I am quite aware that a scene exists for men and women who have a preference for BBW. However, I am wanting to know if ladies have a preference for BHM (Big Handsome Men)? Men such as lumber jacks, Grizzly Adams types, Ice Road Truckers and the like.
I welcome honest and ethical perspectives from one and all.
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Sex God
what is your view on this as is customary to give your own opinion first
oh and a friendly mod may well move this to the cafe where i believe this belongs not in this forum
oh and a friendly mod may well move this to the cafe where i believe this belongs not in this forum
Sex God
Moving to Cafe for general discussion! :thumbup:
i wouldnt seek out a BHM, but then i dont seek out any type of man.
i do like men who are taller than me, but again its not a must.
what i do hate is people who are not umm honest.
for instance big as in fat isnt muscluar.
i say this as im big as in fat, not a body builder lol
its one thing that makes me avoid any profile or ad when looking if it says one thing but the pic is something completely dferent.
so in short i like all shapes and sizes i fucking hate lies.
xx fem xx
i do like men who are taller than me, but again its not a must.
what i do hate is people who are not umm honest.
for instance big as in fat isnt muscluar.
i say this as im big as in fat, not a body builder lol
its one thing that makes me avoid any profile or ad when looking if it says one thing but the pic is something completely dferent.
so in short i like all shapes and sizes i fucking hate lies.
xx fem xx
Sex God
Not sure if there is a 'scene' as such. I know there are lots of people who like big women, and some for whom it is a fetish. Am sure there are probably equal numbers of people who like big men.
There are some very sexy big men :rascal: but then I'm not sure I find them sexy because of their size, it's more about them as people.
There are some very sexy big men :rascal: but then I'm not sure I find them sexy because of their size, it's more about them as people.
Sex God
I think its a falacy in swinging that as many women would with fat guys as men would with fat wome.
Sex God
Quote by Lost
I think its a falacy in swinging that as many women would with fat guys as men would with fat women.
I think you are probably right......
Being a man of a slighty "hefty" persuasion, I do often think "what on earth would people see in me?"
Sometimes I do think I have to work harder then it,
Sometimes I have self confidence issues as much or I think more than the next person
I do have problems with seeing myself as sexy, where others will tell me until they are blue in the face....
I think, and it took me a while... a long while to work out that I can only be the best person I can be... if that isn't "fanciable" for some people... then there loss......
Sex God
Quote by noladreams
There are some very sexy big men :rascal: but then I'm not sure I find them sexy because of their size, it's more about them as people.
Indeedy :twisted:
Quote by Freckledbird
There are some very sexy big men :rascal: but then I'm not sure I find them sexy because of their size, it's more about them as people.
Indeedy :twisted:
Completely thirded or what ever number we're up to!
It's not fetishistic or sceney for me - but then when I already fnd them sexy and scrumptious for whatever reasons, having all that big physicality to indulge in is just fab!
Sex God
Quote by TheLovelyOne
There are some very sexy big men :rascal: but then I'm not sure I find them sexy because of their size, it's more about them as people.
Indeedy :twisted:
Completely thirded or what ever number we're up to!
It's not fetishistic or sceney for me - but then when I already fnd them sexy and scrumptious for whatever reasons, having all that big physicality to indulge in is just fab!
I see the trollop patrol is in full friday night horn mode :haha:
time to start running....just not sure if it's best to run towards or away from you lot :mrgreen:
Sex God
Quote by meat2pleaseu
There are some very sexy big men :rascal: but then I'm not sure I find them sexy because of their size, it's more about them as people.
Indeedy :twisted:
Completely thirded or what ever number we're up to!
It's not fetishistic or sceney for me - but then when I already fnd them sexy and scrumptious for whatever reasons, having all that big physicality to indulge in is just fab!
I see the trollop patrol is in full friday night horn mode :haha:
time to start running....just not sure if it's best to run towards or away from you lot :mrgreen:
Towards us - you know you want to, it's for the best :rascal:
Quote by Freckledbird
There are some very sexy big men :rascal: but then I'm not sure I find them sexy because of their size, it's more about them as people.
Indeedy :twisted:
Completely thirded or what ever number we're up to!
It's not fetishistic or sceney for me - but then when I already fnd them sexy and scrumptious for whatever reasons, having all that big physicality to indulge in is just fab!
I see the trollop patrol is in full friday night horn mode :haha:
time to start running....just not sure if it's best to run towards or away from you lot :mrgreen:
Towards us - you know you want to, it's for the best :rascal:
run away...danger ....warning.......
Quote by Freckledbird
I see the trollop patrol is in full friday night horn mode :haha:
time to start running....just not sure if it's best to run towards or away from you lot :mrgreen:
Towards us - you know you want to, it's for the best :rascal:
Cover me girls*, I'll head him off at the pass...
*I leave it to you to choose with what!
Sex God
Quote by Cicero
I wonder if it makes a difference as to what the bulk is made of. eg. fat/ muscle or both?
In my case, it defo ain't muscle! :giggle:
Sex God
Quote by fabio
I think you are probably right......
Being a man of a slighty "hefty" persuasion, I do often think "what on earth would people see in me?"
Sometimes I do think I have to work harder then it,
Sometimes I have self confidence issues as much or I think more than the next person
I do have problems with seeing myself as sexy, where others will tell me until they are blue in the face....
That bit about sums it up for me as well Fabs :thumbup:
Quote by fabio
I think, and it took me a while... a long while to work out that I can only be the best person I can be... if that isn't "fanciable" for some people... then there loss......
Unfortunately I still take things to heart so cant seem to have that outlook on things :-(
Sex God
Quote by Cicero
I wonder if it makes a difference as to what the bulk is made of. eg. fat/ muscle or both?
In my case, it defo ain't muscle! :giggle:
You're very brave!
Why brave?
Anyone who looks at my pictures on here, reads my profile or indeed meets me in person is going to know I'm not exactly skinny... I couldn't hide it even with the best corset! So there's no point pretending otherwise.
Sex God
Do we have ice truckers in this country??
I`m a BBW and like Nola says you only have to look at the pics to see that and it didn`t seem to matter when i was meeting as a single, infact most i spoke to prefered it. Sexuality isn`t all about how you look or being a size 0.
I myself prefer a guy to have a bit of meat on his bones too, good thighs and strong arms, i`m not much for the skinny`s myself
I myself prefer a guy to have a bit of meat on his bones too, good thighs and strong arms, i`m not much for the skinny`s myself
I would like to thank you all for your input, some very humorous and appreciated but the rational responses are immensely thought provoking, challenging and stimulating.
I guess that there are some dynamic issues about how people develop choice and preferences for a BBW or BHM. I can observe some like for like reciprocation issues and some who may be of a different body type preferring the 'rubenesque' woman or the 'archetypal bear/protector' in the BHM.
I think that a more enlightened and cognitive decision based on issues other than size and body type are preferred by myself. If some one finds me sexual because of my mind, my creativity and and my persona rather than my body type, I encounter this as genuine and profound.
However, if a woman finds interest in both then please reveal yourselves to me.
Thank you all.
Namaste
Pete
I guess that there are some dynamic issues about how people develop choice and preferences for a BBW or BHM. I can observe some like for like reciprocation issues and some who may be of a different body type preferring the 'rubenesque' woman or the 'archetypal bear/protector' in the BHM.
I think that a more enlightened and cognitive decision based on issues other than size and body type are preferred by myself. If some one finds me sexual because of my mind, my creativity and and my persona rather than my body type, I encounter this as genuine and profound.
However, if a woman finds interest in both then please reveal yourselves to me.
Thank you all.
Namaste
Pete
Sex God
i'm a firm believer that sexy is NOT a body shape it is a state of mind
i am drawn astetically to a slimer built guy but yet have found many a larger built guy sexy
i am drawn astetically to a slimer built guy but yet have found many a larger built guy sexy
