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as i started this in the first place id just like to say i think " the pervie cam thread" should be put back up for a start
i was talking about " overt sexual acts" not someone getting there boobs out
i think we all agree that the "overt" thing shouldnt happen
Quote by essex34m
Well, I am thoroughly disgusted and disillusioned with the pulling of the who's who thread.
It's just like the "Moulin Rouge". A knee jerk reaction based upon a grey rule as to what is and what is not a sexual act and a few moans (NOTE, a few.)
If 7500 views of a thread isn't an indication of it's popularity, then I'll eat my hat. Such a thread is liable to do more for the popularity of a site than anything.
I agree rules state, no play, and if anyone can show me where "play" was photo'd, then I'll hold up my hands. There was no play in any photo of the Wakefield thread.
Good god, there is equal sexuality on page three of the Sun and Sport as was shown in the thread.
I only know the thread I started and cannot comment on any other thread.
Things move on and times change, shall we all go back to Victorian ethics or are we at the forefront of sexual liberation.
Jesus, wake up, take a walk down the front in Ibiza or any other holiday hotspot and you will see more than the pics I took.
I'm so disheartened that a site supposed to promote a lifestyle of a sexual nature has to behave like a bunch of Mary Whitehouses on what were perfectly innocious pictures for adults.
So, are you going to ban people from munches from the popular pastime of shirt and clothes swapping ?? This took place at Nottingham, without any pictures being taken.. is that a sexual act ??
Geez.

cant see a lot wrong with that tbh
Clarify
Quote by hisandhers
MY utter disgust is being reserved for those who behaved so inappropriately at Munches and caused this whole ugly problem to rear it's head.

here here so can we move on now with the 99% of the people who do have a goog time wink well 100% now thats its sorted
thanks sercher for this thread
Thanks.
Damned if we take action
Damned if we don't take action
Just Damned all round. Moving on now please people, blood has been shed and there's nothing left to see or say or do.
Anyone fancy a shag??
cool
Quote by melons45
"In every group of people there is always someone who tries to piss against the wind" ...sums it up really...that about closes the thread...
"In every group of people there is always someone who tries to piss against the wind"

Just about sums everything up for me :thumbup:
Whatever walk of life, whatever situation, for as long as you have 'rules' - you will always get boundary pushers, some pushing them one way, and some pushing the other.
The extreme sides of this, I would say in the minority are the .... hmmmm, not sure how to word it confused
The rebels - push way outside the boundaries, don't see peoples shock/discomfort/anger with their actions, tend to think it's big/clever/funny/entertaining etc. Can't seem to match their behaviour to individual surroundings.
The PC hardcore - constantly pulling the boundaries tighter. Feign shock/horror at everything - to the point, in a situation like we're talking, where you wouldn't be able to wink even roughly in someones direction, without offence/outrage being taken, followed by demands for warnings and bans to be dished out.
Don't know if I'm coming across here as I intend, but in my time modding on here - I've seen both of those extremes, on a constant basis. Finding a middle happy ground is impossible without offending one of these minorities.
The other characters you get on here - and due to the nature of the site, there's quite a few lol the 'stand on the boundary line and rub you feet over it, before leaping back in innocence' - in other words, the pranksters........ Out pops a nipple or bum or something - people around gasp with omg what are they gonna do, before that person leaps back into the boundaries, with mock innocence.
These people, well you can't ban em? To me it's horseplay, mucking about, the mischevious threat to overstep a boundary - but they have the common sense to not push any further, and leap back on to safe ground, often with gales of laughter.
This isn't cos I've become blasé due to my time on a site, it's nothing more outrageous than you see on nights out on the town. I don't find it offensive - admittedly, I don't find it particualarly hilarious either.
Hmmm an essay on rules and boundaries :? when all I wanted to do was quote the above with a :thumbup: icon :lol:
Quote by Dawnie
We are currently looking at complaints regarding the NW munch and complaints that a cake dawnie baked recently was shite, hardly any iceing and burnt round the edges which she tried to disguise by wrapping it with a fancy paper thingy....and thats all.

You would never have noticed the burnt bits if you hadn't have tried an 'American Pie' moment and stuck your cock in it rolleyes
As for munches, I would suggest that anything you see on a beach or page 3, similar to the avatars, is acceptable. So that means tits and ass.
Kissing and tit flashing goes on in night clubs all the time or it does in my local night clubs confused
Sex acts is completely different and should not been seen in any social environment.
But that is purely my opinion :?
And that shouldn't break any rules if people act in an adult way and don't go over the top.
In My Opinion the shows put on broke the rules, as stated pretty much by everyone.
Quote by Jags
MY utter disgust is being reserved for those who behaved so inappropriately at Munches and caused this whole ugly problem to rear it's head.

Still not clear what is inappropriate, in relation to the pulled thread.
indeed, this is/has been a very good thread, lots of debate, and varied opinion...
perhaps something has been aired that might posibly need a little clarification... or at least has made some people think twice before enjoying themselves in a manner that could possibly offend others.
not a bad thing.....
I know that some of the issues raised here have put an *edge* to the possible enjoyment of some *munch* newbies... for fear of inapropriate behaviour potentially aimed at them...
however, the very airing it has all recieved now could well serve to put thier minds at ease.
i hope....
lp
Quote by Phoenix
Well, I am thoroughly disgusted and disillusioned with the pulling of the who's who thread.
It's just like the "Moulin Rouge". A knee jerk reaction based upon a grey rule as to what is and what is not a sexual act and a few moans (NOTE, a few.)
If 7500 views of a thread isn't an indication of it's popularity, then I'll eat my hat. Such a thread is liable to do more for the popularity of a site than anything.
I agree rules state, no play, and if anyone can show me where "play" was photo'd, then I'll hold up my hands. There was no play in any photo of the Wakefield thread.
Good god, there is equal sexuality on page three of the Sun and Sport as was shown in the thread.
I only know the thread I started and cannot comment on any other thread.
Things move on and times change, shall we all go back to Victorian ethics or are we at the forefront of sexual liberation.
Jesus, wake up, take a walk down the front in Ibiza or any other holiday hotspot and you will see more than the pics I took.
I'm so disheartened that a site supposed to promote a lifestyle of a sexual nature has to behave like a bunch of Mary Whitehouses on what were perfectly innocious pictures for adults.
So, are you going to ban people from munches from the popular pastime of shirt and clothes swapping ?? This took place at Nottingham, without any pictures being taken.. is that a sexual act ??
Geez.

cant see a lot wrong with that tbh
Clarify
what do you mean clarify?
im saying i agree with what you are saying
Quote by Jags
Anyone fancy a shag??

im shallow and have no idea what you look like
or am i going to have to work harder to get pics?
Quote by Phoenix
MY utter disgust is being reserved for those who behaved so inappropriately at Munches and caused this whole ugly problem to rear it's head.

Still not clear what is inappropriate, in relation to the pulled thread.
Then perhaps you could take the time to read the entire thread - otherwise it's just tedious saying it all again. Anyway, no point in a post mortem as the thread has been buried with due ceremony and angst.
Now... for those who have come late to the thread it's ALL been said, thought about, commented on, quoted and sliced apart.
Overt sexual behaviour at Munches is not allowed.
Adults should be able to police themselves
Twats will be banned
Good guys will always win
Quote by st3v3
We are currently looking at complaints regarding the NW munch and complaints that a cake dawnie baked recently was shite, hardly any iceing and burnt round the edges which she tried to disguise by wrapping it with a fancy paper thingy....and thats all.

You would never have noticed the burnt bits if you hadn't have tried an 'American Pie' moment and stuck your cock in it rolleyes
As for munches, I would suggest that anything you see on a beach or page 3, similar to the avatars, is acceptable. So that means tits and ass.
Kissing and tit flashing goes on in night clubs all the time or it does in my local night clubs confused
Sex acts is completely different and should not been seen in any social environment.
But that is purely my opinion :?
And that shouldn't break any rules if people act in an adult way and don't go over the top.
In My Opinion the shows put on broke the rules, as stated pretty much by everyone.
So, was the who's who thread in contravention of the rules...
I'm making a stance here.
Quote by essex34m

Anyone fancy a shag??

im shallow and have no idea what you look like
or am i going to have to work harder to get pics?
smackbottom :smackbottom:
I have always behaved appropriately and with decorum at any Munch I have attended!
drinkies
Quote by essex34m
what do you mean clarify?
im saying i agree with what you are saying

Sorry it's moving too fast and didn't grasp your comment.
Quote by Phoenix
what do you mean clarify?
im saying i agree with what you are saying

Sorry it's moving too fast and didn't grasp your comment.
Quote by jags
Then perhaps you could take the time to read the entire thread - otherwise it's just tedious saying it all again. Anyway, no point in a post mortem as the thread has been buried with due ceremony and angst.

I have, and it still isn't that clear, is flashing tits , stocking tops, and arses a sexual act...
Otherwise, I'll restart the thraed, there atre lots of pics left.
Quote by Jags
MY utter disgust is being reserved for those who behaved so inappropriately at Munches and caused this whole ugly problem to rear it's head.

Whilst I see what you're saying Jags and for quite blatant sexual acts i.e. oral sex, masturbation or full sex in such an environment as a vanilla munch.
However now the edges have been blurred and the Pervecam has been dragged into this, I feel quite "irritated" at that statement! Becasue those of us who took part in the pervecam are being lumped in with someone who would commit a full sexual act!
As has been indicated the pervecam was mentioned in the original munch thread, people had the chance to object prior to attending the munch, people were given a choice of whether to take part, there was no coercion, no pressure, if someone said no Phoenix said ok and left it at that .. individuals had the choice about which body part and how much to show.
Whilst the object of a munch is to introduce newbies etc, lets face facts, those newbies are coming along to meet prospective partners, they can browse anyone's pictures on the site and see cock and pussy, tits and arse, they can wander into the cam rooms and they can watch videos of full blown sex, oral sex, masturbation. threesomes and more! Newbies are not necessarily virgins!
I appreciate that not everyone wants to see the tits out brigade and I take the point, I will refrain in future but don't lump everyone in the same boat!
Quote by Jags

Anyone fancy a shag??

im shallow and have no idea what you look like
or am i going to have to work harder to get pics?
smackbottom :smackbottom:
I have always behaved appropriately and with decorum at any Munch I have attended!
drinkies
and id expect nothing less - however, outside of a munch, you might be different *creeping* ;)
Quote by Phoenix
still isn't that clear, is flashing tits , stocking tops, and arses a sexual act...
Otherwise, I'll restart the thraed, there atre lots of pics left.

And if you restart it then it will be redeleted.
Quote by essex34m
and id expect nothing less - however, outside of a munch, you might be different *creeping* ;)

Course I'm different - private is different to public. wink
Quote by Jags

and id expect nothing less - however, outside of a munch, you might be different *creeping* ;)

Course I'm different - private is different to public. wink
i was counting on it ;)
Quote by Calista
I appreciate that not everyone wants to see the tits out brigade and I take the point, I will refrain in future but don't lump everyone in the same boat!

Course I haven't lumped everyone in the same boat. People complained about the thread, Mods had a chat and it was deleted. As I said a few posts ago, 'Damned if we do' and 'Damned if we don't'
There has been no offence meant at anyone except the people who behaved in the overtly sexual manner at the Munches - they can stay offended.
Jags needs a Jags' hug!
Quote by Jags
still isn't that clear, is flashing tits , stocking tops, and arses a sexual act...
Otherwise, I'll restart the thraed, there atre lots of pics left.

And if you restart it then it will be redeleted.
That's not what is said here..
Quote by st3v3
We are currently looking at complaints regarding the NW munch and complaints that a cake dawnie baked recently was shite, hardly any iceing and burnt round the edges which she tried to disguise by wrapping it with a fancy paper thingy....and thats all.

You would never have noticed the burnt bits if you hadn't have tried an 'American Pie' moment and stuck your cock in it rolleyes
As for munches, I would suggest that anything you see on a beach or page 3, similar to the avatars, is acceptable. So that means tits and ass.
Kissing and tit flashing goes on in night clubs all the time or it does in my local night clubs confused
Sex acts is completely different and should not been seen in any social environment.
But that is purely my opinion :?
And that shouldn't break any rules if people act in an adult way and don't go over the top.
In My Opinion the showsput on broke the rules, as stated pretty much by everyone.
Wake up.
Again I ask where is the sexual act in the pics. I think you are taking a step too far backwards.
As for what happened at Vicky's do, I do not know about. It sounds like there was an overt sexual act, which I agree should not be.
Quote by Phoenix
Wake up.
Again I ask where is the sexual act in the pics. I think you are taking a step too far backwards.

Don't be offensive/abusive to me. The step has BEEN taken.
Now let's move things forwards cos this balancing act and tooing and frooing is making me dizzy.
Offensive :shock: , I havn't sworn at you yet.
Appologies to anyone who was waiting to see their picture or would like a copy of those already shown now the thread has been deleted, PM me with the name that was on the badge and I'll send it to you. I'm sure you don't think it was a sexual act. rolleyes
Quote by Phoenix
Offensive :shock: , I havn't sworn at you yet.
Appologies to anyone who was waiting to see their picture or would like a copy of those already shown now the thread has been deleted, PM me with the name that was on the badge and I'll send it to you. I'm sure you don't think it was a sexual act. rolleyes

Telling me to 'wake up' implies that I've been sleeping rather than spending the first day of my holidays trying to straighten out the mess which various twats have caused the site. In fact I found your comment 'wake up' more than offensive given the fucked up mess that Mods have been struggling with all day and then along comes you and starts again.
No enemies here, real or imagined and it's getting really tiresome being made to feel like one.
take it to PM you two please .
your making a show of your selfs
Phoenix - all i can say is what a sad sorry affair this has been :dry: kiss
Quote by sercher01
take it to PM you two please .
your making a show of your selfs

:shock: You're joking obviously...
think the shows were the twats indulging in oral sex in the middle of a Munch, or perhaps the two women snogging and groping each other in the middle of a Munch. Right??
Quote by Jags
:shock: You're joking obviously...
think the shows were the twats indulging in oral sex in the middle of a Munch, or perhaps the two women snogging and groping each other in the middle of a Munch. Right??

:thumbup:
Thank you Jags kiss
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