Is it me or does this add strick anyone else as a bit odd?
What has peoples childred got to do with swinging? you advertising for couples with young kids!!! :shock:
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Quote by naughtynymphos1
Is it me or does this add strick anyone else as a bit odd?
What has peoples childred got to do with swinging? you advertising for couples with young kids!!! :shock:
Lets not jump to conclusions here....I'm sure the context of the Post is not what you're reply implies.....surely..!
CheekyChimp....
Quote by cheekychimp
Is it me or does this add strick anyone else as a bit odd?
What has peoples childred got to do with swinging? you advertising for couples with young kids!!! :shock:
Lets not jump to conclusions here....I'm sure the context of the Post is not what you're reply implies.....surely..!
CheekyChimp....
I agree..but could have been phrased (a lot) better!! :shock:
:lol: :lol: wow NN back off a bit lol...
it may just be as vix says and they want to talk about ways of accomodating their swinging whilst handling a busy family life at the same time..
i know for a fact that lots of people at SH have a family and maybe some tips from them would be more beneficial at this point.
theyre very new remember
it may just be as vix says and they want to talk about ways of accomodating their swinging whilst handling a busy family life at the same time..
i know for a fact that lots of people at SH have a family and maybe some tips from them would be more beneficial at this point.
theyre very new remember
Quote by dargento
wow NN back off a bit lol...
it may just be as vix says and they want to talk about ways of accomodating their swinging whilst handling a busy family life at the same time..
i know for a fact that lots of people at SH have a family and maybe some tips from them would be more beneficial at this point.
theyre very new remember
i think theres lots of peeps on SH with familys, after all were not any different to anyone else.
NN had a bad day at work hun? crack open a bottle or two of plonk lol.
sierra x x
I'm kind of with NN here. Many of us have kids but that is not always the reason we struggle to swing.
Work, friends, expenses, illness, 'normal' social life or even caring for older parents all hinder swinging. I don't see why having kids should be a major part of a decision to meet other people
Work, friends, expenses, illness, 'normal' social life or even caring for older parents all hinder swinging. I don't see why having kids should be a major part of a decision to meet other people
Sex God
Quote by Dawn_Mids
I'm kind of with NN here. Many of us have kids but that is not always the reason we struggle to swing.
Work, friends, expenses, illness, 'normal' social life or even caring for older parents all hinder swinging. I don't see why having kids should be a major part of a decision to meet other people
I'll just be a sheep and agree with both of you. I must admit to being a bit unnerved by the original post but I don't think that they meant anything weird. Maybe just the wording was wrong?
Blimey 
Ok ok i was wrong cause perverts never trick people on the internet do they :roll: :roll:
Not saying they are asking for the wrong resons but me personally would not meet anyone who was asking for people with kids, nothing to do with a bad day at work :roll: i just don't mix my kids with swinging life
But hey next time i want an opinion i'll ask you for it :lol:
Ok ok i was wrong cause perverts never trick people on the internet do they :roll: :roll:
Not saying they are asking for the wrong resons but me personally would not meet anyone who was asking for people with kids, nothing to do with a bad day at work :roll: i just don't mix my kids with swinging life
But hey next time i want an opinion i'll ask you for it
:lol: Sex God
Benefit of the doubt? What the post suggests? It suggests nothing but people wanting to meet folks who are of similar background and lifestyles , which is what most swingers advertise for to a greater or lesser extent . As Vix stated they just want people who share their outlook . Blimey and people say Im apt to savage posters for nowt :shock:
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Blimey
Ok ok i was wrong cause perverts never trick people on the internet do they :roll: :roll:
Not saying they are asking for the wrong resons but me personally would not meet anyone who was asking for people with kids, nothing to do with a bad day at work :roll: i just don't mix my kids with swinging life
But hey next time i want an opinion i'll ask you for it
i dont think your wrong NN, i just think they could have made thier post a little clearer.
the only time the kids affect swinging is when i cant get a babysitter.
sierra x x
ps have u opened that plonk yet lol.
Warming the Bed
its quite tricky for us, as a lack of sitters means we dont travel to meet, which kinda limits the potentials
Quote by John & Natalia
it freeks us a little that the conversation even turned in that direction, now we have had another look at it we can see that if it ywas in your mind you might see what the first reply said. Yikes, so much for what you are not attending to I guess. I will say that we are a little socked that it was even thought in the first place. You know as partents it seems like akind of strange responce, even if our posting wasn't very clear.
Dont worry about it!
It was a good relevant question!
Quote by northwest-cpl
Is it me?
It reads quite clearly that they are looking for people with similar interests and life style, ie. a couple coping with a young family. How that can be seen as anything sinister beggars belief.
Because *sigh*
didn't want to go into this but seeing as you asked in such a way......
and i want to stress that i am in NO WAY suggesting the starter of this thread is the kind of person i am about to comment on but.........
If someone on the net did decide to use this site for reasons other than what its intended for (god forbit) do you really think they would write post like........ 40 year old perver sat at home alone looking for people with kids so i can take advange of them....... and you know what i mean by that please don't make me spell it out, about a year ago there was a guy, i believe it was on this site but i could be wrong i do use a few, advertising for single mums and a few people, as i did, saw it a bit odd that he requested that the women he wanted to meet had kids, now i am sorry that there are few horrable people on here spoil it for us all but i just think that asking for people with kids etc on sites such as this one is in bad taste, now they very well may be a totally genuine couple just after advice from other parents on how to balance swinging and a young family but then they also may not be, i am sorry if my views offend anyone but i stand by them and i still say i would never meet anyone who took a intersts in my children but what you do is upto you
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:D :D :D :DQuote by naughtynymphos1
Is it me?
It reads quite clearly that they are looking for people with similar interests and life style, ie. a couple coping with a young family. How that can be seen as anything sinister beggars belief.
Because *sigh*
didn't want to go into this but seeing as you asked in such a way......
and i want to stress that i am in NO WAY suggesting the starter of this thread is the kind of person i am about to comment on but.........
If someone on the net did decide to use this site for reasons other than what its intended for (god forbit) do you really think they would write post like........ 40 year old perver sat at home alone looking for people with kids so i can take advange of them....... and you know what i mean by that please don't make me spell it out, about a year ago there was a guy, i believe it was on this site but i could be wrong i do use a few, advertising for single mums and a few people, as i did, saw it a bit odd that he requested that the women he wanted to meet had kids, now i am sorry that there are few horrable people on here spoil it for us all but i just think that asking for people with kids etc on sites such as this one is in bad taste, now they very well may be a totally genuine couple just after advice from other parents on how to balance swinging and a young family but then they also may not be, i am sorry if my views offend anyone but i stand by them and i still say i would never meet anyone who took a intersts in my children but what you do is upto you
I think they were asking to meet parents not children. And they seem to be a couple rather than a single guy.
I also think you won't find anything in my post that suggests that we would want anything to do with anyone interested in our children.
What is the world coming too a couple put an innocent post on here and get savaged by people with warped minds. That is what is wrong with this country at the moment we know there are perverts and allsorts of wierdos out there but dont look too deep into every innocent statement trying too find something that isnt there.
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Orgasminator
Quote by chrisjane4fun
kids n swingin dont mix, just take ya time, all cums to them that wait!
4ish years ago my son sadly, at the time, found out I was a swinger when I was with my ex (and swinging partner) when he added me to his messenger list (even tho i'd said he couldnt use messenger, lol) and he justifiably had a lot of issues with it as he felt that it meant that we basically were shagging anyone and everyone... after I'd explained, as best you can, that despite what he'd heard from his "mates" at school that it was not really that different than any other adult relationship in that poeple had to be attracted to each other... etc... he didnt have a problem and that meant that my standing in his view of things went back up to parent and not "dirty bastard." (my ex was not his bio-mum) I think what shocked me more than anything about the event was that at 12 he and his school chums had already been "discussing" swinging, porn, etc. and had already evolved an idea about it and had pre-conceptions... that was quite an eye opener...
Mind you I should have realised how kids were early starters for the roumour and wispers from when I was that age.... the first year at high school was like a whole new world where innocence went out the window verbially....
As a couple, and also as a single, I've met people who have kids socially and also met people at mine socially and introduced my son to them as social meets are just that... non sexual and nothing more than "grown ups" (I dont think the word adult is quite right in this context) meeting and saying hello to each other... just because we/they are swingers does not mean that some situations are nothing more than "normal" people meeting in "normal" situations with the usual chats and stuff that anyone thats not a swinger would chat about... kids, price of petrol,crap education system, tax, etc. etc....
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Because *sigh*
well *sigh*
doesnt someone have a condescending attitude ?
we will do what we like thankyou , thats why were here .
Peace
Warming the Bed
Quote by chrisjane4fun
kids n swingin dont mix, just take ya time, all cums to them that wait!
if by that you mean you cant swing if you have kids, then i dont agree, and im not waiting 15 years for them to leave home lol
