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i found this topic ... it made me laugh so ive nicked it and put on here...
In the day of equality etc, dont you think people are still really sexist? Most households Id say, the women does all the cleaning etc and domestic stuff and the man cuts the grass and does all the diy.
I think women have taken it too far. They still secretly want the door held open and fucking to be treated like a princess and for men to pay for all the drinks. At the same time, they want to be treated as equals.
Is sexual equality bullshit?I think so....(not my words promise)
but feel free to add your views
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i found this topic ... it made me laugh so ive nicked it and put on here...
In the day of equality etc, dont you think people are still really sexist? Most households Id say, the women does all the cleaning etc and domestic stuff and the man cuts the grass and does all the diy.
I think women have taken it too far. They still secretly want the door held open and fucking to be treated like a princess and for men to pay for all the drinks. At the same time, they want to be treated as equals.
Is sexual equality bullshit?I think so....(not my words promise)
but feel free to add your views

Gotta disagree with that one Kinky mate..yes I want the door held open out of pure bloody common courtesy but no way I want a man to buy my drinks or anything else for that matter!
I consider myself an independant woman and I like it that way biggrin
Minx xx
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i found this topic ... it made me laugh so ive nicked it and put on here...
In the day of equality etc, dont you think people are still really sexist? Most households Id say, the women does all the cleaning etc and domestic stuff and the man cuts the grass and does all the diy.
I think women have taken it too far. They still secretly want the door held open and fucking to be treated like a princess and for men to pay for all the drinks. At the same time, they want to be treated as equals.
Is sexual equality bullshit?I think so....(not my words promise)
but feel free to add your views

Let a man near any serious d - i - y, you have to be joking!!!!!!!!
most of them cant even manage going round B &Q on there own. I have a friend who sen her other half for a tin of paint, even gave him the empty tin so he couldnt go wrong, but of course he did!!!! Mine cant even find his way out of B&Q once hes there!!!
As for the doors thing, it depends on the occassion and the relationship. Open a door for me at work and i would slam your dick in it, socially its a different matter. As for drinks i am more than capable of buying my own and yours as long as its the house wine or half a mild.
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i found this topic ... it made me laugh

Speaks volumes confused
Are we looking at sexism here or feminism?
It is a poor joke either way to suggest that men could be equal to women - you guys will always be the under-dogs. We women have just been playing a cruel joke on you, letting you think we need your help. Well - I don't wanna chip my nails! :shock:
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i found this topic ... it made me laugh

Speaks volumes confused
Are we looking at sexism here or feminism?
your body Speaks volume,., but do you know what it is saying? thats a good book mrs pololady...we looking how one individval has express his feelings on this matter.. what i have took and put on here..... are we looking at sexism or feminism u ask who knows...hes probley 15 year old bloke who never spoke to a lady in his life..who knows
i think.. and it hard for me to do that...hes saying sexual equality are we.. or are we not.. maybe a guess...a shot in the dark..
I'm not at all sexist.. I believe that my partner should go out to work, then come home and do all the housework whilst looking after the kids. lol
I'm not sexist. We don't even have any grass :shock:
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your body Speaks volume,., but do you know what it is saying? thats a good book mrs pololady...we looking how one individval has express his feelings on this matter.. what i have took and put on here..... are we looking at sexism or feminism u ask who knows...hes probley 15 year old bloke who never spoke to a lady in his life..who knows
i think.. and it hard for me to do that...hes saying sexual equality are we.. or are we not.. maybe a guess...a shot in the dark..

I really don't know what to say to that - can you give me a clue.. is it crypic? lol
You can't ask a person directly if they're sexist. Most people are something 'ist' but don't know it. A person who reckons they're up with all the PC stuff could still get it totally wrong. The only person I've ever met who is really less 'ist' than other people happens to be my partner and he reckons it's because he wasn't brought up within a particular belief framework so never believed in 'traditional roles' . Lucky for me - he loves cleaning!
He still treats me like a goddess but I also treat him damn well so it's a very equal relationship...
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I really don't know what to say to that - can you give me a clue.. is it crypic? lol

biggrin it looks that way... i was trying act smart,,, back to the drawing board
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your body Speaks volume,., but do you know what it is saying? thats a good book mrs pololady...we looking how one individval has express his feelings on this matter.. what i have took and put on here..... are we looking at sexism or feminism u ask who knows...hes probley 15 year old bloke who never spoke to a lady in his life..who knows
i think.. and it hard for me to do that...hes saying sexual equality are we.. or are we not.. maybe a guess...a shot in the dark..

So what did that mean then? If I read it correctly you are saying that you don't know what the original poster meant. Please tell me how you can expect other people on here to answer your question when you don't even understand the question.
Chris
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your body Speaks volume,., but do you know what it is saying? thats a good book mrs pololady...we looking how one individval has express his feelings on this matter.. what i have took and put on here..... are we looking at sexism or feminism u ask who knows...hes probley 15 year old bloke who never spoke to a lady in his life..who knows
i think.. and it hard for me to do that...hes saying sexual equality are we.. or are we not.. maybe a guess...a shot in the dark..

So what did that mean then? If I read it correctly you are saying that you don't know what the original poster meant. Please tell me how you can expect other people on here to answer your question when you don't even understand the question.
Chris
Piss off, Chris, you misogynist. rotflmao
people do treat each other with equality
as far as i see a woman rules the house and a man has to understand that.
Giving respect to a woman shows manners.
i find it equal apart from my house where my mum rules the house
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your body Speaks volume,., but do you know what it is saying? thats a good book mrs pololady...we looking how one individval has express his feelings on this matter.. what i have took and put on here..... are we looking at sexism or feminism u ask who knows...hes probley 15 year old bloke who never spoke to a lady in his life..who knows
i think.. and it hard for me to do that...hes saying sexual equality are we.. or are we not.. maybe a guess...a shot in the dark..

So what did that mean then? If I read it correctly you are saying that you don't know what the original poster meant. Please tell me how you can expect other people on here to answer your question when you don't even understand the question.
Chris
well 10 people had answerd the poll question so maybe few got it..just maybe...
i put on cause made me laugh im sorry chris to hurt your feelings... play with your mind,, words are hard some times for me to express...but i still think the bloke in question..is saying....i give up lol :taz:
I don't see any reason why a man cannot be chivalrous, having said that not good if only shown to the women he fancies. Holding the door open to a sweet young thing, then letting it close in the face the old girl behind is very bad form.
Dunno what all the fuss is about - nothing wrong with being sexy.. lol :lol:
I like being treated like a fucking princess.
It means I get to have sex with others while Timmy tells me how special I am :P
Jas
XXX
This actually a rather interesting subject - it raises the point of whether being chivalrous is being sexist or just being nice and polite. I will admit to treating men and women differently and having different expectations of men and women in certain situations, is this sexist? (I answered that I was as I know I don't treat both sexes the same, but I don't really think of myself as being sexist)
I don't think pure sexual equality is necessarily a good thing - there are situations that the average man is better able to cope in and some that the average woman would be better in. This doesn't mean that there aren't exceptions but to refuse to accept that there are physical and mental differences between the sexes is in my opinion wishful thinking.
Roger the Dragon cool
Really depends who I`m with. I make it up as I go along. Kind of a `natural interaction` thing.
Venusxxx
do i expect a guy to open a door for me ..of course
do i expect a guy to buy me a drink 1st one ..of course but the second is my round
do i accept a gift from someone i like ..of course if they felt the need to
do i give gifts in return ..for sure it shows they mean something to me and are good friends
do i expect a female to open a door for me , it all depends who gets to that door first
do i expect to have a female buy me drinks ..hell no thats the guys jobs
the point of this thread ??? you do what is natural to you
Ladies - don't be fooled by the old door opening routine, most blokes have an ulteria motive for that!!
Not that i am saying thats why hold doors open for women!! wink
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Open a door for me at work and i would slam your dick in it...........

I'm glad I don't bleedin work at your place then.......................surely holding a door open for someone is just good manners irrespective of whether they are male or female?
Steve
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Open a door for me at work and i would slam your dick in it...........

I'm glad I don't bleedin work at your place then.......................surely holding a door open for someone is just good manners irrespective of whether they are male or female?
Steve
I agree with you on that one Steve. I hold doors open as a matter of course. I also say 'thank you' to the people who hold them open for me. I also loudly say 'thank you' to the people who forget to thank me for holding a door open for them. confused
I don't believe men and women will ever be truly equal. Let's face it, being female is often a very convenient way to get someone else (usually male) to do things like changing a wheel, etc. Works the other way too though, I think - there must be some jobs men hate but women don't mind.
Sometimes the issue gets clouded............
Sexism to me is paying men more than women for doing the same jobs or offering a job to the male applicant rather than the female applicant because the female might need more time off for pregnancy/childcare etc.
Opening doors and paying for the drinks/meals etc comes down more to manners and a belief in a certain code of conduct rather than sexism. A guy might not dream of letting his partner pay for a meal or buy a round of drinks but that same guy probably wouldn't think twice if he was having lunch with a female work colleague and she offered to do the same, especially if she earned more money than he did. Does that make his behaviour with his partner sexist or is he just following what he believes to be the proper code of conduct?
Is chivalry dead or just old fashioned?
Steve
Old fashioned, but I for one, like being a bit old fashioned.
Personally I think the buying of drinks should fall to who has the most money at the time.
Mars and I would like to thank everybody in advance for the 75 pints each we`ll be having at the next munch.
You are all so very kind :mrgreen:
Venusxxx