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Hey All!
I'm new here and this is my first post so if I do anything wrong be easy on me.
Okay, I'm not one for people under 18 but I thought it is 16 for the age of sex and yet there is rules on all sites (UK I mean) that you have to be 18 or over, is it because of the content?
No, it's because of the membership. Your average 16 yr old is not emotionally mature enough, in the opinion of just about everyone here I think, to deal with what this type of community is all about. Personally I don't think the average 18 yr old is up to it either, but that's just my view.
Ice
Correct, Ice baby! biggrin
Swinging Heaven is not some government institution - it's Mark's lab rat. lol :lol:
Actually, there are rules about pornography and being over 18 and such but I'm buggered if I can remember which law it relates to...
All you need to know is that Mark says 18 so 18 it is!
Even I can chill with that.... :D
Yes performers in "Adult Movies" have to be 18 , here and in the US , not sure if you and your 16 y/o g/f do it and record on dads "borrowed "video camera if you can have your collar felt by Mr Plod ( please , don't PM me of course he could only do this after you have finished and got dressed again !), but after 5 years of Blunkett , almost certainly yes .
Of more concern to some of us is that Mark could decide there is an upper age limit by which time you should stop acting like a teenager :!: rotflmao
It's a legal thing, ain't it.... Yes, you can have sex at 16 but you can't view adult material til you're 18, apparently wink
16 year olds should be playing with their marbles and conkers and reading the beano
not reading swinging sites
:twisted:
Quote by redstilletto
16 year olds should be playing with their marbles and conkers and reading the beano
not reading swinging sites
:twisted:

Not forgetting their Action Man - 'With gripping hands & eagle eyes'
The WHOOSH Man
i was a whizzer and chips girl myself....... cool
Quote by redstilletto
16 year olds should be playing with their marbles and conkers and reading the beano
not reading swinging sites
:twisted:

I bet all 16 year olds play with their conkers
Quote by redstilletto
16 year olds should be playing with their marbles and conkers and reading the beano
:twisted:

Is it OK for 40 yr olds to do that?
PLEASE say it's OK for 40 yr olds to do that! :happy:
Quote by Ice Pie
16 year olds should be playing with their marbles and conkers and reading the beano
:twisted:

Is it OK for 40 yr olds to do that?
PLEASE say it's OK for 40 yr olds to do that! :happy:
Yes Ice - it's OK for 40yr olds to read the Beano!
Quote by Flipper
Yes performers in "Adult Movies" have to be 18 , here and in the US , not sure if you and your 16 y/o g/f do it and record on dads "borrowed "video camera if you can have your collar felt by Mr Plod:

In a stroke of rare brilliance there is actually a defence against taking photographs of children (now we classify anyone under 18 a child) where they are 16 - 18 and you are in a relationship with them (which as over 16 is legal) You can take what would otherwise be indecent photos of them and you together (with consent obviously).
You and them can posses copies of said photos but intelligently you cant show them to other people or sell them, no one else can be in them, just the couple involved, etc etc.
Practical upshot if it all working no one can take advantage of young people, but we don't get two 17 year old college students in court for one of them playing with a digital camera in private...
Quote by Ice Pie
No, it's because of the membership. Your average 16 yr old is not emotionally mature enough, in the opinion of just about everyone here I think, to deal with what this type of community is all about. Personally I don't think the average 18 yr old is up to it either, but that's just my view.
Ice

And i thought you were my friend Ice!!! :cry:
I'm 19, i was 18 when we joined, and apart from 1 incident where i was totally off base, i'd like to think you all think i'm emotionally old enough to be here - at least, i hope nobody thinks i've been out of line!!!
As for you Ice, i'm never going to speak to you again and youre not my friend anymore!!!! So ner ner ner ner ner!!!! lol
I don't think it's a matter of age, it's a matter of maturity.....so some might think I'm quite young at 26 but I'm more mature than some 40 year olds.....it all depends on how mature you are....
maturity is a funny old thing. You can buy mature cheese, but you NEVER see immature cheese? Does it skip the growing up process??
Like helen says we all differ...I know some 40+'s who have NEVER grown up...baldy heads and pony tails because they are NOT bald, just fashionable...all a show?
Well... i'd like to think i'm quite mature, but i cant take all the credit for it, Daz is 16 years older than me!! Although i've always liked older men, there's only ever been a few years between me and previous boyfriends, i've only ever had to be the girlfriend. With Daz, i've had to be girlfriend and stepmum to his 3 kids as well, which i think has helped a LOT, lol!!! Not that i regret a second of it... although the situation is shit, the kids and Daz are PERFECT, lol!!! lol
You seem, to me to have it all together anyhow and as long as you are ok with it...who else matters?
I know what you mean Lou.....I've always liked Older men as well and I think that has made me more mature in itself......
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No, it's because of the membership. Your average 16 yr old is not emotionally mature enough, in the opinion of just about everyone here I think, to deal with what this type of community is all about. Personally I don't think the average 18 yr old is up to it either, but that's just my view.
Ice

And i thought you were my friend Ice!!! :cry:
I'm 19, i was 18 when we joined, and apart from 1 incident where i was totally off base, i'd like to think you all think i'm emotionally old enough to be here - at least, i hope nobody thinks i've been out of line!!!
As for you Ice, i'm never going to speak to you again and youre not my friend anymore!!!! So ner ner ner ner ner!!!! lol
I was specifically referring to the average 18 yr old. This, O beautiful and wise one, does NOT include you. kiss
So ner ner and yah boo sucks as well!
I think Lou will have her daft youthful times along with her more mature times...the best of both worlds. It is good to see someone so young enjoying the fun of an older man...although not ALL of us are really adult enough to be classed as mature, a few of us are! wink
Quote by Ice Pie
No, it's because of the membership. Your average 16 yr old is not emotionally mature enough, in the opinion of just about everyone here I think, to deal with what this type of community is all about. Personally I don't think the average 18 yr old is up to it either, but that's just my view.
Ice

And i thought you were my friend Ice!!! :cry:
I'm 19, i was 18 when we joined, and apart from 1 incident where i was totally off base, i'd like to think you all think i'm emotionally old enough to be here - at least, i hope nobody thinks i've been out of line!!!
As for you Ice, i'm never going to speak to you again and youre not my friend anymore!!!! So ner ner ner ner ner!!!! lol
I was specifically referring to the average 18 yr old. This, O beautiful and wise one, does NOT include you. kiss
So ner ner and yah boo sucks as well!
Lol, you CHARMER!!!!!!!! Ok then, provided i'm not average, thats ok then, lol!!
I think Lou will have her daft youthful times along with her more mature times...the best of both worlds. It is good to see someone so young enjoying the fun of an older man...although not ALL of us are really adult enough to be classed as mature, a few of us are! RockyHorror - you are SOOOOOOOOOO right - sometimes i'm so childish its unbelievable!!! But - Daz isnt exactly an old aged 35 year old, so i think we sort of get an even balance, lol!!!!
I think we are all a bit like puppies...men AND women that is. One minute we are sleeping or sitting in the sun looking all innocent and like butter wont melt in our mouths...and the next we are running about, barking, chasing our tails, playing with our toys and generally being bloody daft. Part of the joy of being ALIVE....!