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Quote by veejay
veejay do you have a problem with British people?? Sorry for asking, and I’m not trying to offend but that’s how your coming across.

No, not at all. I've been here all my life.
I have a British passport which I show at every opportunity when abroad. But where ever I go, I make an effort to portray a good image of Britain.
I think people in this country take it for granted too much.
But what I don't like is the fact that we have a weak govt. This used to be a super power, but is now reduced to "lap-dog" status. It seems that the govt will oppress its own people to satisfy the whitehouse (NatWest 3 for example).
And then there's racism and racists. I'm not going into this topic. But its around everywhere, including here. I wouldn't be suprised if there were BNP, or C18 supporters here.
And also the fact that some British people go abroad thinking they can do as they please, that they are immune from harm.
Unfortunately its a harsh world out there. I just think people need to be more aware of whats going on in the rest of the world. And act with more due care.
Now, on that I can agree!
Once protected by the British Bulldog, Britons abroad are now protected by a sick parrot
Quote by veejay

With regards to that particular incident I have only one thing to say...
If you have done nothing wrong and have nothing to fear/hide why would you run when challenged by the Police dunno

Oh right? Take a look at the title of this thread!
So someone who runs should be punished by being shot in the head? Don't make me laugh. How daft does that sound.
I think you'll find that Mr De Menezes did NOT run. He did NOT offer any resistance. He was NOT even an Arab/Muslim. He had NO connections to terrorism. So what DID he actually do wrong?
He was restrained, then shot at close range. There is even doubt as to whether the police identified themselves.
You should get the facts right before saying things like this.
Its a great shame Mr De Menezes died but lets not forget that his visa had run out & if he had obeyed the laws of the land & left the country when he should of he would not of been in this situation .
We have lots of evidence for what or what did not happen but at the end of the day the policemen involved followed a suspected tube bomber on to a train to save lives & at great risk to them selves if he had had a bomb that had gone off.
Quote by veejay

So we are both believing what we have been told as neither one of us was there to witness it ....
And to be honest the two incidents cant be compared as they are at totally different ends of the spectrum..
One was during a very tense time i.e. lots of terrorist activity going on and everyone on high alert and one was in a clasroom of a school that wasnt even a school dedicated to the religion of the indiginous peoples .....

No, I don't automatically believe anything people tell me anymore, I used to. But the CCTV footage showed that the version of events given by the met pol was not accurate.
I'm sorry if I have come across as aggressive towards you. But I'm sick of being labelled and tarred with the same brush as a terrorist. There are plenty of Hindus,Sikhs,"Brown Christians" (and dare I say Muslim) who are discriminated against, even though they denounce terror.
I started off in the thread saying that this lady is being made an example out of. But we have to look at the way our govt treats its own people.
Untill you posted that I had made no issue about your race/colour/creed/religion so you obviously have an axe to grind but here isnt the place....
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Quote by Mallock2006
it is so good that people are so vitriolic about the rights of an individual who has 'made a mistake' in another country.
what about those who make a mistake in this country. You know the ones that happen to be walking down the street and happen to be doing absolutely nothing wrong.
oh damn eh?
I hope you are equally vitriolic about their rights?

With regards to that particular incident I have only one thing to say...
If you have done nothing wrong and have nothing to fear/hide why would you run when challenged by the Police dunno
point of clarification ...if you have read both official reports and transcripts from the trial against the met police..... he never ran from the police at any point........
there are 17 witness statements on the record given at the trial, saying that he did not run or put up any resistance....
so in this instance will you please retract what you have said.... thank you......
Quote by fabio
it is so good that people are so vitriolic about the rights of an individual who has 'made a mistake' in another country.
what about those who make a mistake in this country. You know the ones that happen to be walking down the street and happen to be doing absolutely nothing wrong.
oh damn eh?
I hope you are equally vitriolic about their rights?

With regards to that particular incident I have only one thing to say...
If you have done nothing wrong and have nothing to fear/hide why would you run when challenged by the Police dunno
point of clarification ...if you have read both official reports and transcripts from the trial against the met police..... he never ran from the police at any point........
Ok.....
So by a majority of 2 to 1 we have established he didnt run away.....
But.......
Quote by sword-stileto
Its a great shame Mr De Menezes died but lets not forget that his visa had run out & if he had obeyed the laws of the land & left the country when he should of he would not of been in this situation .
We have lots of evidence for what or what did not happen but at the end of the day the policemen involved followed a suspected tube bomber on to a train to save lives & at great risk to them selves if he had had a bomb that had gone off.
Quote by Mallock2006
it is so good that people are so vitriolic about the rights of an individual who has 'made a mistake' in another country.
what about those who make a mistake in this country. You know the ones that happen to be walking down the street and happen to be doing absolutely nothing wrong.
oh damn eh?
I hope you are equally vitriolic about their rights?

With regards to that particular incident I have only one thing to say...
If you have done nothing wrong and have nothing to fear/hide why would you run when challenged by the Police dunno
point of clarification ...if you have read both official reports and transcripts from the trial against the met police..... he never ran from the police at any point........
Ok.....
So by a majority of 2 to 1 we have established he didnt run away.....
But.......
Quote by sword-stileto
Its a great shame Mr De Menezes died but lets not forget that his visa had run out & if he had obeyed the laws of the land & left the country when he should of he would not of been in this situation .
We have lots of evidence for what or what did not happen but at the end of the day the policemen involved followed a suspected tube bomber on to a train to save lives & at great risk to them selves if he had had a bomb that had gone off.

Actually that is not quite true either......
he did originally have a 6 month tourist visa...... then he applied to stay in the uk on a student visa....which was granted....
then in his passport there was a stamp giving him indefinate leave to stay in the u.k....... and at the time the then foriegn secretary stated that he believed that De menezes was living in the U.K legally......this was eventually confirmed by the home office, he was paying taxes... and contributing to our society.....
but it is interesting in the context of the original question about how countries view the same incident differently.... because in the u.k a lot of people have this exact same attitude, the people in brazil see it completely differently......
Quote by veejay
No, not at all. I've been here all my life.
I have a British passport which I show at every opportunity when abroad. But where ever I go, I make an effort to portray a good image of Britain.
I think people in this country take it for granted too much.
But what I don't like is the fact that we have a weak govt. This used to be a super power, but is now reduced to "lap-dog" status. It seems that the govt will oppress its own people to satisfy the whitehouse (NatWest 3 for example).
And then there's racism and racists. I'm not going into this topic. But its around everywhere, including here. I wouldn't be suprised if there were BNP, or C18 supporters here.
And also the fact that some British people go abroad thinking they can do as they please, that they are immune from harm.
Unfortunately its a harsh world out there. I just think people need to be more aware of whats going on in the rest of the world. And act with more due care.

and just to make sure I am being fair on all sides.....smile
The "natwest 3" actually plea bargined with the US authorities so there must have been something there.... and did in fact plead guilty to one count of "wire fraud" each........they are likely to get approx 3 yrs each
but it is another case of things being seen differently in different parts of the world..........
Quote by veejay
veejay do you have a problem with British people?? Sorry for asking, and I’m not trying to offend but that’s how your coming across.

No, not at all. I've been here all my life.
I have a British passport which I show at every opportunity when abroad. But where ever I go, I make an effort to portray a good image of Britain.
I think people in this country take it for granted too much.
But what I don't like is the fact that we have a weak govt. This used to be a super power, but is now reduced to "lap-dog" status. It seems that the govt will oppress its own people to satisfy the whitehouse (NatWest 3 for example).
And then there's racism and racists. I'm not going into this topic. But its around everywhere, including here. I wouldn't be suprised if there were BNP, or C18 supporters here.
And also the fact that some British people go abroad thinking they can do as they please, that they are immune from harm.
Unfortunately its a harsh world out there. I just think people need to be more aware of whats going on in the rest of the world. And act with more due care.
Veejay, how can you possibly be British it says on your profile which I am sure everyone reading this thread has checked, that you are Asian. rolleyes
Fun scottish couple - I don't have a problem with anybody of any nationality. I have a problem with ignorance, bigotry and the arrogance that is displayed by some people disguised as patriotism which when getting to the nuts and bolts of it is (to my eyes) rascist.
I am proud of being a human being. I am proud of being British. I am aware of the faults of humans I am aware of the faults of 'The British' both historically and currently. It doesn't make me less British to discuss that honestly and openly. Neither does it make 'Veejay' anti or less - British. Why he should have felt the need to justify his Britishness is beyond me, perhapsbecause his argument must carry less weight (in your opinion) because of the colour of his skin ?
shame shame shame
To be honest I wouldn't care if she was not British I would still be disgusted. Although if it was someone not from the west it is very unlikely to have even 2 inches of news print and probably nothing on the airwaves so would not have heard about it.
Most of the big religions start off with the message of love and peace. And this message gets screwed up by zealots and the people in power to have control over the people. But as I said before religion do change, popes no longer ride to war on horseback, there is no Spanish inquisition and we don't invade countries to make convert them as Christians now we only do it to get the oil. But for them to change you have got to say its wrong. If you just say "well I don't like it but that’s the law their so that’s fair enough" nothing will ever change.
We may have tiny voice in the big scheme of things but it's a voice millions on the plant would love to have.
Bit off topic this but I believe voting in this country should be compulsory with an option on the ballot paper of being none of the above. (It would probably win) Better idea than compulsory ID cards that’s for sure.
Quote by splendid_
veejay do you have a problem with British people?? Sorry for asking, and I’m not trying to offend but that’s how your coming across.

No, not at all. I've been here all my life.
I have a British passport which I show at every opportunity when abroad. But where ever I go, I make an effort to portray a good image of Britain.
I think people in this country take it for granted too much.
But what I don't like is the fact that we have a weak govt. This used to be a super power, but is now reduced to "lap-dog" status. It seems that the govt will oppress its own people to satisfy the whitehouse (NatWest 3 for example).
And then there's racism and racists. I'm not going into this topic. But its around everywhere, including here. I wouldn't be suprised if there were BNP, or C18 supporters here.
And also the fact that some British people go abroad thinking they can do as they please, that they are immune from harm.
Unfortunately its a harsh world out there. I just think people need to be more aware of whats going on in the rest of the world. And act with more due care.
Veejay, how can you possibly be British it says on your profile which I am sure everyone reading this thread has checked, that you are Asian. rolleyes
Fun scottish couple - I don't have a problem with anybody of any nationality. I have a problem with ignorance, bigotry and the arrogance that is displayed by some people disguised as patriotism which when getting to the nuts and bolts of it is (to my eyes) rascist.
I am proud of being a human being. I am proud of being British. I am aware of the faults of humans I am aware of the faults of 'The British' both historically and currently. It doesn't make me less British to discuss that honestly and openly. Neither does it make 'Veejay' anti or less - British. Why he should have felt the need to justify his Britishness is beyond me, perhapsbecause his argument must carry less weight (in your opinion) because of the colour of his skin ?
shame shame shame
Splendid,
What are you trying to insinuate? For the record I’m not British, although I have been here since I was 4 and class myself as British, If you have a problem with my posts on here then fair enough but don’t try to insinuate that I’m a racist when you don’t even know me, I asked the question because he was coming across that way.
Veejay:
Sorry if I offended you, but I asked you the question because of the way you were coming across in your posts, regardless of whether you were British or any nationality for that matter, but as usual in these debates there’s always someone who jumps in with the race card and its never from anyone involved. Like I said though if it offended you I’m deeply sorry.
I’m actually feeling pretty sick and upset now after being branded a racist, and have now decided I will no longer post on these forums, I’ll continue to read them and use chat, but I’ll take a step back when it comes to posting on the forums, and although I have a thick skin (you need to have to post on here) there’s nothing worse than being branded a racist, especially from someone who doesn’t even know me or anything about me. Hope it makes them really happy.
Take care and have fun people xx
Quote by Fun Scottish Couple
veejay do you have a problem with British people?? Sorry for asking, and I’m not trying to offend but that’s how your coming across.

No, not at all. I've been here all my life.
I have a British passport which I show at every opportunity when abroad. But where ever I go, I make an effort to portray a good image of Britain.
I think people in this country take it for granted too much.
But what I don't like is the fact that we have a weak govt. This used to be a super power, but is now reduced to "lap-dog" status. It seems that the govt will oppress its own people to satisfy the whitehouse (NatWest 3 for example).
And then there's racism and racists. I'm not going into this topic. But its around everywhere, including here. I wouldn't be suprised if there were BNP, or C18 supporters here.
And also the fact that some British people go abroad thinking they can do as they please, that they are immune from harm.
Unfortunately its a harsh world out there. I just think people need to be more aware of whats going on in the rest of the world. And act with more due care.
Veejay, how can you possibly be British it says on your profile which I am sure everyone reading this thread has checked, that you are Asian. rolleyes
Fun scottish couple - I don't have a problem with anybody of any nationality. I have a problem with ignorance, bigotry and the arrogance that is displayed by some people disguised as patriotism which when getting to the nuts and bolts of it is (to my eyes) rascist.
I am proud of being a human being. I am proud of being British. I am aware of the faults of humans I am aware of the faults of 'The British' both historically and currently. It doesn't make me less British to discuss that honestly and openly. Neither does it make 'Veejay' anti or less - British. Why he should have felt the need to justify his Britishness is beyond me, perhapsbecause his argument must carry less weight (in your opinion) because of the colour of his skin ?
shame shame shame
Splendid,
What are you trying to insinuate? For the record I’m not British, although I have been here since I was 4 and class myself as British, If you have a problem with my posts on here then fair enough but don’t try to insinuate that I’m a racist when you don’t even know me, I asked the question because he was coming across that way.
Veejay:
Sorry if I offended you, but I asked you the question because of the way you were coming across in your posts, regardless of whether you were British or any nationality for that matter, but as usual in these debates there’s always someone who jumps in with the race card and its never from anyone involved. Like I said though if it offended you I’m deeply sorry.
I’m actually feeling pretty sick and upset now after being branded a racist, and have now decided I will no longer post on these forums, I’ll continue to read them and use chat, but I’ll take a step back when it comes to posting on the forums, and although I have a thick skin (you need to have to post on here) there’s nothing worse than being branded a racist, especially from someone who doesn’t even know me or anything about me. Hope it makes them really happy.
Take care and have fun people xx
shame you feel that way...but i know what your saying..i've been accused of being a racist on several occasions...and it fucking pisses me off when someone throws the racist card into the debate...
Non Mod hat on:
British is nationality
Asian is ethnicity - different things completely in this context.
My work involves collecting this sort of information from people (on a small scale).
Quote by Fun Scottish Couple
I’m actually feeling pretty sick and upset now after being branded a racist, and have now decided I will no longer post on these forums, I’ll continue to read them and use chat, but I’ll take a step back when it comes to posting on the forums, and although I have a thick skin (you need to have to post on here) there’s nothing worse than being branded a racist, especially from someone who doesn’t even know me or anything about me. Hope it makes them really happy.
Take care and have fun people xx

I can completely see your point about being branded racist - don't let that stop you posting.
Quote by Jags
British is nationality
Asian is ethnicity - different things completely in this context.

:thumbup:
Quote by flower411

Veejay, how can you possibly be British it says on your profile which I am sure everyone reading this thread has checked, that you are Asian. rolleyes

Sorry to jump in, I`ve been trying to keep out of this thread.
But, isn`t that, just about the most racist thing that anybody can say ? :shock:
You can`t be British because you`re Asian !!! :shock: FFS !!! :shock:
Taking things out of context is not the best way to debate. :roll:
And meanwhile over in Sudan...

Once again, Islam shows its true self when its followers deem themselves to have been wronged, no matter how slightly. What the Sudanese fail to realise is their actions will be observed in the Western World adding further weight to the argument that Islam and our own culture can never be truly integrated.
In the meantime, our Government should immediately suspend all aid payments to Sudan.
Quote by veejay

I wish I could say more.. I really do but freedom of speech is reserved for those who stand against us as a nation. British people can say nothing any more.. but clerics and others can stand in the street and slag off our way of life incite hatred call us blind threaten us and our beliefs and what happens to them.. Bugger all........... Great!!!
Welcome to the new Briton... will the last man out turn the light off!
Mike

I don't think anyone here has said the woman deserves this.
When was the last time any cleric chatted shyte on the street? I think you'll find those guys have/are being disposed of.
But then again, why is it your matesat the BNP get to say their things, and get away with slapped wrists?
Anyway I don't think there be need to turn out the lights. There'll be plenty of black, brown and yellow men in this country, especially with all these damn immigrants around.
My Mates..? Based on what exactly? How dare you..! You don't know me, of me or anything about me.. If your trying to turn this into a race thing you go ahead.. but you will be wrong and make a big mistake!
British people are made up of many races and all are entitled to say there piece in my eyes.. it's reverse racism that cheeses me off, some can say anything.. and clearly get away with it Others can't I have no problem with any decent hard working person whatever the colour of skin and have no alliance with the BNP or otherwise..
Most decent people in this country are fed up to the back teeth of extreemists and I would say that would be true of Black white asian and even fookin eskimos so don't you try branding me ... OK!
Mike

In edit Veejay it seems you have tried branding everyone who says anything against your words as racist... I think my point is proven just with you! Can't have your own way so call the racist card...
Sad... Really fookin sad!
Besides... I don't think anyone mentioned Race... I know I didn't.. More about religion.. It clearly causes more grief than it ever cures..
No one religion is better than any other! The person counts.. How they are not what they believe!
See my sig... Been there long before these posts!
Mike
I hate it when the race card is played at the drop of a hat, as often it can be used to stifle free expression of non racist opinions because those opinions might be about someone of a certain race whilst having nothing to do with their race. But what I'm not seeing here is sympathy for someone who is now facing the consequences of her actions, but an excuse to jump on the Islamophobe bandwagon. For the record, I don't greatly respect or agree with that faith of the laws Islamic countries make based on it. But then, I have little respect for Christianity, and the laws passed that oppress personal freedoms in Christian countries. However, what I do have respect for it the right for these countries to pass and uphold these laws. And if I were to ensconce myself in a country which has such laws, I would abide by them and understand I would face consequences should I go against them.
I notice it's apparently OK to shoot someone even if he wasn't running away from the police because he was a foreigner and was possibly illegally working in this country. It's also OK to shoot someone if they are running suspiciously.
Well, why am I still alive? A couple of years ago, when the bombings, attempted bombings, and this shooting took place, Queen played a gig in Hyde Park. The area was crawling with police, understandable at the time. It was a very hot evening. I, as my username suggests, am frequently in a state of disarray, and I was going to the gig. As usual I was very late, very stressed (Londons road network confuses the hell out of me) and in a rush. After already swinging my car abruptly towards a group of police for directions, once I'd parked I put my thick heavy jacket on, pockets filled with refreshments and a camera, and ran to the entrance. Past lots of police. I got to what I thought was the right gate, only to be told my ticket was for the other end, so had to run the entire length of the area to get in. Sods law, some of the sweets I had started falling out my pocket, and I ran past police very out of breath, determined, in a bulky jacket on a hot day, clearly with my pockets brimmed to leaking. Not once was I challenged, let alone pinned down and repeatedly shot in the head.
Now, could this be because I happen to be white, and wearing a leather to a rock concert? Because I'm sure all terrorists are not white, and never wear leather jackets...
The point of the above is if we're to believe anyone acting strangely at a time of heightened tension should be at least restrained (if not shot), howcome nobody batted an eyelid at me? Or is it more a case of if you have darker skin and want to catch a tube, it's OK to shoot you so long as you live near some suspects? At the time people were saying he'd jumped barriers, was wearing a heavy jacket, run onto the train, and to this day many (who maybe want to?) still believe that, even when more reliable evidence says he was "allowed" to leave his home, get on a bus, get a ticket for the tube, get a newspaper and sit down on the train to read it before being killed. The police made a mistake that resulted in an innocent man being dead, yet I'm still getting the impression many consider that to be acceptable.
One other thing that has irked me is the lumping together of pets and toys. Without wishing to add yet more vitriolic tangents to this thread, I can't remember the last time a toy would eat, drink, sleep, breath, run up to great you when you walked in the room, and go through pain and suffering, and ultimately death. I'm pretty sure my lego never needed any medication to make it better either.
Shambolic...
The police did mess up with the Brazilian Guy.. No doubts about it.. They even admit he was under obs before he entered the tube.. They missed the opportunity to stop him. Panick was the key there at a time many lives had just been lost..
What that has to do with naming a fookin teddy bear i have No idea???
Mike
I'm giving this thread a time out. It'll be locked until tomorrow morning to give all concerned time to cool down.
Its very sad when such a potentially interesting topic tips itself into such outright abusive views.
Any thread started about the same topic will be removed.
Any comments, complaints or suggestions about this locking send to my PM box please.