having started a do you fake it thread,it prompted someone to start a is it easy for you to orgasm thread so now from another angle heres a do you hold back from orgamasing question,ive noticed when some couples swap you can tell the other lady sometimes holds back from earth shattering orgasams for whatever reasons, maybe she feels embarrassed to let herself go (tears and all that) while her original partner watches,could be a few reasons so have you held back , do you hold back??
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I don't hold back at all, and I prefer the woman not to hold back either. What's the point? If you're naked, humping, and sweaty, coyness seems inapropriate doesn't it?
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I agree, the whole peak of the whole wonderful thing is to be swept away by the sheer pleasure of or female, it's about human beings in highly aroused states enjoying orgasms together with lots of mutual encouragement all round I'd hope!
I wouldn't want to come too quickly though I can usually manage to do that more than once in a decent lengh session but I wouldn't want to be judged or judge anybody in how they manage to orgasm in what is a unique situation every time, even between regular partners.
I'm just pleased for any man or woman who does climax and they should be very vocal and unashamedly indulge in the feeling when they do!
I wouldn't want to come too quickly though I can usually manage to do that more than once in a decent lengh session but I wouldn't want to be judged or judge anybody in how they manage to orgasm in what is a unique situation every time, even between regular partners.
I'm just pleased for any man or woman who does climax and they should be very vocal and unashamedly indulge in the feeling when they do!
Sex God
Quote by niceandgentle
I'm just pleased for any man or woman who does climax and they should be very vocal and unashamedly indulge in the feeling when they do!
:thumbup: I couldn't agree more.
Quote by bbw_lover
I'm just pleased for any man or woman who does climax and they should be very vocal and unashamedly indulge in the feeling when they do!
:thumbup: I couldn't agree more.
Too right, it's not a test, we're not feeling should always be that it's all ok, you can let go, you're among friends.(Or sympathetically minded strangers lol!)
just to cum would be nice lol, but when i do, i am sooooooo quiet 
comes from years of doing it with the kids asleep in the same/nearby rooms, I am far tooooooooo shy to let anyone else know I'm having sex, let alone enjoying it
:P
(I tell people i got my kids in the Asda sales, I did NOT have sex!!!)
comes from years of doing it with the kids asleep in the same/nearby rooms, I am far tooooooooo shy to let anyone else know I'm having sex, let alone enjoying it :P
(I tell people i got my kids in the Asda sales, I did NOT have sex!!!)
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
just to cum would be nice lol, but when i do, i am sooooooo quiet
:P
(I tell people i got my kids in the Asda sales, I did NOT have sex!!!)
Kids can always kill good sex, but a different venue away from the kids, a little bit of practice and someone with a little patience. Gentle encouragement, the right kisses and gentle erotic whispers …
Sex God
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: @ Mrs Bonegiggers post
I'm still wondering if these orgasm things are found under microscopes :undecided:
I'm still wondering if these orgasm things are found under microscopes :undecided:
Quote by bbw_lover
just to cum would be nice lol, but when i do, i am sooooooo quiet
:P
(I tell people i got my kids in the Asda sales, I did NOT have sex!!!)
Kids can always kill good sex, but a different venue away from the kids, a little bit of practice and someone with a little patience. Gentle encouragement, the right kisses and gentle erotic whispers …
..and you'll have an ororgasm * you'll never forget.
* An 'ororgasm' is as even better orgasm than an orgasm.
PS: Some say there is no such thing, some even go so far as to say that the ororgasm began life as a typing error.
As if!
Heck your at it in here as well
Anyway, actually Im going to disagree with you all!!
There are people who like being kept on the edge! Waves of bliss and all that? Its quite an erotic state of mind to be in and can be quite intense in it self!
Im gonna shurrup now cos Im gonna get a pm an I know who from!
Anyway, actually Im going to disagree with you all!!
There are people who like being kept on the edge! Waves of bliss and all that? Its quite an erotic state of mind to be in and can be quite intense in it self!
Im gonna shurrup now cos Im gonna get a pm an I know who from!
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
i think I LOVE you
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you certainly know how to push my buttons :inlove:
Reciprocated hunnie. Just need a time and a place
:inlove:
Sex God
Quote by anais
There are people who like being kept on the edge! Waves of bliss and all that? Its quite an erotic state of mind to be in and can be quite intense in it self!
I agree with this, and like to bring a woman close to the edge then stop, let her calm down for few seconds, then do it again. This can be very exciting, waiting to see how many times it takes before she explodes.
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Quote by cockslut
having started a do you fake it thread,it prompted someone to start a is it easy for you to orgasm thread so now from another angle heres a do you hold back from orgamasing question,ive noticed when some couples swap you can tell the other lady sometimes holds back from earth shattering orgasams for whatever reasons, maybe she feels embarrassed to let herself go (tears and all that) while her original partner watches,could be a few reasons so have you held back , do you hold back??
I don`t think i consciously hold back, but maybe I do sub consciously as I find it really hard to orgasm with anyone other than mr lyns.
Sex God
Oooo no I don't hold back, in fact I once pulled the curtains of the curtain rail in the playroom at a club I was climaxing so loudly :lol2:
pink x
pink x
Quote by bbw_lover
There are people who like being kept on the edge! Waves of bliss and all that? Its quite an erotic state of mind to be in and can be quite intense in it self!
I agree with this, and like to bring a woman close to the edge then stop, let her calm down for few seconds, then do it again. This can be very exciting, waiting to see how many times it takes before she explodes.
:twisted:
Too right BBW
Sex God
Quote by anais
There are people who like being kept on the edge! Waves of bliss and all that? Its quite an erotic state of mind to be in and can be quite intense in it self!
I agree with this, and like to bring a woman close to the edge then stop, let her calm down for few seconds, then do it again. This can be very exciting, waiting to see how many times it takes before she explodes.
:twisted:
Too right BBW
I only know this from experience, but I still think I need more practice.
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
we met a couple once many moons ago and she wasnt allowed to cum with another man :shock:
That's just selfish! She should be able to decide for herself.
Quote by bbw_lover
we met a couple once many moons ago and she wasnt allowed to cum with another man :shock:
That's just selfish! She should be able to decide for herself.
well i agree that its selfish but when couples set out they set their 'rules' and if its a rule she agreed to then who are we to say its wrong, personally i'd have said yeah ok but u cant cum either
i remember the night very well that my hubby made her cum and they had a massive raw in the bathroom and he had a go at my hubby saying he had broken their rules and we should have more respect for lines set out my people etc etc etc :shock: which i could understand if he had dun her up the bum if they said no anal or something like that but how can you say to someone yeah you can do oral on her but dont make her cum sometimes it just happens b4 you have time to stop
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
we met a couple once many moons ago and she wasnt allowed to cum with another man :shock:
That's just selfish! She should be able to decide for herself.
well i agree that its selfish but when couples set out they set their 'rules' and if its a rule she agreed to then who are we to say its wrong, personally i'd have said yeah ok but u cant cum either
i remember the night very well that my hubby made her cum and they had a massive raw in the bathroom and he had a go at my hubby saying he had broken their rules and we should have more respect for lines set out my people etc etc etc :shock:
which i could understand if he had dun her up the bum if they said no anal or something like that but how can you say to someone yeah you can do oral on her but dont make her cum sometimes it just happens b4 you have time to stop
Priceless :laughabove:
Quote by Mallock2006
we met a couple once many moons ago and she wasnt allowed to cum with another man :shock:
That's just selfish! She should be able to decide for herself.
well i agree that its selfish but when couples set out they set their 'rules' and if its a rule she agreed to then who are we to say its wrong, personally i'd have said yeah ok but u cant cum either
i remember the night very well that my hubby made her cum and they had a massive raw in the bathroom and he had a go at my hubby saying he had broken their rules and we should have more respect for lines set out my people etc etc etc :shock:
which i could understand if he had dun her up the bum if they said no anal or something like that but how can you say to someone yeah you can do oral on her but dont make her cum sometimes it just happens b4 you have time to stop
Priceless :laughabove:
well you know me no point minceing your words lol
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
we met a couple once many moons ago and she wasnt allowed to cum with another man :shock:
That's just selfish! She should be able to decide for herself.
just happens b4 you have time to stop
I think that's my point really. She must have wanted to cum otherwise she could have told you to stop or push you away, and it certainly makes sense to then spoil the whole evening by rowing.
If he wants to control his woman in that way then he's not doing a very good job.
I still think it's selfish because he obviously wants to control her, and she isn't that keen?
