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Are all 'straight' guys bi?

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Given the right circumstances wouldnt any guy touch another guys cock? Say in a mmf threesome. A few of the bi guys I meet have said they initially tried bi while swinging with a female partner.  

Orgasminator
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Wouldn't any guy? No.

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Nope, definitely not in my experience. I know people aren't always completely honest..or indeed completely sure about their likes and dislikes but that doesn't make it ok to make assumptions about everyone.   

As long as we all respect whatever each person states their sexuality/preferences/boundarys are ... can't go far wrong and hopefully everyone has a good time..😉

Sexlightened
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Given the right circumstances wouldnt any guy touch another guys cock? Say in a mmf threesome. A few of the bi guys I meet have said they initially tried bi while swinging with a female partner.  

I think that there has to be intent and not just incidental contact in a highly charged situation. A lot of guys find a bi side as they get older, some guys suppress their true feelings and desires and some guys just know from an early age. It takes all sorts and you really cannot make generalised assumptions.
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I have recently developed a desire to watch a man perform. My friend got there before me and we talked about it, I ended up wanking while he watched and loved the madness of it. Never felt anything like it before but at the same time realised I like being watched 

Sexlightened
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You seem to assume touching someone else's cock automatically makes a guy bi but if that was the case straight guys would never have a threesome because it's pretty impossible to avoid some sort of contact between the men! 

I don't know if it's a disconnect men also have, but I personally will interact with another woman in the moment as part of a group session although I wouldn't ever consider myself bi as I don't ever think about women in a sexual context outside those situations.

It does make sense though that quite often men who discover later in life that they are bi learn the fact whilst swinging because historically we were always taught that you were either gay or straight and there was no grey area - thus swinging gives their first exposure to another man in a sexual setting. Nowadays young people of both genders have a much clearer idea of their sexual preferences from the very beginning because society no longer sees the world in the black and white way it used to so this pathway to discovery might be a thing of the past now!

Orgasminator
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We can only speak for ourselves but he doesn't have the slightest interest in touching men anywhere intimate under any circumstances and she finds the thought of being with a man who also fancies guys rather less than a turn on.  Those are just our feelings, not a model for others to follow or agree with. Any labels people attach (or don't) to themselves are irrelevant to us.

Sexlightened
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It would be a pretty dull world if we were all looking for exactly the same experiences! 😊

Orgasminator
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It would be a pretty dull world if we were all looking for exactly the same experiences! 😊


Each to his/her/their own.  smile

Sexlightened
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You seem to assume touching someone else's cock automatically makes a guy bi but if that was the case straight guys would never have a threesome because it's pretty impossible to avoid some sort of contact between the men! 

I don't know if it's a disconnect men also have, but I personally will interact with another woman in the moment as part of a group session although I wouldn't ever consider myself bi as I don't ever think about women in a sexual context outside those situations.

It does make sense though that quite often men who discover later in life that they are bi learn the fact whilst swinging because historically we were always taught that you were either gay or straight and there was no grey area - thus swinging gives their first exposure to another man in a sexual setting. Nowadays young people of both genders have a much clearer idea of their sexual preferences from the very beginning because society no longer sees the world in the black and white way it used to so this pathway to discovery might be a thing of the past now!

You have such a logical and reasonable way of looking at these things and of course I believe that you are correct. Young folk now have so many options, so much opportunity and so much less stigma. 
Warming the Bed
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I have always considered myself to be totally straight, but if in a threesome/foursome scenario it would be inevitable to come into contact with the other guy and as long as that wasn't taken as a given for mm I could live with it.

Take each situation as it comes basically.

Happy fun times to you all.

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I would. 

I haven’t yet, but in the right circumstances I’m certain I would love it. Say with the wife in a MFM situation, I believe I’d like to suck a cock along with her. 

 ’ve recently developed a thing for transgender porn - chicks with dicks really turn me on and I’ll wank hard whilst dreaming of sucking a lovely shaven cock or fucking a tight arse whilst stroking a cock. 

Bloody hell - just writing that has got me hard, I’m off to visit mod edit.  

Forum Virgin
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I'm straight. I love fit fine women and big tits. When I smoke, I become bi, sometimes gay.

Forum Virgin
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I’d say a hi percentage are bi and keep the feelings to themselves. I think it takes an experience of some sort to bring it out. I think a lot of it is stigma in the world on how friends and family perceive them. I would say it’s a high percentage who are Bi yet say straight. 

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Always considered my self straight until I met up with an older couple when I was 20. The woman asked if she could watch her husband suck me, I agreed and loved every second of it. Since then I've considered myself bi.

I've had a few meets with guys over the years - just masturbating, sucking or watching them - I loved the sexual experiences I had with those guys but I've never felt any physical attraction for them the way I do with ladies.

Forum Virgin
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Nope. Nein. Non. Nyet.

Warming the Bed
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In my experience yes but of course the attached males are not going to admit that if they have a wife/GF breathing down their neck😇

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Always considered my self straight until I met up with an older couple when I was 20. The woman asked if she could watch her husband suck me, I agreed and loved every second of it. Since then I've considered myself bi.

I've had a few meets with guys over the years - just masturbating, sucking or watching them - I loved the sexual experiences I had with those guys but I've never felt any physical attraction for them the way I do with ladies.

Absolutely spot on based on my experience.......always considered myself straight until a few years ago when a spontaneous act led to me sucking a guy and since then have had a few meets and now consider myself fully bi but have no physical attraction to men like I have for women.....

Sexlightened
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Totally agree with above comments. I have no physical or emotional attraction towards men. But having said that I do enjoy cock play. Wanking, sucking, watching. But it's only about the cock. For that reason I consider myself bi as opposed to gay.

Warming the Bed
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I agree with BiGuyForU. Have never been physically attracted to guys and definitely won’t kiss or cuddle one. However the sex can be downright filthy which I like. I steer away from fully gay guys if honest only because they may want more closeness which I don’t like or want

However if they are content to piss in my mouth or fuck me without the kissing bits, I’m in

Forum Virgin
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If I were with a couple, and she is wanting to, I would let a guy suck me ready for her

Forum Virgin
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We are all conceived as females which is why we have nipples. It takes a while for the X chromosome to kick in and form the male parts. So biologically yes. However mentally it is a matter of preference. Example: we are born as carnivores and not vegetarians yet some choose to be.

Chat away

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For me its the primeval urge to have sex, to get that release and enjoyment, and for me i can get that from either sex, although have a preference for shaved or well trimmed, which applies to both gender. Also do see a few straight guys checking out my photos, maybe just see if they are bigger than me, or maybe fighting that urge to find out what it taste like in their mouth. Either way life is short so enjoy every little bit.

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I'm straight. I love fit fine women and big tits. When I smoke, I become bi, sometimes gay.

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Sexlightened
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My wife would love me to be more into it but guys just don't turn me on. The first time many years ago we were out dogging and she was sitting on my lap riding me and a dogger we know was watching and wanking. he came forward and she pulled his head down so he could taste her and see up close. A magical moment as he licked my shaft and her lips. she deliberately eased up, my cock popped out and straight into his mouth. he sucked pushed it back in and repeated wow did she cum. I tried it a while later and found a experience that was really weird as there isn't anything that feels like a cock that I 've put in my mouth. 2 cocks 1 mouth is another experience all should try, not my mouth. If I could detach the cock from a man I would be in ..........

Warming the Bed
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In the right company and if all were happy to then mutual touching playing and sucking would be acceptable but that would be as far as i would go and i would quite like meet the right couple to experience the curious side of things.

Forum Virgin
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Nope only the bi ones, the rest are either straight or gay, probably. All we know for sure is that almost 100% are actually men, or not men but ladies identifying as men and the like.

In conclusion, yes but sometimes no.

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Quote by TheDoggingVoyeur

Always considered my self straight until I met up with an older couple when I was 20. The woman asked if she could watch her husband suck me, I agreed and loved every second of it. Since then I've considered myself bi.

I've had a few meets with guys over the years - just masturbating, sucking or watching them - I loved the sexual experiences I had with those guys but I've never felt any physical attraction for them the way I do with ladies.

Absolutely spot on based on my experience.......always considered myself straight until a few years ago when a spontaneous act led to me sucking a guy and since then have had a few meets and now consider myself fully bi but have no physical attraction to men like I have for women.....

100%, pleasure is pleasure, cock = pleasure, giving and receiving a wank, but I want to leave it there whereas with a lady there is fun, romance, cuddles and so much more.

Warming the Bed
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We are amazed by the number of blokes who claim to be open minded but rule out being bi-curious. You are either one or the other, surely? We have also met people who claim to be straight until they have the opportunity to be bi and then they just go for it - that includes us. That is how we both became bi.