Do you really need a label, cos i dont.
How about being just sexual?
Thanks for your reply,
I am not looking for a label. Maybe a category, lol I dont know like I said I think I must be confused!
I am definitely sexual, I cant think of much I wouldn't try or have fantasized about.
Thank you all for your replys,
I feel much better already as this is the first time I have ever been able toshare thiswith anyone.
I can't vote in your poll because my category isn't there! Like others have said before, there don't have to be any cut and dried, black and white extremes, you can be somewhere in between with nothing to be worried or ashamed of.
Following on from Blues statement, (and I was thinking of blue when I thought of this point) It is also quite possible to to be attracted to anal sex, and to get a woman with a strap on to do this to you. No need for attraction to men just because you like your rear end being played with. After all it is full of nerve endings...
As for confused to me you sound normal. Most men have a sensitive anus, most men I think will have some form of gay fantasy (or reality) at some point in there lives. As others have said sexuality is not like option buttons, with only one option, more like multiple choice with infinite possibilities.
This one the main problems in todays socieety - we always want to pidgeon hole ourselves and others.
This is why the is so much homophobia, anti-swinging coverage etc - people just label everything as wrong or immoral and slag it off without being open and honest to themselves.
At the end of the day i'd have sex with anyone i found attractive enough for me to get a hard on - it's just thats always been women up until this point of my life.
I had this "what am I?" discussion with another SH meber quite recently and he summed it up for me perfectly - I am emotionally straight and sexually bi.
Errr - is it just me that can't see it - why isnt there a 'bi' option in the Poll?
One the subject of anal sex - it doesn't have to be a man. Heard of strap-ons????
I totally agree with everything that has been said above.
I just feel about me, (since i can't talk for everyone else) that my sexuality, is mine.
Absolutely, no-one elses. To the point where, I really don't give a shit what anyone, whether individual or a "society" thinks of it.
If there is something I want to do. Then there will be someone else out there who wants to do it to. If there are lots of things I want to do, then there will be lots of different people who will want that also. They don't have to be the same people.
By concluding that sexuality is in itself unique, then you have complete freedom.
Hope this helps, or not.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
dont worry just be happy and enjoy your self
I am one of those shades in between gay and straight, sort of straight but with a touch of girlie loving when the opportunity arises.......
