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Best laid plans all ****ed up

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Ever had the feeling that someone somewhere is controlling your life especially when it come to planning to meet other couples for chat and maybe sex.
Failure Number 1;
Met a couple last Saturday socially and accepted invite to visit them at home last night. Rang to confirm on Friday. They have changed plans saying that invite was to a party some 55 miles away and they could not due to babysitting.
Failure Number 2
Rang some close friends and invited them to come to us for some fun. All set for a good night (last night). They rang to say their central heating boiler had sprung a leak and were unable to come (on both counts!!)
Failure Number 3
Replied to an advert on Swinging Heaven. from a local couple hoping that they would get in touch by phone and we could salvage something. Needless to say they have not bothered to reply or e-mail.
I'm sure that my late mother is controlling things from wherever she may be. Anyone else had a catalogue of failures like this?
Nope not me. Never been let down once cool lol
Tracy-Jayne
Hi Tracy-Jayne,
Lucky you......we're on our way wink
Quote by MowerMan
Ever had the feeling that someone somewhere is controlling your life especially when it come to planning to meet other couples for chat and maybe sex.
Failure Number 1;
Met a couple last Saturday socially and accepted invite to visit them at home last night. Rang to confirm on Friday. They have changed plans saying that invite was to a party some 55 miles away and they could not due to babysitting.
Failure Number 2
Rang some close friends and invited them to come to us for some fun. All set for a good night (last night). They rang to say their central heating boiler had sprung a leak and were unable to come (on both counts!!)
Failure Number 3
Replied to an advert on Swinging Heaven. from a local couple hoping that they would get in touch by phone and we could salvage something. Needless to say they have not bothered to reply or e-mail.
I'm sure that my late mother is controlling things from wherever she may be. Anyone else had a catalogue of failures like this?

So, you joined the forum just to complain? confused
Redhot wrote
Nope not me. Never been let down once

I don't like to pry, but how many times have you been let down then :shock: redface
lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
The answer is not to expect ! then you can't be let down! biggrin
Quote by MowerMan
Failure Number 1;
Met a couple last Saturday socially and accepted invite to visit them at home last night. Rang to confirm on Friday. They have changed plans saying that invite was to a party some 55 miles away and they could not due to babysitting.
Failure Number 2
Rang some close friends and invited them to come to us for some fun. All set for a good night (last night). They rang to say their central heating boiler had sprung a leak and were unable to come (on both counts!!)
Failure Number 3
Replied to an advert on Swinging Heaven. from a local couple hoping that they would get in touch by phone and we could salvage something. Needless to say they have not bothered to reply or e-mail.

Failure Number 1 - Bit of a bugger but these things happen.
Failure Number 2 - They are close friends so I guess you can rearrange this quite easily.
Failure Number 3 - Welcome to reality!!!
Sorry but I can't see what you've got to complain about really.
Did you expect everything to be handed to you on a plate?
Now people know not to organise a meet with you 'cos if anything happens and they have to genuinely cancel you'll be whinging in the Cafe about it!!!
We have been playing the game long enough to have found out about these things. Certainly not complaining, just wondering if anyone else has similar experiences. Yes we have been let down over the six years, but normally only once for one night....not 3 times.
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Nope not me. Never been let down once cool lol
Tracy-Jayne

i would have said the same thing... right up until last night... sad :( :(
sympathy for sean please.....
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
sean xxxxxxx
I suppose that there are many let downs in life, it's what you do about it afterwards that counts, don't give up, just fight back.
It's sorted, I've decided not to have Central Heating after all, that way when the Boiler springs a leak, it won't be mine.
Now open to offers.
John
wink
Quote by fabio grooverider
Nope not me. Never been let down once cool lol
Tracy-Jayne

i would have said the same thing... right up until last night... sad :( :(
sympathy for sean please.....
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
sean xxxxxxx
Awwwwwwwwww!! Poor you :(
I'd give you a sympathy shag Sean but I'm out of action as you know rolleyes wink
Tracy-Jayne
Just go into every situation expecting nothing, then if you get lucky you'll be happy, but you won't be dissappointed otherwise.
Rather pessimistic isn't it confused :cry:
lol
Roll on wednesday biggrin
Quote by fabio grooverider
Nope not me. Never been let down once cool lol
Tracy-Jayne

i would have said the same thing... right up until last night... sad :( :(
sympathy for sean please.....
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
sean xxxxxxx
Awwwwwwwwwwww, come here you big hunk of love. :therethere: passionkiss :therethere: