I find standing up easiest actually but seeing as there is a clear foot height difference between me and hubby it's a bit tricky!!!!!!!!
usually ... doggy style though ...
I prefer the girl to be on her back with her legs in the air..........the view is better.
Steve
I haven't had a chance to try giving or receiving yet.
Any volunteers?!
:shock:
love to try spoons,is it tight or relaxed?
Any way can be painful with the wrong partner
For me it takes time, trust, plenty of lube, the right mood and a sympathetic partner
we are perhaps lucky as we have a sling in our bedroom and one in the play room, it alows the reciever male(me love it) or female to be compleatly, relaxed, and that at first is very important.
Knees up and you can get very very deep indeed.
On to BIi male stuff, it may be best at first if you (bi Male ) take the lead and by this i meen to be able to squat onto the object so you control both the depth, and speed of penitration. once your used to the wonderful sensation, try it doggy, with your back arched as much as you can, then "take it ya bitch"LOL.... nothing like the feeiling of being used.
Diet and preparation for prolonged anal play is also important and i will be happy to discuss via email if you wish. you could also try some web sites like red hanky, handball or some books like anal sex for women.
Alex
Doggy, spoons, me on top or on my back is fine by me, standing up can be a bit uncomfortable at times thou.
:grin:
I'm one of the "lucky" bi-guys who has both given and received from both sexes.
It depends on the situation and who you're with, how experienced etc. When on the receiving end, (no pun intended), I would rather have a real cock than a strapon, but have met a couple of girls who are brilliant with their use of a strapon. But whatever you do, use plenty of lube and think about your partner especially when giving.