What you haven't mentioned is whether you were using a condom or not.
Many guys cannot perform wearing condoms but what they may not realise is that the application of a condom can cause a man to lose his erection.
Men who suffer from 'trigger trouble' are advised that by pinching the head of the penis between thumb and forefinger will cause it to go into a semi-flacid state and prevent premature ejaculation. The same result can occur if a man (or woman for that matter) is too vigorous in the application of a condom..... and let's face it guys, once it starts to go down it becomes a psychological problem in getting it back up again.
Experimenting with different condom sizes and / or textures will let you know which one works for you. Make sure you carry the same brand all the time and do not leave it to the woman to provide them.
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all sorted now thanks for advise
Quote by Wishmaster
Experimenting with different condom sizes and / or textures will let you know which one works for you. Make sure you carry the same brand all the time and do not leave it to the woman to provide them.
If I left it up to the guy to produce the condoms I would be 5-times pregnant by now.
Seems to me that some guys on here love to make out they are vastly experienced in all matters sexual.........................and yet don't even have condoms in the house, let alone 'a favourite brand'.
In fact they ask their partner to go on the pill before she can get a decent shag.
If you think your going to have a problem getting it up... go for oral or fingering first.... then at least she is happy before the subject of your penis performance ever comes up.
Actually you should try and do this as much as possible anyway.
It really is that simple :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: although doing it well ain't that simple
8-) 8-)
Actually you should try and do this as much as possible anyway.
It really is that simple :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: although doing it well ain't that simple
8-) 8-) Just to update and not wanting to go into to much detail as the lady concerned may read this, in fact may have read everything so far so her goes
I did
I did
i did
i did
she did
then before getting a chance to put the condom on
I was all soft and that was it
playing more did not have any effect
it was not
it was not
it was not
But this afternoon things were all ok, differant time, place, and with 3 pints in me after taking her to lunch.
I did
I did
i did
i did
she did
then before getting a chance to put the condom on
I was all soft and that was it
playing more did not have any effect
it was not
it was not
it was not
But this afternoon things were all ok, differant time, place, and with 3 pints in me after taking her to lunch.
:dunno:Quote by naughtynymphos1
But this afternoon things were all ok, differant time, place, person, and with 3 pints in me after taking her to lunch.
well if i was the first lady in question and read that i'd deffo feel like you was trying to tell me something lol
not heard anything from her yet and she has read the rest
Quote by Robert1961
not heard anything from her yet and she has read the rest
should correct what i put last night
She has read this thread
but that was before the comments about yesterday
and my other meet have not heard from her since that post
so maybe the DOH is on hold
Well, Robert; the next time you hear from her, if you find she might be looking for somebody that won't make public comparisons between her and another girl, make comments or discuss the downside of a meet with the entire forum - give her my number would you.
Sex God
Quote by Robert1961
Just to update and not wanting to go into to much detail as the lady concerned may read this, in fact may have read everything so far so her goes
I did finger her
I did go down and lick her
i did suck her tits
i did caress her body
she did play with my cock and i got hard
then before getting a chance to put the condom on
I was all soft and that was it
playing more did not have any effect
it was not the location
it was not the situation
it was not drink
it was not the lady concerned
But this afternoon things were all ok, differant time, place, person, and with 3 pints in me after taking her to lunch.
Gosh, how fortunate that you didn't go into detail and embarrass the poor lady. Discreet chap aren't you
I bet there's loads of women reading this thread who don't give a shit if you couldn't get hard, but who would now not consider you for a meet because of the detail you put on the forum. Sex God
Quote by dambuster
not heard anything from her yet and she has read the rest
should correct what i put last night
She has read this thread
but that was before the comments about yesterday
and my other meet have not heard from her since that post
so maybe the DOH is on hold
Well, Robert; the next time you hear from her, if you find she might be looking for somebody that won't make public comparisons between her and another girl, make comments or discuss the downside of a meet with the entire forum - give her my number would you.
Don't give it to him DB, he'd probably post it on the forum
One of my dissapointmenst was due to illness. I had looked forward to the meet for about a month and felt the flu coming on. Having done the meal and the club it was 3am and there we were with only the inevitable to do. The flu just wiped me out. She was gorgeous. Couldn't arrange a rematch, she left the country. It haunts me all my life.
On another occasion I had too much booze, told her I need to sort myself out. Went and put my fingers down my throat, spewed up, rested on my own for a couple of hours then BINGO, it all happened again and top stuff. Trouble is I can't remember the woman at all.
On another occasion I had too much booze, told her I need to sort myself out. Went and put my fingers down my throat, spewed up, rested on my own for a couple of hours then BINGO, it all happened again and top stuff. Trouble is I can't remember the woman at all.
maybe throughout this thread I have given out what soem may seem as to much information, but when you read teh whole thread and dont just take a post and stand it out there on its own you will see things were in reply to others.
I have been very carefull and have not mentioned any name or location, should anyone else on here know these details it did not coem from me.
If this thread as put others off meeting me then so be it, this is not the only place in the world to meet people.
the thread has progressed much further than i expected it to, when i first posted, i did not expect so many things to be said about it.
As to the lady concerned, this was in no way a judgement on her but on my own performance. if in any way this has been seen as a reflextion on her I am sorry that was not the intention.
And finlly i would suggest this thread is now locked as some comments are getting close to the mark of me replying in a unexceptable way which i do not want to do.
I have been very carefull and have not mentioned any name or location, should anyone else on here know these details it did not coem from me.
If this thread as put others off meeting me then so be it, this is not the only place in the world to meet people.
the thread has progressed much further than i expected it to, when i first posted, i did not expect so many things to be said about it.
As to the lady concerned, this was in no way a judgement on her but on my own performance. if in any way this has been seen as a reflextion on her I am sorry that was not the intention.
And finlly i would suggest this thread is now locked as some comments are getting close to the mark of me replying in a unexceptable way which i do not want to do.
Sex God
Quote by Robert1961
And finlly i would suggest this thread is now locked as some comments are getting close to the mark of me replying in a unexceptable way which i do not want to do.
If you can't control what you're going to type, then don't respond at all. You don't have to give an unacceptable can't just ask for a thread to be locked so people don't say anything to you that you might not like.
The details you've given (even without naming names) are, in my opinion, a bit too detailed. My opinion - although I'm sure that many other people like to think that people they play with will be more discreet.
Sex God
Quote by sexyfella
try some viagra next time
Only if he's able to get it on prescription through his doctor, did you mean to add?
I'd be surprised if there's many men out there who haven't experienced this horrorr at sometime. Reckless maybe, but I tried viagra with someone i had perfomance nerves with a few times and it was becoming an issue (mine though). Did the trick and never had any more problems with her. Not very scientific and perhaps stupid as obviously there's serious risks but it certainly worked 
Orgasminator
Quote by freckledbird
try some viagra next time
Only if he's able to get it on prescription through his doctor, did you mean to add?
Well said Bev, though it's fair to point out that Sildenafil Citrate is not a controlled drug, so it's perfectly legal to possess, consume, or give to somebody else however you managed to acquire it. Selling it is another matter though.
Personally I'd have to be having genuine problems getting it up at all before I'd be tempted to try it, priapism being quite a painful side-effect that in the worst case scenario leads to the old man turning black and dropping off (if untreated, or not treated promptly, this is one you go to A&E for, no matter how embarrassing/inconvenient).
Before Viagra I had to counsel blokes on the use of the previous gold-standard drugs for impotence, they had the advantage that nobody who didn't have a genuine problem would want to take them as the routes of administration were a lot less convenient and a lot more uncomfortable.
Sex God
Quote by Deviated Prevert
try some viagra next time
Only if he's able to get it on prescription through his doctor, did you mean to add?
Well said Bev, though it's fair to point out that Sildenafil Citrate is not a controlled drug, so it's perfectly legal to possess, consume, or give to somebody else however you managed to acquire it. Selling it is another matter though.
Personally I'd have to be having genuine problems getting it up at all before I'd be tempted to try it.
That was more my point to be honest. Not that you can't buy it, but it's best not to buy it without consulting a doctor, I would have thought. People might have something else wrong with them that could result in other problems if they also used Viagra without their doctor's advice.
