Dont have any experience with this but I think you should tell them and see where it goes. If you don't you might end up an emotional wreck and the fun will go out of it anyway.....just my opinion...but good luck whatever you decide.
your best bet is more shagging with someone else :twisted: or lots of others maybe. what do others think?
Thing is Im still all set for a bit of swinging with my shagging partner Im just starting to get this really intense feeling of caring a lot for him and its fucking arrrrrrrrrgggh
I hate it I dont know where my bloody heads at anymore!
then you need to talk to him about it and see how he feels
If you guys are that close, he will probably have guessed even if he doesnt feel the same...
you will definately need to talk to him about it .......you don't want to fall out with him if you start getting jealous of others and arguing with him.
Hmmmm, a really close friend who you shag all the time. how is that different from a relationship? apart from it actually being called one. plus if you plan to swing anyway a relationship would just be a label anyhow!
Think this is always an occupational hazard, when you share something as close as physical relationships are especially over time don't think you can avoid feelings. . .
Not sure where to go from here, but a good long think about where you want to go, then see if they want to go with you. Feeling for you babe.
Good luck with it.
Thanks everybody! :cry: Sorry grrrrr why does it all have to be so fecking hard and complicated !!
Sorry to hear it's getting so intense, Fruity1976. I hope it all works out for the best.
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