ARE YOU DISLAXIC!!!........sos cannot spell it!

1 Nov 2004

well hey!...............i cannot believe that i acherley ....made a good decision on trying to raise money for Vix Charterty!........bloody hell had to ;lay down! lol

thanks so much for all your surrport! :bounce:
And Vix!..........love ya babes! passionkiss

I am so pleased that VIX you made soooooo much! :bounce: V
Now Debbioewebs off on one here!.......i no i can here ya!.......oooooooo no not again! lol

But in the near furture!........i would like to run a munch!.....{ nutts only lol

}.............. but i would like to raise money for DIXLACIA! wink

you see cannot spell that lol!.. lol

................. you will never no in a million years if you are not dislaxic how the mental tourcher can afact you for the reast of your life! sad

I have a contunus!............. inferoncomplex!.......as you no!.... sad

..............and no what how many peeps tell me that i am so lovely!........us disolaic peeps!................. just have a big hang up about it! sad

..........and in the 60sts as i was brough up you where told that you were thick! mad

but if there is any dislaxcices out there!.. smile

.............i have acheveed a great carree in me life and thats looking after other peeps !.. :bounce: ........i have taken exhams after anouther
So dont pull your selfs down ok!... :thumbup: ..................we have other values! :bounce:
I am also a artist!......and have displayed my art in london!.........an sculpsuses!
so you dislaxic peeps!.........for you i havent used me ispell!.. :thumbup: ..................i tell you what be truth full!........and honist!........and bugger those that luagh at us!..........there are just jeluose that they cannot spell as well as us! rotflmao

as for ispell well thats ok!.......if you reconise the word that you outhe to use!.............. and somtimes that a word that we type might meen anther!...........so it dont pick it up!
And for all those teacher that told me to look it up in a dicksionary!...........up yours ok! :twisted: :twisted: :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon: :kissmyarse: :kissmyarse: :kissmyarse: :kissmyarse:
well enouth said!
Debs off on one!xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx kiss

1 Nov 2004

Debs!!!!!!
MUAH!!!!!!!!
I have nephews and nieces who are dyxlexic - they are now at Uni (where they recognise their talent and not just look at the spellings).
People with dyslexia can be misunderstood greatly - even now.
We should all take time not to pick fault with people's ability to spell but rather look deeper into the meaning of the posts.
Big hugs to you Debs!!!!!!
Alex x x x

1 Nov 2004

Can I firstly say that it takes a huge amount of guts to say what you have just said and the fact that you can now laugh about it is proof that you have moved on and realised that they were wrong when they said you were stupid.... So passionkiss

for you hun
My sister was also a victim of the "you are stupid" era and it did affect her alot for many years... She now has her own Limited company and is very very successful... So yah boo sucks flipa

to the pratts who said she was stupid...
Now I move on to the present times and talk about my eldest daughter who is 15... She lives with my parents in Coventry as the schools are far better there than in Wolverhampton... This is because she also has dyslexia.... She has gone through the teasing and the cruel taunts that children with difficulties get, but as time has passed she has gained a confidence to overcome this. She was "Statemented" (which basically means that she was recognised by the state as requiring additional one-on-one help) in her last year at middle school and because of that has progressed at a fantastic rate and we are very proud to say that she has recently been de-statemented....
Like yourself Debs she is very talented artistically and produces some amazing work.... This is very common with people that have dyslexia which dispells the theory that they are infact thick...
She still isn't the best speller in the world and has her own sort of language but it improves all the time especially with the use of MSN. But as it has been proved you dont always have to spell a word as the dictionary says it should for you to be understood....
Your personality shines and I look forward to the day when I can spot you across a room and scream at the top of my voice "Oh my god it's Debbiewebs" lol

You know we loves ya babe passionkiss

Shireen
xxx

1 Nov 2004

Debs,
Someone I used to work with was dyslexic. He had a degree and had been a teacher.
You have proved that the people who doubted you were wrong. I wish I had your gift for artistry and your sense of humour. You are so open and honest and I always enjoy reading your posts.
All the best to you, Debs.

1 Nov 2004

Debbs
AS venus said a while back.
Quote "I want to see some other works, I know there are some talented people out there, I saw the `other talent` thread". unquote
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/21873.html
So Debbs and others please show us what you have been doing behind our backs lol

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I would love to be able to draw or paint, but alas I cannot. However I am able to take a mean photograph on a good day with the wind behind me.
Allan

1 Nov 2004

Hi Debbiewebs, I admire you a lot for your participation in this forum. and it's a good idea for a future munch. I studied at university as a mature student in the 1990s and there were several students in my group who were dyslexic, and they received a lot of help and extra time in exams. Happily things are improving for people with dyslexia.
Drifter, your avatar looks extraordinarily like Ian Hislop - are you sure you're not him? I admire you for managing to afford to spend time in here as well as appearing on TV and editing Private Eye!
Mike.

1 Nov 2004

Quote by MikeNorth
Drifter, your avatar looks extraordinarily like Ian Hislop - are you sure you're not him? I admire you for managing to afford to spend time in here as well as appearing on TV and editing Private Eye!
Mike.

Damnit - My covers been blown!

2 Nov 2004

well i have to say now!..........other wise i will be bumping!........... thanks all!
I no it will stay for me for the rest of me life the torment i got from school..the bulling and the mental tourcher!........i had to bear!
but in a way it made me stronger!.............being in this cafe!...........has been such a confidence builder for me!......i thank you all! kiss

You see i do have a serous side to me after all!.......but i don't like to show it much!..........as it brings back bad memories!
ooooooooooo yes i did use me iespell on this one lol

Debsxxxxxx kiss

ps must get some sleep :sleeping:

2 Nov 2004

I am mildly dyslexic and I know of at least one other forum member who is too
But when you look at it some of the most successfull people in the country are dyslexic
(ps Im not one of them) lol

2 Nov 2004

Yes I am Dyslexic and I am not ashamed or embarrased to say that.
Ok i cant communicate on paper , poperly , by orthodox standards, but Dyslexia is a gift, it allows you to think latteraly to not be constrained by rules.
I have a degree and own businees so it has never held me back.
Of course life would have been easier had the condition been discovered earlier.
Whilst not wishing to decry anones efforts to support a registered dyslexia charity, i do question a society the makes dyslexics rely on charity. It is a disability just like any physical disability.
BTW an agaram of dyslexia is daily sex!!!

2 Nov 2004

I was told I had dyslexia at school but I think for me it was a very minor thing and probably had something to do with the fact that I write left handed and do everything else right handed.
At least it meant I was able have fun at the same time as doing my homework!

2 Nov 2004

Quote by foxylady 123
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BTW an agaram of dyslexia is daily sex!!!

Its great to find others like me self!.......i do believe there are different stages of dyslexia!
i have to admit i am one of the lucky ones!..that over the years have made lots of progress with me reading and spelling!
But for others that have server dylaxcer well thats another story!...like in any disabilities there are different degrees!
I have a great friend who is diyllacix!....and we have great fun trying are spellings out with each other!.........but for him sadly he really lacks the confidence in him self to ever progress in a carer!
It would be nice not have charities and all disability be supported by the state!
Well just a quick one!.......even though i have used iespell here to spell!.........it takes us dyslexics my be 2000 times to use the word before we can visualize t in are heads

2 Nov 2004

My best friends brother has severe dyslexia - he owns hiw own business designing websites!
i'm not dyslexic, in fact english was my best subject at school, but i have trouble finding my way round a website, never mind actually building one!!!

2 Nov 2004

Quote by JudyTV
I also agree with every word Shireen has already said, she usually talks a lot of common sense does that one.

I just wanted to add another flipa

at the people that think dyslexic people are thick.... They are soooooo wrong...
This thread also goes to show that it doesn't matter what the state of your spelling is people accept you for you....

Quote by Debbiewebs
it takes us dyslexics my be 2000 times to use the word before we can visualize t in are heads

Have you ever tried using coloured overlays??... My daughter has an amber/orangy coloured one and it helps her to focus on the words.... I think that it depends on the person as to what colour works for them but worth a go....
All these posts just go to prove that confidence if the key factor in what you are able to achieve.... Self belief and to be honest that works for everyone not just people with dyslexia...
passionkiss

for all of you
Shireen
xxx

26 Jan 2005

and 2 years later...just been reminded by someone...on MSN or get your mates to post in your best reading colour (often blue) and it helps a lot to keep up in a similar way to the coloured overlays
and look at that I even searched for it first!

26 Jan 2005

Quote by Alexandra
Debs!!!!!!
MUAH!!!!!!!!
I have nephews and nieces who are dyxlexic - they are now at Uni (where they recognise their talent and not just look at the spellings).
People with dyslexia can be misunderstood greatly - even now.
We should all take time not to pick fault with people's ability to spell but rather look deeper into the meaning of the posts.
Big hugs to you Debs!!!!!!
Alex x x x

hats of to you Debs, 2 of my step kids ( well ex step kids now I spose ) are dyslexic, and yes they do get shit slung at them because they are thick, yet give X a engine, he can make it growl or purrr even if you give him in peices
If folks cant accept that some of us are different in different ways, well screw em
Plz excuse my blunt talk here, I just loathe people who discriminate without thaught of the pain it causes

26 Jan 2005

I'm sure I'm not the only one to think this.............................
But I sure miss Debbiewebs!!!!!! :cry: :cry: :cry:

26 Jan 2005

What Rainbows said ^^^^^^^
You certainly know when Debs is not here :cry:

26 Jan 2005

has she gone then?

26 Jan 2005

Sorry to inform you peeps but "Debbiewebs" left SH on the 18 Jan .
You can read her final post here :-
page 7 of The cafe
Hello I am out here
Bad news for all it was sad

Fred

26 Jan 2005

What? ..is Debbiewebs not back yet? This is not right! :cry: :cry:
Mike.

26 Jan 2005

Quote by Rainbows
I'm sure I'm not the only one to think this.............................
But I sure miss Debbiewebs!!!!!! :cry: :cry: :cry:

Nope hun you're not... I miss her too :cry: :cry:
If your reading this Debs come back hun.... We loves you kiss

Shireen
xxx