Are you a lights on or lights off type?

23 Oct 2008

Just reading a magazine article about people being self conscious when they have sex. Now, given the type of site this is, I would have thought that the majority of us were pretty confident when it comes to all things 'bedroom'...
dunno

Are we? Are you a lights on or lights off type? What do you worry about? What do you enjoy?
Me: lights on. I like to see the other person/people enjoying themselves. Or pitch black, middle of the night, no words just f*ck me now kinda sex... I like that too! :rascal:

23 Oct 2008

Can't remember I've usually got my eyes closed ;)

23 Oct 2008

Depends where we do it redface

ops: In bed lights are usually of
Downstairs usually have lamps on lo and lava lamps on
Love having sex infront of a coal fire with no lights on though :twisted:

23 Oct 2008

Oh yes Tan, with you on the mood lighting and open fires!

23 Oct 2008

Candles to redface

ops:
I have 9 lamps/lights in my front room including the main light which never gets used, the lights on the lecki fire, 2 lava lamps, 2 with dimmer things, one with a red bulb in, 1 glass bubble lamp thingy and another for reading
Can do any mood ya like :oops: actually i think i have a lamp fetish i have about 25 dotted around the house :idea:

23 Oct 2008

at the thought of a lamp fetish - Tan you crack me up!

23 Oct 2008

Quote by noladreams30
at the thought of a lamp fetish - Tan you crack me up!

Tis true there is a lighting shop near me i drool everytime i walk past it redface

want that one surprised

ops: and that one, ooh and that one over there :oops:
Just worked out if all the bulbs in my front room went bang together i would have to replace 17 bulbs of 6 different types :doh:

23 Oct 2008

I used to be an 'off' but Jay has taught me to love myself for what I am, so now it's on, off, dimmed, whatever! lol

23 Oct 2008

subdued i think is the word..... don't want full on spotlight.....but enough light to see expressions on face..and ofcause to make sure you can see where you going...lol

23 Oct 2008

Quote by noladreams30
Or pitch black, middle of the night, no words just f*ck me now kinda sex...

:thumbup:

23 Oct 2008

I am with dean.... I like muted lighting.. but enough to see the ecstasy. Also I am a body language and breathing sorta person and that is easier to read with lighting.

23 Oct 2008

Candles, lots of 'em ....... I love candlelight - just somehow seems to make any scene more sexy and sensuous.
Having said that, daylight, pitch black or light bulbs works for me too lol

Mrs 777 xxxxxxxxxx

23 Oct 2008

Not bright, glaring lights - low lighting is my preference.

23 Oct 2008

Ive never shagged with the lights off :shock: and Ive been shagging for 23 years :shock: :shock:

23 Oct 2008

Quote by Bonedigger
Ive never shagged with the lights off :shock: and Ive been shagging for 23 years :shock: :shock:

That should be in the "I have never thread" too! wink

Oooh Mrs B, one of my all time best ever shags was in the pitch black. Was with an ex, middle of the night. I woke up for some reason feeling rather horny and leant over, began playing with his cock and kissing him... hmmmm, all of a sudden it was hands everywhere and I was pressed down against the bed and f*cked, hard. We didn't say a word till it was over. The urgency and kinda animalistic lust was just amaaazing... the fact that it was dark just added to it. It was about as close to anonymous sex as you could get with someone you were in a relationship with! Ooooh :rascal: t'were lush!

23 Oct 2008

Lights off......Just 3 or 4 small candles burning is sufficient...

23 Oct 2008

Quote by splendid_
I am with dean.... I like muted lighting.. but enough to see the ecstasy. Also I am a body language and breathing sorta person and that is easier to read with lighting.

your with me..oh and I thought it was just a wet dream I was haveing.........but bloody hell seems I wasn't much good if you was reading at same time.. redface

23 Oct 2008

Candles and low lights are a great mood setter though I do like doing it in broad daylight or just when the mood takes :twisted: Not a fan of lights completely off though. I like to look into my partner's eyes at the right moments wink

plus I'm scared of the dark :scared:

24 Oct 2008

Not in the dark - I love to see eyes and expressions and arching bodies... but I wouldn't actually light any lights if they were already off, as in that mid-night ravaging that nola so eloquently describes!

24 Oct 2008

i prefer low light i.e candles or the lights turned down low as i think it adds to the mood and sensuality of it.

24 Oct 2008

Light, I take it as it comes. Fire, sun, TV, what ever.

24 Oct 2008

Always in the dark.
That way they have to pay attention and can't read a book. wink

24 Oct 2008

Lights on, bit dim is good though (lights, not me! lol).
It's as much about seeing what we're doing as it is about the physical act... :twisted:
Now I'm having naughty thoughts! lol

24 Oct 2008

Quote by Sixfootsix
Lights on, bit dim is good though (lights, not me! lol).
It's as much about seeing what we're doing as it is about the physical act... :twisted:
Now I'm having naughty thoughts!

And now I'm having them too smackbottom

24 Oct 2008

If we are in the bedroom then its lights off but if we are downstairs then its low lighting....
I quite often wake in the middle of the night for some fun!

24 Oct 2008

Star light, moon light and city lights.

24 Oct 2008

Lightning.....

25 Oct 2008

ummmm lightning.... I like fireworks :twisted:

25 Oct 2008

Quote by flower411
We have to have the lights on cos our cam don`t work in the dark !!

You are only on cam about once a month :wink:
what about the other times? lol

25 Oct 2008

We are lucky we both work at home, so we have natural light. wink