Am I too old to swing?

19 Jun 2004

hello to you all from a newbie
At 49 years old I am made to feel to old to swing! 90% of ads for women seeking males have an age restriction of 45 years old , I am very fit as I work out for 2 hrs 3 times a week and I am very experianced does this count for nothing !!!

19 Jun 2004

arrrrrgh no you are not too old , and there will follow lots of other people telling you the same

19 Jun 2004

I always seem to see lots and lots of ads from women seeking older men, although I confess I haven't counted them. Traditionally, it's younger men who usually seem to have more difficulty "breaking into" swinging (and come here and tell us about it).
I think you just have to keep trying your best and with application and good fortune, you'll find someone in the end. Good luck!
(P.S. Welcome to the cafe! :welcome: )

19 Jun 2004

Hello
You are not to old.....just more experienced
And anyway - has no one ever told you that you are as old as the person you are feeling!!!
Welcome to the room biggrin

19 Jun 2004

never too old Polphero, I'm in my forties and I have some fun......the pipe and slippers put a few off but otherwise O.K.

19 Jun 2004

I agree with Davej Polphero,
What is old? I maybe young in body and mind but putting in my rollers and cold cream on, of a night is a must for a girl if she is to look her best. lol

:lol:
Welcome from me to ! wave

19 Jun 2004

Hey, you're never too old cool

.... and 49 isn't even remotely old :shock: ...... there are guys at the clubs I go to who are well in their 60s and they're still having fun lol

. Having said that, I know a lot of people who do prefer younger men, but it takes all sorts. My advice is - as always - don't waste your time replying to those who want chickens, stick to those who prefer the mature gent. Be polite and it will happen! Oh, and read Rogers advice, it's ace! 8-)

19 Jun 2004

BLOODY HOPE NOT! :shock:

19 Jun 2004

Quote by Jags
BLOODY HOPE NOT! :shock:

Ahem - I BLOODY HOPE NOT too!

19 Jun 2004

:rotflmao:

19 Jun 2004

This will probably be my last serious post of the evening as John Smith and those little screamer things are starting to get mne. And I havn't even opened the Frascati yet. (MissChief, I might need you later)
I read something on here along the lines of "age is merely a number used by man to denote the passing of time"
I would say that actual age is by and large irrelavant (irrelivent, irrelavent???? I don't know. If you're okay with it and she's okay with it - do it. See my sig
And she's just come back from the stables. Will we; Won't we, Should I resist her selfishness. Should I give in; as usual. Can I blame the drink.

19 Jun 2004

I hope 49 isn't too old either. :shock: :shock:
We had our first swinging experience about three or four months ago, I'm 46 and Mr novice is 49. :smug:

19 Jun 2004

You are never too old, its only others that make you feel that way.
I'm so glad I'm in here and not out there !!!!!!!! ......................and I'm only 40 redface

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In this lovely place age does not matter, its how you feel. biggrin

And MrFC feels ummmmmmmmm !!!!!!!! taught. lol

:lol: :lol: lucky me. !

20 Jun 2004

You are certainly not too old. I myself am 49 and it has certainly not stopped me..
Most women find the incontinence pants very alluring redface

Paul

20 Jun 2004

i go to clubs all the time and 49 isn't old... the person who said before me that "age is nothing but a number" is spot on correct.....even the other night i was engrossed in conversation with a lovely couple and it was there first time in a club....
he was 63 and she was 65!
i was in awe of them.... still wanting to experience new things!!!!
i only hope that in another 20-30 years (i am 30 myself) i still have as much passion as they did.....
sean xxxxxxxxxxxx

20 Jun 2004

If you work out that often, the chances are you'll have a much better body that most of the twenty-two year old 'competition' that you'll come up against, if they don't look after themselves biggrin

20 Jun 2004

i think you will find that a very high proportion of fems on here do not have a problem with, and may even prefer older men.
i am 24, but play with some guys who are in their 40s.
it is nothing to do with the actual age, and a lot more to do with the individual.