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Unknown User
Hi all i am really interested in getting into this and as such i am looking for some one to speak to about it really just general info, both negative and positive, not really sure how to go about things being a total newbie, so any and all help is greatly accepted.
noladreams
Sex God
Hi, there are a wealth of sites like Informed Consent and books too. I'm not being sarcastic, but have you googled?
That said, I'm fairly certain there'll be folks along with more information soon enough.
Have fun discovering stuff!
wink
Unknown User
yeah i googled spent hours and hours trawling through various stuff it all got a bit too much to be honest there was some really good stuff but that was far outwayed by the really bad crappy stuff.... i think the research may take me some time!!
Unknown User
thanks dirty girly should have looked before i posted this thread<<< dumbass
noladreams
Sex God
Quote by wantitinme
thanks dirty girly should have looked before i posted this thread<<< dumbass

Nah, you'd be here forever if you went trawling through the vaults!
You'd not have any time for learning!
Good shout though DG, I'd forgotten that thread. :thumbup:
Dirtygirly
Sex God
Quote by wantitinme
thanks dirty girly should have looked before i posted this thread<<< dumbass

That's okay... we're all allowed dumbass questions... it's what makes this place work! :giggle:
bolt
Unknown User
i can see im going to have to sharpen up somewhat arent i LOL....
_Darth_
Sex God
Informed Consent is possibly your best bet as a starting place, you can browse the forums there to get an idea of what the scene is like ... some of them do take BDSM/Fetish a bit too seriously but most people are fairly chilled and relaxed about it all.
I'd suggest going along to one of the many munches which are informal get-togethers that people arrange all around the country.
If you were nearer London, the London Fetish Scene website and forums.
Topdollar54
Forum Virgin
hi im john i go to fetish clubs now and then you will find that you will be made most welcome at these clubs and everything will be up to you to take things at your own pace i was a newbie to the scene once and went a few times till i found my own limits since then allways sooooo much fun so dont be afraid nobody will do anything that your not comfortable with have fun finding your own limits cheers john
Topdollar54
Forum Virgin
try a small club i go to your not far away from me try putting xtc2xs in that will get you there website and mistress maria will look after you maybe see you there one night have fun i do
Unknown User
BD/SM is not about dumb-ass questions
it's about numb-arse questions
lp
Witchy
Sex God
There is only one thing you need to know about the subject.
I do not do sub.innocent