Another new couple - be gentle...

25 Jun 2006

Hi, all. '30s couple, joined yesterday. Both 100% up for this (details in profile), but a little bit intimidated as to where to go from here...
Is the Wink system any good? Is it better to make more individual contact (e-mail, etc)?
We're both very sorted and happy - extremely into each other sexually, but are thrilled by the idea of trying out a few scenarios.
Encouragement/advice/thoughts - all welcome. smile

25 Jun 2006

Hi both and a very warm welcome to SH forums wave

I've had a look at your profile ( purely for research purposes of course innocent

) and while the introduction is quite informative, you might like to think about adding some pics ( they don't have to be face shots if you want to keep anonymity ) but steer clear of cock or gash shots. Maybe place an ad too, which sometimes helps.
Mal has set up a buddy scheme where you can have someone who knows their way around help you. Try this link
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
but feel free to ask here.
Reading through some of the posts already on here might answer some of your questions though.
Hope to see you around and above all, have fun ! kiss

25 Jun 2006

Hiya you two
:welcome: to SH
Steer clear of the winks. There not the most popular site feature the admin have introduced to this site. There's a bit of "light" reading about them Here
Go for individual & personalised messages. :thumbup:
Above all enjoy :rascal:

25 Jun 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Hi both and a very warm welcome to SH forums

Ace. Thanks a lot. smile

I've had a look at your profile ( purely for research purposes of course ) and while the introduction is quite informative, you might like to think about adding some pics ( they don't have to be face shots if you want to keep anonymity ) but steer clear of cock or gash shots. Maybe place an ad too, which sometimes helps.

Yeah. Gonna do some pics in the next few days.
I really don't get the gynaecological pics in standard profiles. Surely that's a level you move onto after an introduction? Y'know - you say your cock's large, let's take a look at it, then... smile

I thought we had placed an ad... Is it not online? Gah...

Mal has set up a buddy scheme where you can have someone who knows their way around help you. Try this link
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
but feel free to ask here.

Ta for that. PMed...

Hope to see you around and above all, have fun !

Cheers.

Thanks for taking the time to reply. Feel a lot more settled, now...
@HornyLittleBlonde:
I had a feeling the Winks were a bit of a limp way to introduce yerself.
Jeez. Now I'm going to have to go back and do personal intros for all my rudely Winked-at profiles... ;)
Thanks for the message - and advice, though.
x

25 Jun 2006

Hello and welcome to the forum.
Basic advice of steer clear of winks and add some pics has already been covered, importantly of though, have fun and enjoy it!
H.x

25 Jun 2006

:wave both, nice to see newbies around here. lol

Peeps are fab on here so hope you enjoy lol

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25 Jun 2006

Quote by Sickboycouple
@HornyLittleBlonde:
I had a feeling the Winks were a bit of a limp way to introduce yerself.
Jeez. Now I'm going to have to go back and do personal intros for all my rudely Winked-at profiles... ;)
x

I wouldn't worry, but if you find you're getting a standard reply message back it means the user has the "Auto responder" switched and the wink message is automatically deleted so the user never actually sees it.
You sound like you've got a lot of it sussed out - I'm sure you'll fit in well.

25 Jun 2006

Well you seem to have grasped the multiple quotes rather well :giggle:
Buggered if I can do that dunno

25 Jun 2006

Gotcha. So - individual replies to ads are best...
We were just browsing profiles and Winking at anything we liked.
Thanks re: quotes. smile

Used to music forums/fora(?), etc...
Multiple-quoting can feel a bit fussy, but it's a great way to reply to more than one user's points...
Hope I'm not teaching egg-sucking here, but - just open the reply in a separate window and cut and paste things over from different user's voices in the thread (press the 'Quote' tab up there, paste yer text and press the tab again). Then write your reply to that point underneath.
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25 Jun 2006

So, what was that?

Quote by Sickboycouple
Multiple-quoting can feel a bit fussy, but it's a great way to reply to more than one user's points...

take one egg,

Quote by Sickboycouple
Hope I'm not teaching egg-sucking here, but - just open the reply in a separate window and cut and paste things over from different user's voices in the thread (press the 'Quote' tab up there, paste yer text and press the tab again).

take one grandma

Quote by Sickboycouple
Then write your reply to that point underneath.

and show her how it's done.
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good to have you aboard.
H.x

25 Jun 2006

I think the instructions were for my benefit H. I am, after all, blond under all this red, remember? redface

25 Jun 2006

Me too hun, would you care for some personal tuition?
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H.x

25 Jun 2006

Quote by H-x
Me too hun, would you care for some personal tuition?

H.x

You know the way here :twisted:

25 Jun 2006

Sickboycouple
Welcome to SH :welcome:

25 Jun 2006

Why is this member banned? Did I miss something??

25 Jun 2006

26 Jun 2006

We did wonder - maybe the have an alter ego dunno

26 Jun 2006

Seemed to know how to use the site already dunno

26 Jun 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Well you seem to have grasped the multiple quotes rather well :giggle:
Buggered if I can do that

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I have offered personal and practical lessons but I am still killing cats. :giggle:

26 Jun 2006

This member should be back with us in a day or two so until then I'll lock his thread.
I can easily unlock it later.
Feel free to PM me :thumbup: