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So why do certain people send messages and friends request when our profile clearly states hubby is straight. Becoming a bit annoying. He is not into men. Got nothing against no ones sexual differences. What do they think. I'm not sure what my preference is. Please look and appreciate everyone's choices. Look for people who's profile fits what you're looking for. How simple can it be...

I think the problem lays with the fact that in the bi chat rooms, many guys say they are straight when they are in the room and some even on cam. Confusing for some, annoying to others

By definition Bi men are as likely to be interested in MFM as MMF, they probably have the hots for you not your bloke.

Perhaps you should say in your profile that bi-men should not apply.

Also, as Curious1 says, not all straight men are straight. I regularly get straight men contacting me and a third of the people who view my profile, all pics of my cock, are 'straight' men.

We have no problem with bi. Hubby doesn't like the feeling that they probably thinking about him rather than me. So we decided not to put ourselves in that situation.

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We have no problem with bi. Hubby doesn't like the feeling that they probably thinking about him rather than me. So we decided not to put ourselves in that situation.

As far as I am concerned, the guy is always secondary. Pleasuring the lady comes first but if part of that pleasure includes seeing her man get sucked or something, then adds to the enjoyment of all

I don’t need to do a thing to the guy if that’s what is wanted

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We have no problem with bi. Hubby doesn't like the feeling that they probably thinking about him rather than me. So we decided not to put ourselves in that situation.

Hi

I have no problem with you and your husband not wanting to meet bi men, I don't want to meet single straight men. We all have our preferences. But your husband being straight doesn't let people know that bi men are not welcome to contact you. If you are finding the messages and friends requests 'a bit annoying' you needed to be clearer in your profile as you have now done. Though that won't stop some people of course.

Most of the messages I get and indeed all of the men I have met have "straight" on their profile. A few of them have told me that their wife insisted they describe themselves as straight.