i was extreemly put out
total disrespect
wish we could name n shame
Bloody bad form I'd say. If I/we were stood up in that way I'd be livid. No second chance forthcoming I'm afraid.
If this ever happened to me, I know I would be extremely offended. The person in question would would never be allowed to darken my door again!
Its like being dumped for a better option!
Lucys post.
Would be extremely narked if this happened to us especially after arranging childcare work etc but if something genuine came up fair enough these things happen. If somebody cancelled as they have "a better offer" we wouldn't consider a meet again,we are both to stubborn lol
Sara
It would depend who the other person was they had met, when we say that we mean perhaps the person is part of a swinging couple and also plays on there own, but on this occasion the partner wanted to be together that night.
Then there’s the scenario that something else could have came up, they cancelled, and at the last minute the thing that made them cancel in the first place also changed, and they didn’t want to contact you at the last minute incase you had made other plans, so at the last minute they visited say for example a swinging club where the met this other person.
Communication is the key here, there’s always two sides to every story and before making our own judgements we’d have to speak to the person involved before we decided how we stood on the matter.
As they say, there’s always two sides to every story, having said that if it concluded that they just cancelled just so they could meet with someone else they wanted to meet and that reason alone then bad manners is letting them off lightly, the word user springs to mind.
oh...happened to me a few times..lol... Thinks as a couple or a single lady is must be very frustrating... but as a single guy i think we put it down as par for the course. quite often couples advertise for a couple.. bi-female..or male... now with 24 hours to go they have had no couples or females which was their first preferance contact them. So they have a box load of guys mail , and so sift through them. Then pick out one..chat and arrange a meet. However sods law then dictates a really nice bi female contacts them ( yes rocking horse shit does exist) .. so they connact the guy..make some excuse and replace that meeting with the lady. I guess it is bad manners, but I take it as par for the course and as long as they have given me a little notice of cancellation... I would try again !!
Rudeness in any form seems, all to often, to be the norm nowadays, on this site and elsewhere generally.
Very simply, rude, ill-mannered, all forms of disrespect and in my opinion, it reveals a weak human being.
I was trying to arrange a meet with a lady (based outside London), her difficulty being "she doesn't come to London often, unless for work which can be once in 4 months), no problem, time will come about.
I later found out she actually comes to London every two weeks (and I now know who she meets! Yet she insists on her discretion - sad eh?) When I raised her lack of honesty with her, all she sad was "I never promised you anything!". Wow.
True, she doesn't owe me a thing - but I imagine she's out there hoping people will afford her some honesty - double standards or convenience?
I don't have time for such rude people they can crawl back under the rock from whence they came.
Were they verified ? Cos if they were you can get your deposit back I think :shock:
Bad manners, but............
it's up to people who they choose to shag.
Well this is something which most single guys will encounter quite often. But not something that couples or single fems expect.
Whilst a lot of people are coming out in empathy for the story, I can't help but think that its more commmon than people would wish to admit.
Chances are they got greedy or desperate and double or treble booked and left it till the last moment to make their final decision. I've know that happen.
) so you arrange another date.
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