Are parties/clubs right for us? Advice appreciated

21 Aug 2005

Hi
We are nubies to the scene and have had little luck with the ads - picture collectors?
Anyway. wondered if anyone could advise if clubs/parties would be right for us. Initially we (couple) would like bi fem 3 some only but want to expand this to mmf and group stuff later.
Could we go to club/party with expectation of ffm experience or is this unrealistic.
Appreciate any advice. We really want to get involved but don't know how!
We are 35 (f) and 40 (m) from s yorks. any reccomendations?
Thanks a million and aplogies if this in wrong forum

21 Aug 2005

You'll probably get a better response in the cafe .........................hang on
Jas
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22 Aug 2005

To be totally honesy most women who go to clubs and parties are part of a couple and most couple's do not play alone, now saying that obviously there are single women and couples who do play alone but i think your chances are slim smile

22 Aug 2005

Hi ,
I''m fairly new to the scene as well, went to a party and it went really well,
but i was ready for the experience.
If you are easily shocked it might put you off or something.
lisamarie

22 Aug 2005

It is possible to have fun with a single female at clubs but it doesn't happen very often as there are a lot fewer single females than couples - if single females is all you are looking for then you are possibly going to be disappointed quite a few times before hitting lucky.
I would suggest either trying to arrange a private meet or going along to a club with the intention of just playing with each other - you never know what you may fancy once you have experienced things in person.
And also as other people have said if you like the idea of the social side of things as well then post on here and get to know people.
Roger the Dragon cool

22 Aug 2005

Thanks for all the advice people. very helpful biggrin