it goes beyond the social drink to the point of intoxication or a good "buzz" then drinking crosses the line. Reason why it crosses the line is you are more likely to undertake risks that you would not normally undertake when sober. Second reason, alcohol is some people can fuel emotions, which can mean an enjoyable experience is frought with drama and potentially violent. It best to limit drinking in a swinging situation.
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