Quote by tweeky
Just my 2p's worth on why we dont try clubs. Firstly not a decent one in the area so it seems. We ummmm'd and ahhh'd about going to the one that is in our area but after having read a thread on here of late wouldent touch it with a barge pole. Secondly others may disagree with this but to me going to a swingers club is where you go to swing for 100% definate. By going you kind of make that commitment to yourselves, I wouldent go to the pub and not buy a drink. As our previous experience was unplannesd we kind of prefer it that way. I would feel kind of silly going to a club and sitting down drinking all night, may as well have gone to the pub. Having also aranged child care, taxis, a free time and undergoing the nerves involved it would seem silly not to go and experience the intended designation of the venue. Maybe we are not ready for that commitment.
Munchs are dfifferent as we know the score
Mr Tweeky
Oh you are missing so much - even if you have to travel and make it a bit of an evening away once in a while.
There is no pressure to do anything you don't want to at a club- not a good one anyway. You can just chat and relax - enjoy the sexual tingle in the air - enjoy eachother and only if you are happy involve others in your own way, whoever and however. There is no pressure to full swap or even soft swing.
At the reputable clubs there are no drunks wondering around groping all and sundry, there is no pressure and no hassle. You just need advice on where the really good ones are.
