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we have all been there!.............. just hold on tight babes!.......as you will find that the gen ones here will welcome you with open they did me!.....at times it can be tuff .... some one said its all in the timing when it comes to posting! looks like you timed this post right as your on page 2 now....... now.......wheres me watch! lol
Anyway from me to you !WELCOME! wave
Quote by steanrachy
No mate ! They mean no harm ! Look at me for example ! I've been told I'm a minger ! My pants suck ! I'm middle aged and lucky to have got there ! I'm a tw*t ! (and that was a mod)... But am I bitter ........ ? No I love the abuse it makes me feel welcome.... It's a better thing to be noticed than to be ignored... Plus you get your thread bumped ! (you can't bump your own...You'll get told off !! ) All in all it's a very nice place and I'm sure you'll get used to the banter..... biggrin

Oh shut up you minging middle aged, silly pant wearing twat!!! :shock: :shock: confused :? lol :lol: :lol:
Welcome to the forum lel7. Remember, we all felt like we were intruding when we first started here, but just throw yourself into it and enjoy yourself!! :? :? :? :? :?
really seriously laughed out loud when i read that and spilt a bit of coffee, Sgt Bilko that was good, very good, i will look out for your posts from now on a compliment from me is rare, i am a sarcy, baahh humbug, robe wearing bastard usually!!
Hey this guy is funny ! I literally p*ssed my self laughing !!! Are you a stand-up comedian ? Or perhaps a script writer for a well known TV sit-com ? Last of the summer Wine Perhaps ?
Last of the Summer wine?
No monty python is more my cup o cha but you must admit Sgt Bilkos post was funny.
have mentioned you a few times now ginge, you are becoming a regular which is nice to see, you must try not to be so defensive though, i get the piss ripped out of me something chronic on here at times, but most of the time i set people up to do it!!
predictibility at its best is great humour "show him the bone, and the dog will do the rest" wink
No No I wasn't being ironic ! He is truly gifted...
i dunno we got ginger mingers , purple bars i think you lot need a trip to the local gu clinic
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oh dare i say it and could it be that its friendlier now cus ethe clique all left together to join other sites
pmsl
lou sits back and awaits the spankings :twisted:
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Quote by constance
Ignore this I clicked twice!!! redface surprisedops:

so does this mean you are part of the clique as well :giggle:
Sorry Constance, its just my warped sense of humour, I just couldnt resist wink
Quote by Noel
mmm purple bar

You get turned on by a purple bar?? :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Obviously I have been using wrong tactics rotflmao
:welcome: to all the newbies biggrin Prepare to become addicted lol
Shireen
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Quote by niceandgentle
I guess one does have to take the risk of something you post falling flat,even more so if you're a single guy but there's clearly a lot of friendly people on all that I feel very cautious,I've read quite a few threads and gone to join in then thought better of it and the few I have I've only been acknowledged once by one other poster.

Hiya biggrin
please dont get all hung up on getting your posts acknowledged etc - unless you're generally a good 'writer' and get your ideas/ thoughts/ oppinons over to others clearly, I think many people here sit back a while and kinda 'register' new posters.....as in, wait to get to know your post style......we wonder.....are they witty, sarcastic, funny, rude, oppinionated, just picking a fight, need help or advice.......basically, are they genuine??
Time and time again - on forums generally- you will hear the 'do not respond in haste' warning - its far too easy to misread or take someone/ something out of context and next thing ya know all hell breaks loose!
If you feel you have something to contribute to a thread, take a deep breath, type, and post! The more you post (and the quality of your posts in terms of content or humour) the more you'll become part of the furniture - honest!
Yes some people are 'cagey', yes some people get flamed, have their threads hijacked - and yes it annoyed the crap outta me at first too - but, it works both ways and the more you're around, the more you'll see that what 'noobs' often see as 'baiting' or 'flaming' is often just banter that gets taken the wrong way.
ooooo i'm rambling - as you can see, I am not one of those who are particularly good at getting my point accross! rolleyes wink
but fuck it eh? pull up ya chair, fingers on keyboard...... and away ya go ! :D
Welcome Noobs by the way :D , dont reply yet, give me 5 minutes to put me steelies on :kick: :giggle:
Quote by Lissa
I've read quite a few threads and gone to join in then thought better of it and the few I have I've only been acknowledged once by one other poster.

Don't let that bother you!
I've been a member for ages and still get blanked by some other regulars...................not everyone's cup of tea, me wink
Thanks Lissa,Darkfire too,I think I'm getting into it ok as I go along,it does get easier and you start to feel more of a part of things and you start to get the gist of others personalities and humour.