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BBWs vs BBM
Sex God
Hit the gym if you feel you need to improve your health and fitness. However, don't change for other people --- the people that matter will like you for YOU. 
Quote by Glasgowfella
I also have a high metabolism, unfortunately i cant reach the shelf i left it on since it is so high so if i look at a sweety i kinda bloat!!
you and me both m8, i joined a slimming club last year and lost 6 and a half stone, but then that damn thing called xmas popped up and i've slowly put a lot of it back on, will have to go back after xmas and try and lose it again
losing weight i don't find that hard it keeping it off i never seem to be able to manage, if your not happy with the way you look then go for it and lose the weight, you do feel better, i went from a size 22 to a size 14 but i started gaining again, i have gone back upto a size 18 and feel (and look) like shit again, theres someone for everyone out there no matter what size you are so it really does come down to how you feel about you 
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I also have a high metabolism, unfortunately i cant reach the shelf i left it on since it is so high so if i look at a sweety i kinda bloat!!
i joined a slimming club last year and lost 6 and a half stone,
First off WELL DONE you
If youll pardon the pun im not sure id have the guts to do that, id be mortified with folk watching me getting weighed etc, im scared to look myself in fact!!
I bought one of those mad walking machine things off the shopping channel which ive been having a go at, i suppose that i do need to lose the belly for my health but its really difficult!!! Im thinking of writing to my local MP to have cakes outlawed
Orgasminator
Quote by bluexxx
Hit the gym if you feel you need to improve your health and fitness. However, don't change for other people --- the people that matter will like you for YOU.
Wise words from Blue.
Some people will be attracted to your physique, some won't be interested, and a fair few will be far more interested in who you are rather than what you look like.
As for terminology, I'm not sure that BBM (Big Beautiful Man?) is really that good a description. Traditionally the male abbreviation is BHM (Big Handsome Man), but personally (and I know I'm not alone in this opinion) I like BSF (Big Strapping Fella), coined by our very own Darkfire.
Also, you don't necessarily need to hit the gym - if you're a big bloke you already use quite a bit of energy just moving yourself around (I know from experience), so just increasing your general levels of activity (go for a walk, redecorate the house, organise a whole weekend of frenzied shagging, etc) can have noticable effects. It's probably best coupled with a significant reduction in haggis suppers and pints of heavy (substitute your preferred choice of poisons). I tried something similar earlier this year so I'd look like less of a fat git on my wedding photos and lost two stone in three months.
Quote by Glasgowfella
If youll pardon the pun im not sure id have the guts to do that, id be mortified with folk watching me getting weighed etc, im scared to look myself in fact!!
everyones in the same boat so noone really cares what you weigh, they are really helpful and i think you would find that knowing someone was going to weigh you every week would help you not to cheat
besides when you have lost a cpl stone or 3 you'll be glad everyone knew what you was to start with. 
Sex God
Quote by TallFunLondon
What blue said....
.....although the fact I am lucky and have a high metabolism and can never put on weight makes it easy to say!
Make the most of it while you can... I was like that and then one day my body said "Right you bastard, I've been very patient but you've abused me for 35 years... now you PAY!" :lol2:
Quote by Ice Pie
What blue said....
.....although the fact I am lucky and have a high metabolism and can never put on weight makes it easy to say!
Make the most of it while you can... I was like that and then one day my body said "Right you bastard, I've been very patient but you've abused me for 35 years... now you PAY!" :lol2:
awww
:lol2: Quote by Ice Pie
What blue said....
.....although the fact I am lucky and have a high metabolism and can never put on weight makes it easy to say!
Make the most of it while you can... I was like that and then one day my body said "Right you bastard, I've been very patient but you've abused me for 35 years... now you PAY!" :lol2:
Childbirth did it to me (well childbirth when in my 30s).
I was a size 10 before that - look at me now - flipping 14+ :cry:
But one consolation ......I do have boobies now!
Quote by Ice Pie
What blue said....
.....although the fact I am lucky and have a high metabolism and can never put on weight makes it easy to say!
Make the most of it while you can... I was like that and then one day my body said "Right you bastard, I've been very patient but you've abused me for 35 years... now you PAY!" :lol2:
Am keeping a close eye on my ageing father but doesn't seem to have kicked in yet.
And yes I might be lucky in that respect but when its as cold as it is this morning would prefer some more padding!!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
:rose:
Orgasminator
Quote by Alexandra
I was a size 10 before that - look at me now - flipping 14+ :cry:
But one consolation ......I do have boobies now!
As one who is lucky enough to count Ms Alex as a friend and confidante, I am compelled to tell those of you that have yet to make her acquaintance that she has a most gorgeous body... and boobs!
hwoar: Silly person... :therethere:
Now stop it!
Sex God
Bollocks, I thought this was going to be a thread about wrestling when I read the title! 
I love BBW and I don't love BBM.
I love TTW and I don't love TTM.
I love W and I don't love M.
I also love generalisations!!
I love BBW and I don't love BBM.
I love TTW and I don't love TTM.
I love W and I don't love M.
I also love generalisations!!
Quote by janeandwill
I like BBWs but since im currently a BBM i find its never reciprocated,
I like my men on the chunky side or cuddly.
However I have a weight problem (yoyo's 5 stone either up or down every so often.) When I was on the larger side myself, I wouldn't consider dating a larger man. (Due to thinking that being seen with a large bloke would bring attention to myself). Thankfully I have become slightly more confident and now don't give a fcuk what other people think about my size.
Jane xx
I dunno about this one Jane, I've always gone for big strapping fellas - far from bringing attention to myself, its more of a personal preference.... V shaped backs do it for me everytime, thighs like tree trunks...hands like shovels...lmao.... i think i'm just 'wired' to see big blokes = powerful blokes, and if he's built like the proverbial brick outhouse, there's more chance he can throw me round the bedroom / carry me over the threshold/ drag me back to his place a la caveman style
:twisted: - in fact, the added bonus to his physical abilities is that a 'proper' BSF makes me look positively tiny!! :lol: 
Orgasminator
If there's one thing I've learned it is that you should never ever change for someone else.
Lose weight for yourself if that's what you want but don't do it because you think that people will like you more etc etc.
There are people of all shapes and sizes and we don't all like the same things - the only people who count are those that like you for who you are not what you look like or what you could look like.
Lose weight for yourself if that's what you want but don't do it because you think that people will like you more etc etc.
There are people of all shapes and sizes and we don't all like the same things - the only people who count are those that like you for who you are not what you look like or what you could look like.