We are a married couple and have been to abfab once on a sat couples nite. We want to try a fri nite but we have heard that the guys are VERY pushy? Anyone with advice?
We went on a Friday night once and I was most surprised at how extremely polite and very NON pushy the single guys were - maybe it was just one of those nights though - or maybe it was me :shock:
Well, as a single guy I am not necessarily in the best position to respond to this thread, but needs must.
On Fridays the biggest issue is with Guys hanging around in groups "cruising" around. It is not pretty and from what I can gather most of the couples are not into that. On the other hand there are some single guys there who like to chat with people and just have a nice time like any ordinary party. It becomes clear if a couple wants more with a guy and it is best kept like that. Now there are couples who like many guys attention, but in the most part it can be a bit much.
I have heard some comments but never complaints as most people like to live and let live.
I have been a couple of times and I find it good if you just want to meet people and see where it leads. On the other hand if you want a queue of guys lined up then that can work too, so something for everyone really.
I hope that helps a little and let me know if you want to have more feedback
J