am i wasting my time?

15 Apr 2011

Hello everyone,just curious to know if anyone has actually formed a relationship they met off this site,i am trying to meet someone that is looking for same as me but never get even a message,any advice for me?

15 Apr 2011

Although some people do find relationships from sites like this, I wouldnt say that finding a relationship is their main reason for joining. Relationships just happen when 2 people meet and find that they are compatible. Writing on your profile that you are actively looking for a relationship may actually put people off.
Maybe you should also join a dating site??

15 Apr 2011

I have

15 Apr 2011

Me too

15 Apr 2011

In my mind its not the place to look for 'the relationship' See more destroyed than made. Not saying that there aren't success stories there are but its rare people advertise the heartache ones

15 Apr 2011

:lol:
I couldn't possibly comment
:giggle:

18 Apr 2011

Thank you all for taking the time to reply

18 Apr 2011

my advice would be .. do not come to a swinging site looking for a relationship! however if you are lucky enough to stumble upon a like minded soul mate then great.. for the most part you will not!

18 Apr 2011

To be honest if you see a single female on this site who states she's looking for a relationship, hit the report profile button 'cos it's odds on it's a scammer. :lol2:

21 Apr 2011

I have found friends here, even a couple who became a bit closer.
Did I expect it? No, but then I came here just to see where it went.
Travis