are u a watcher or participater

23 Oct 2005

as we have just been to our first club looking round the many rooms with open doors and some locked but many with viewing windows there seems to be a 50/50 split on people watching and people participating just wondered are u a watcher or participater or both ? dunno

23 Oct 2005

Both, but participating is better :P

23 Oct 2005

Quote by Phoenix
Both, but participating is better :P

we prefer both too redface

but noticed alot prefer to just watch

23 Oct 2005

both here too but its much more fun joining in biggrin

23 Oct 2005

Quote by pleasure40070
both here too but its much more fun joining in

it is yes it is lol

:wink:

23 Oct 2005

Quote by rams_cpl
both here too but its much more fun joining in

it is yes it is lol

:wink:.
Indeed :thumbup:

23 Oct 2005

Participator but I like being watched too redface

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:rascal: :rascal:

23 Oct 2005

Definatley a participator but you need to sit out some times to get your breath back wink

23 Oct 2005

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sorry, have to do this as Freckledbird isn't here to rectify the situation, it's 'participant' :oops: :oops:

23 Oct 2005

Quote by Maia
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sorry, have to do this as Freckledbird isn't here to rectify the situation, it's 'participant' :oops: :oops:

Thats not fair we all know how good a spellerer FB is, this is from the FB dickshinehairy
"Partysipant - a bod that does fings"
bolt

before she sees

23 Oct 2005

Quote by Morbius
ops: :oops:
sorry, have to do this as Freckledbird isn't here to rectify the situation, it's 'participant' :oops: :oops:

Thats not fair we all know how good a spellerer FB is, this is from the FB dickshinehairy
"Partysipant - a bod that does fings"
bolt

before she sees
oh boy... moribus really wants to die this week.... lol

if you are going to have a death wish then just slit your wrists... it will be a lot less painful..... smile

sean
1 post till 2000.......
more do-er than watcher....

23 Oct 2005

Watching? Where's the fun in that? dunno

23 Oct 2005

Quote by fabio grooverider
ops: :oops:
sorry, have to do this as Freckledbird isn't here to rectify the situation, it's 'participant' :oops: :oops:

Thats not fair we all know how good a spellerer FB is, this is from the FB dickshinehairy
"Partysipant - a bod that does fings"
bolt

before she sees
oh boy... moribus really wants to die this week.... lol

if you are going to have a death wish then just slit your wrists... it will be a lot less painful..... smile

sean
1 post till 2000.......
more do-er than watcher....
AH mate theres method in my madness..... FB is on Hols and unless someone dobs me in she aint gonna bother reading ALLLLLLL the threads she's missed ;) :twisted:
But just-in-case I'm going to bye a new cricket box first thing in the morning.

23 Oct 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
Watching? Where's the fun in that?

its a good start before you have fun hun lol

23 Oct 2005

Quote by Morbius
ops: :oops:
sorry, have to do this as Freckledbird isn't here to rectify the situation, it's 'participant' :oops: :oops:

Thats not fair we all know how good a spellerer FB is, this is from the FB dickshinehairy
"Partysipant - a bod that does fings"
bolt

before she sees
oh boy... moribus really wants to die this week.... lol

if you are going to have a death wish then just slit your wrists... it will be a lot less painful..... smile

sean
1 post till 2000.......
more do-er than watcher....
AH mate theres method in my madness..... FB is on Hols and unless someone dobs me in she aint gonna bother reading ALLLLLLL the threads she's missed ;) :twisted:
But just-in-case I'm going to bye a new cricket box first thing in the morning.
PM's a copy of this post and thread to FB :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Love Ya Morb kiss

:bolt:
C x

23 Oct 2005

Quote by rams_cpl
Watching? Where's the fun in that?

its a good start before you have fun hun lol

Thats us, and its also good to watch WHILE your participating, helps highten the mood we find..... roll on Friday next visit to Utopia here we cum. :happy:

23 Oct 2005

I like doing and watching .. I am still new so am a little scared of making first moves so tend to sit and watch a little.
That said - I don't like being watched. Makes me feel all self conscious and it really stops me enjoying the moment.
Have to agree with you all and doing is soooooo much more fun wink

:wink:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

23 Oct 2005

Quote by KazBBW
I like doing and watching .. I am still new so am a little scared of making first moves so tend to sit and watch a little.
That said - I don't like being watched. Makes me feel all self conscious and it really stops me enjoying the moment.
Have to agree with you all and doing is soooooo much more fun :wink:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

you are so right lol

:wink: :wink:

23 Oct 2005

Quote by rams_cpl
Watching? Where's the fun in that?

its a good start before you have fun hun lol

Each to their own but starting playing straight away seems to work for us. wink

23 Oct 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
Watching? Where's the fun in that?

its a good start before you have fun hun lol

Each to their own but starting playing straight away seems to work for us. wink

Yes all well and good but how do you get started .. was at Chams last night and ended up very frustrated as I didn't know how to approach anyone as I didn't know anyone so ended up doing nothing and felt rather upset at the end of the evening .. I am so new to all this I haven't got a clue and need some guidance I think.
DD

23 Oct 2005

never been much of a voyer myself

23 Oct 2005

Must admit to probably being more of a voyeur than a particpater redface

Once I get going I'm fine but sometimes I just feel obtrusive :shock:
C x

23 Oct 2005

Quote by devondelight
Yes all well and good but how do you get started .. was at Chams last night and ended up very frustrated as I didn't know how to approach anyone as I didn't know anyone so ended up doing nothing and felt rather upset at the end of the evening .. I am so new to all this I haven't got a clue and need some guidance I think.
DD

We chat for England but very rarely ask people if they want to play. In the clubs we go to it's ok to just gently touch in an open room. If you get no response or they move away it means no, but no-one takes offence, so our approach is to go in an open room and either start it or join in. It works for us. lol

Our experience at Chams is that that approach works in the orgy room, the couples room and the open rooms on the top floor. The jacuzzi there is a good place to start too.

23 Oct 2005

hello rams xxxxx
i prefer to watch whilst im participating.......is that allowed???

23 Oct 2005

i love to be watched salt is more the watcher biggrin

23 Oct 2005

Quote by dargento
hello rams xxxxx
i prefer to watch whilst im participating.......is that allowed???

hi dargento
wink

yes its allowed we like to watch whilst we are participating too

23 Oct 2005

Quote by dargento
hello rams xxxxx
i prefer to watch whilst im participating.......is that allowed???

good answer :thumbup:
now why didn't i think of that :lol2:
i must admit i'm a little nosey while in a room full of people so long as i'm playing a part in it too

23 Oct 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
hello rams xxxxx
i prefer to watch whilst im participating.......is that allowed???

good answer :thumbup:
now why didn't i think of that :lol2:
i must admit i'm a little nosey while in a room full of people so long as i'm playing a part in it too
:thumbup:

23 Oct 2005

went to cams last night .Six of us (three couples) had a tour round and ended up in the room with the swing none of us played we just sat and had a good natter and a laugh..so shouldn't there be a third category for don't give a shit if we play or watch as long as we all have a good time

23 Oct 2005

Watcher here, and last (and only) club I went to I watched, I chatted, I had a great time and came home feeling wonderful. So while playing must be a great release I will keep that between Mrs TnH and myself, watch, learn and pass on to her later that day :lickface:
Also in the club were a few dedicated peeps who enjoyed, really enjoyed being watched... wow was that fun for all concerned silly

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So we watchers have a place too smile

good chat is fun as well though...