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Any couples had the other guy become obsessive
Quote by foldexrace
I woke up in the night to find him playing with me and its not something I have an issue with and nor does my husband. Play turned into him climbing on top and what was different this time was it felt more like he was making love to me. By that I mean it was quite passionate etc. I got caught in the moment and as I said to my husband I quite enjoyed it.
It might be just me but unless you gave them express permission I'd have had more than an 'issue' if i woke to find the non partner of the menage fumbling with me under the sheets, might (and it might not) have felt good but I'd have stopped it right there and then and asked them to leave.
Quote by foldexrace
Next thing I know he is asking if he can send me flowers and I won't bore you with the other things. Usually I am pretty chilled out but could see this was heading the wrong direction and had to shut it down.
Its the first time that anyone has become a little over the top etc and I wondered if its happened to other couples? I have had plenty of guys say to my husband jokingly they fancied me etc but nothing this heavy before.
It happens, it's not exclusive to swinging and it's not nice but some seem to read much more into a situation than what it is, perhaps the 'early hours sesh was as 'intimate' for them as it was for you, you may have given them the wrong signals by allowing them to continue playing with your partner presumably asleep for some (all?) of it? *shrugs*
For me, sex with anyone else other than with your partner is just that 'sex' it's enjoyable, it's fun and it's a bit out of the box but it is just sex, absolutely nothing more than that and if/when the situation arises where a 3rd party sees it differently then dispense with them, put it down to experience and don't look back....ever.
Besides, flowers when picked are for tombstones, yuk!