Are There Any Asian(indian) Clubs Out There? Part II

5 Jul 2007

Guyz read the first part of the thread we felt we had to comment....
During our first party..we did feel alittle secluded maybe alittle. Everyone bar us were white but we didn't really go for the color (if u no what i mean wink

) we went for the party.
met afew nice ppl eventually more and more approached us.. and a few days after we received a shed load of msg's telling us they were afraid to approach us, because they felt we were out of there league..!!! and what a handsome cpl we were etc etc.....
been back afew times had a laugh and afew drinks...nxt for us its gonna be TheFclub in London which im sure will have more ppl of color then the north of the country......
one funny thing i must mention is..a cpl we saw in the chat rooms, we msg'd but wasn't interested because "they only played with white cpls" they were very polite about it, and its been along time but they turned up to the party recognised us (we stand out due to tans biggrin

) then wanted to get it on..!!! (after staring and smiling all night)
Well ske has been known to turn straight women Bi..!!!
but this was different...they wer'nt racist or anything, just didn't have the opportunity to meet an asian cpl before...................
they wern't bigots...just uneducated in this respect.

5 Jul 2007

There are many clubs some formal and some informal. In my experience I found that other nationalities often choose much more up market smaller clubs, but which are not specifically characterised as 'swinger's' clubs. However their attitudes are as liberal and 'swingerish' as you want.
At one time I went to to the hotels in Brighton, where they have their own nightclubs. Here I met a variety of women, which led to one to one sex and also apres club parties, where couples would share a room with each other whilst having sex. It didn't quite spill over into a full on orgy, but given time and more familiarity I think it would have. That was 15-20 years ago.
I suppose I was lucky, as I now realise that I was attractive to other nationals. I currently have a weakness for Romanian gypsies. Quite gorgeous some of them.
But to answer the question in both threads. I would not expect to find a dedicated club for other nationals, as its unlikely to be a viable business operation. However I know that there are many other nationals who swing, but predominantly more in the scenarios I have described.
So my advice is to look beyond the obvious and into more up market venues, and be adventurous, keep trying new places. It takes time and effort. Its the people who make the clubs, and once you have found the right groove, it can all work for you very well. There's just as many swinging experiences to be had by 'conventional' occasions as can be sourced from dedicated swinging encounters.

5 Jul 2007

Quote by ski69
one funny thing i must mention is..a cpl we saw in the chat rooms, we msg'd but wasn't interested because "they only played with white cpls" they were very polite about it, and its been along time but they turned up to the party recognised us (we stand out due to tans ) then wanted to get it on..!!! (after staring and smiling all night)
Well ske has been known to turn straight women Bi..!!!
but this was different...they wer'nt racist or anything, just didn't have the opportunity to meet an asian cpl before...................
they wern't bigots...just uneducated in this respect.

Hiya Ski69 wave

I read your post and really wanted to comment on this bit smile

In the past I have always stated that I would only play with white men/women/couples because I had never met anyone of colour that I found attractive enough to sleep with. Now this wasn't me being racist or bigoted (although I have been called that because I wouldn't consider a black guy before rolleyes

) but purely because that was my preference at that time...
This year has seen my tastes change and I have now changed our ad so that it doesn't state white guys only. :D
I know what you mean about being the only people of a different colour as well Ski :lol2: The kids and I went to a work mates wedding and they were all asian apart from us. They were wonderful and treated us with so much respect that any uncomfortable feelings disappeared quickly. It's all part of having an open mind I think :thumbup:

5 Jul 2007

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Posted: Tue Jul 3, 2007 11:29 pm
I've locked this thread because I can no longer see the benefit of allowing it to run and I'm not keen on some of the comments getting rather personal
Please do not start a thread on a similar line.
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this posted by a mod on the first thread...last thing it says is do not start another !!!!!!

5 Jul 2007

Normally I would agree with you Dean but this thread was posted by an asian couple who have put across another prospective.
I am glad they have posted biggrin

5 Jul 2007

Quote by deancannock
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Posted: Tue Jul 3, 2007 11:29 pm
I've locked this thread because I can no longer see the benefit of allowing it to run and I'm not keen on some of the comments getting rather personal
Please do not start a thread on a similar line.
Please pm admin or send in a support ticket if you have a problem, I'm going to bed
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this posted by a mod on the first thread...last thing it says is do not start another !!!!!!

Well done Dean....
You've past your quoting exam.... rolleyes

Seeing as this thread hasnt degenerated into a slanging match perhaps its being left to run as it may prove to be fruitfull dunno

5 Jul 2007

Quote by deancannock
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Posted: Tue Jul 3, 2007 11:29 pm
I've locked this thread because I can no longer see the benefit of allowing it to run and I'm not keen on some of the comments getting rather personal
Please do not start a thread on a similar line.
Please pm admin or send in a support ticket if you have a problem, I'm going to bed
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this posted by a mod on the first thread...last thing it says is do not start another !!!!!!

That will be me then :doh:
I don't have to justify my actions to you Dean but I will if it makes you feel happier rolleyes

I hate locking threads of any sort, people should be allowed to have discussion on anything that falls within the AUP.
The original thread was looking for suitable clubs and went from bad to worse with the digs about race.
This thread take a slightly different slant on the original and the couple have put across another prospective based on an experience
If you have a problem with me leaving this open, take it to admin.
Other than that, I hope this thread can run without it getting personal dunno

5 Jul 2007

Quote by Dawnie
If you have a problem with me leaving this open, take it to admin.
Other than that, I hope this thread can run without it getting personal

One must agree wholeheartedly with the sentiments previously written by the right honourable moderator...

6 Jul 2007

Quote by Dawnie
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Post subject:
Posted: Tue Jul 3, 2007 11:29 pm
I've locked this thread because I can no longer see the benefit of allowing it to run and I'm not keen on some of the comments getting rather personal
Please do not start a thread on a similar line.
Please pm admin or send in a support ticket if you have a problem, I'm going to bed
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this posted by a mod on the first thread...last thing it says is do not start another !!!!!!

That will be me then :doh:
I don't have to justify my actions to you Dean but I will if it makes you feel happier rolleyes

I hate locking threads of any sort, people should be allowed to have discussion on anything that falls within the AUP.
The original thread was looking for suitable clubs and went from bad to worse with the digs about race.
This thread take a slightly different slant on the original and the couple have put across another prospective based on an experience
If you have a problem with me leaving this open, take it to admin.
Other than that, I hope this thread can run without it getting personal dunno

not asking you to justify your actions. Quite the opposite and was simply asking why someone had started a thread of same name..when clearly asked to. Not exactly a problem to me.

6 Jul 2007

we still love u ski
u cumming to our party on 21st july
2s