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Behaviour at a "munch "

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Quote by bartdutch
I justed wanted to say this to all the organizers of munches and socials; thanks for putting the time and effort in to do this for us. The same for the volunteers that staff the doors :rose:

:thumbup: I would also like to say to NWC - We came to yours as our first munch and i do hope that you carry on - some of us are not as brave to organise these things, and you are needed wink
at the end of the day every munch/social takes a hell of a lot of organisation. We must, as adults need to remember this & respect the rules on this site. If not, go else where coz you are spoiling a good night out for 99% of the other people who go.
edit to quote Jups who says these organisers are the best to take time out for us all kiss
Quote by davej
We are currently looking at complaints regarding the NW munch and complaints that a cake dawnie baked recently was shite, hardly any iceing and burnt round the edges which she tried to disguise by wrapping it with a fancy paper thingy....and thats all.

You would never have noticed the burnt bits if you hadn't have tried an 'American Pie' moment and stuck your cock in it rolleyes
As for munches, I would suggest that anything you see on a beach or page 3, similar to the avatars, is acceptable. So that means tits and ass.
Kissing and tit flashing goes on in night clubs all the time or it does in my local night clubs confused
Sex acts is completely different and should not been seen in any social environment.
But that is purely my opinion :?
Quote by Dawnie
We are currently looking at complaints regarding the NW munch and complaints that a cake dawnie baked recently was shite, hardly any iceing and burnt round the edges which she tried to disguise by wrapping it with a fancy paper thingy....and thats all.

You would never have noticed the burnt bits if you hadn't have tried an 'American Pie' moment and stuck your cock in it rolleyes
As for munches, I would suggest that anything you see on a beach or page 3, similar to the avatars, is acceptable. So that means tits and ass.
Kissing and tit flashing goes on in night clubs all the time or it does in my local night clubs confused
Sex acts is completely different and should not been seen in any social environment.
But that is purely my opinion :?
totally agree Dawnie :thumbup:
Quote by Dawnie
We are currently looking at complaints regarding the NW munch and complaints that a cake dawnie baked recently was shite, hardly any iceing and burnt round the edges which she tried to disguise by wrapping it with a fancy paper thingy....and thats all.

You would never have noticed the burnt bits if you hadn't have tried an 'American Pie' moment and stuck your cock in it rolleyes
As for munches, I would suggest that anything you see on a beach or page 3, similar to the avatars, is acceptable. So that means tits and ass.
Kissing and tit flashing goes on in night clubs all the time or it does in my local night clubs confused
Sex acts is completely different and should not been seen in any social environment.
But that is purely my opinion :?
Totally agree wink
Thats why we cant understand why the Wakefield pic thread just got deleted dunno
Plus, Mr J wanted to see lils' tits lol
Can I get away with walking around with my knob out and just claim I'm a tit?
As for my take on it after a years worth of experience (and yes I made errors of judgement in my early munching days) a munch is like going to some long lost relatives wedding/birthday party. If you wouldn't do it in front of long lost great uncle fred then don't do it at a munch.
Quote by celestria
As for my take on it after a years worth of experience (and yes I made errors of judgement in my early munching days) a munch is like going to some long lost relatives wedding/birthday party. If you wouldn't do it in front of long lost great uncle fred then don't do it at a munch.

Bingo!
Quote by celestria
As for my take on it after a years worth of experience (and yes I made errors of judgement in my early munching days) a munch is like going to some long lost relatives wedding/birthday party. If you wouldn't do it in front of long lost great uncle fred then don't do it at a munch.

what if uncle Fred is used to getting his knob out dunno
Quote by davej
Can I get away with walking around with my knob out and just claim I'm a tit?

Will u have a cherry on as a disguise?? lol
Quote by Juniper_couple
Plus, Mr J wanted to see lils' tits lol

Hes not the only one ... so if the thread has gone can you just pm the pic :twisted:
Quote by Juniper_couple

You would never have noticed the burnt bits if you hadn't have tried an 'American Pie' moment and stuck your cock in it rolleyes
As for munches, I would suggest that anything you see on a beach or page 3, similar to the avatars, is acceptable. So that means tits and ass.
Kissing and tit flashing goes on in night clubs all the time or it does in my local night clubs confused
Sex acts is completely different and should not been seen in any social environment.
But that is purely my opinion :?

Totally agree wink
Thats why we cant understand why the Wakefield pic thread just got deleted dunno

agreed.
Also on the note of the Wakefield perv cam, can I re-iterate that this has been done at lots of munches in the past, a full post was made about it and phoenix was discreet and respectful of everyone concerned.
I think this thread is going round in circles a bit, everyone has different ideas of what is acceptable with the general consensus that live sex shows are not.
Admin and the mods can't write rules for every eventuality.
We are adults and such should act like it.
If you don't like it say so.
If you are not happy with the outcome, take it higher.
Simple
Trust you Sleeper!!!!
rolleyes
Quote by kazswallows
If you are not happy with the outcome, take it higher.
Simple

God here......did someone call me?
Just to clear up one point;
If the Wakefield percam pics were deleted does that mean that in future NO CAMERAS will be allowed at Munches and will that be written into the rules?
John & Shel
Quote by davej
Can I get away with walking around with my knob out and just claim I'm a tit?

Only if I can insert the lily :grin:
Quote by PoloLady
Can I get away with walking around with my knob out and just claim I'm a tit?

Only if I can insert the lily :grin:
Is that anything like gilding the lily? biggrin
See I think we are getting somewhere now. We can flip our tits out, walk around with our knobs out, provided they have a cherry on the end and we can have a bare bum dance provided we have got a Lily stuck up our arse.
I knew sensible adult debate would provide the answers.
Quote by Mr-Powers
If you are not happy with the outcome, take it higher.
Simple

God here......did someone call me?
Yup, but I got the engaged tone, you must be busy tonight lol
Quote by hisandhers
As for my take on it after a years worth of experience (and yes I made errors of judgement in my early munching days) a munch is like going to some long lost relatives wedding/birthday party. If you wouldn't do it in front of long lost great uncle fred then don't do it at a munch.

what if uncle Fred is used to getting his knob out dunno
I'd hope that Uncle Fred would have the ability to keep his knob in his pants for a couple of hours out of respect for the other guests, otherwise surely Uncle Fred would not have been invited by the organiser. :dunno:
In summary ................
A munch is not the place for sex shows.
The rules as they exist suffice.
Things that would happen in clubs most likely will happen at munches.
Admin and Mods do not police munches, but if complaints are received they will be investigated, as with real life, if people cross the line at munches there may be consequences and these could involve the authorities if anyone calls them in.
So as the rules say, act like adults.
Let common sense prevail.
i am never doing another serius post ever i promis rolleyes
Quote by sercher01
i am never doing another serius post ever i promis rolleyes

smile well it was an interesting thread, so you shouldn't feel to bad, quite the opposite.
Hmmmmm But again, i dont think the wakefield thread broke any AUP - yet it got deleted..... Just so that we all know in future - did we break the rules? confused Me, I think not, but its debateable to others - I think this one needs answering so that we all know whether tits n ass is ok, when done discreetly and not in a sexual manner, which of what i know of, showed no genitals .....
Well, I am thoroughly disgusted and disillusioned with the pulling of the who's who thread.
It's just like the "Moulin Rouge". A knee jerk reaction based upon a grey rule as to what is and what is not a sexual act and a few moans (NOTE, a few.)
If 7500 views of a thread isn't an indication of it's popularity, then I'll eat my hat. Such a thread is liable to do more for the popularity of a site than anything.
I agree rules state, no play, and if anyone can show me where "play" was photo'd, then I'll hold up my hands. There was no play in any photo of the Wakefield thread.
Good god, there is equal sexuality on page three of the Sun and Sport as was shown in the thread.
I only know the thread I started and cannot comment on any other thread.
Things move on and times change, shall we all go back to Victorian ethics or are we at the forefront of sexual liberation.
Jesus, wake up, take a walk down the front in Ibiza or any other holiday hotspot and you will see more than the pics I took.
I'm so disheartened that a site supposed to promote a lifestyle of a sexual nature has to behave like a bunch of Mary Whitehouses on what were perfectly innocious pictures for adults.
So, are you going to ban people from munches from the popular pastime of shirt and clothes swapping ?? This took place at Nottingham, without any pictures being taken.. is that a sexual act ??
Geez.
Quote by Phoenix
Well, I am thoroughly disgusted and disillusioned with the pulling of the who's who thread.
It's just like the "Moulin Rouge". A knee jerk reaction based upon a grey rule as to what is and what is not a sexual act and a few moans (NOTE, a few.)
If 7500 views of a thread isn't an indication of it's popularity, then I'll eat my hat. Such a thread is liable to do more for the popularity of a site than anything.
I agree rules state, no play, and if anyone can show me where "play" was photo'd, then I'll hold up my hands. There was no play in any photo of the Wakefield thread.
Good god, there is equal sexuality on page three of the Sun and Sport as was shown in the thread.
I only know the thread I started and cannot comment on any other thread.
Things move on and times change, shall we all go back to Victorian ethics or are we at the forefront of sexual liberation.
Jesus, wake up, take a walk down the front in Ibiza or any other holiday hotspot and you will see more than the pics I took.
I'm so disheartened that a site supposed to promote a lifestyle of a sexual nature has to behave like a bunch of Mary Whitehouses on what were perfectly innocious pictures for adults.
So, are you going to ban people from munches from the popular pastime of shirt and clothes swapping ?? This took place at Nottingham, without any pictures being taken.. is that a sexual act ??
Geez.

cant see a lot wrong with that tbh
Quote by st3v3
i am never doing another serius post ever i promis rolleyes

smile well it was an interesting thread, so you shouldn't feel to bad, quite the opposite.
high prase indeed TY worship
MYutter disgust is being reserved for those who behaved so inappropriately at Munches and caused this whole ugly problem to rear it's head.
Quote by davej
See I think we are getting somewhere now. We can flip our tits out, walk around with our knobs out, provided they have a cherry on the end and we can have a bare bum dance provided we have got a Lily stuck up our arse.
I knew sensible adult debate would provide the answers.

but... but.... don't the Mason's already have that practice sewn-up?
I wouldn't want any of our folk getting into schtick with the local Lodge!!!!
lp :eeek:
Quote by Jags
MY utter disgust is being reserved for those who behaved so inappropriately at Munches and caused this whole ugly problem to rear it's head.

here here so can we move on now with the 99% of the people who do have a good time wink well 100% now thats its sorted
thanks sercher for this thread
lets ALL enjoy the munches as they are ace lol