now let me explain, i dont actually know if the user im talkin about is dodgy, but we reponded to an advert, an got on to msn, then all we got of them or him as we found out later was" pic?" every two mins, we personnaly like the friendship aspect of SH as well as the naughty stuff, we like to have a chat on msn, and a proper chat at that, i know this is a swingin site, but dosnt friendship count for anything, any of you had similar where they seem really forcfull even at the other end of a phone line?
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I daresay most of us on here have experienced that sort of behaviour in the past. I know Jon and I have 
One guy in particular seemed great in the chatroom. We chatted in there often before I gave him my MSN addy.
Once he had that, all I got was "pic?" or "put your cam on and show me your tits" every two minutes
Needless so say, he was blocked and deleted
Another guy replied to our ad and after chatting for a couple of weeks by email and MSN I gave him our mobile phone number. All seemed to be going smoothly.
However he then decided that he would phone me up on a daily basis and want to talk for ages. If I said I was at work or not able to chat for anyother reason, he would get all shitty and say I was ignoring him :shock: :roll:
Even if Jon answered the phone he would ring back later to see if I would answer it :roll:
If the end I had to change my phone to stop him calling me all day and night
Another guy gave out my phone number to three of his mates after I refused to meet with him on my own :shock: They then called me at different times saying this guy had told them I "would be up for a shag"
Yep! There sure are some idiots out there, but on the other hand, there are also some great peeps too and luckily they far out number the twats
Tracy-Jayne
One guy in particular seemed great in the chatroom. We chatted in there often before I gave him my MSN addy.
Once he had that, all I got was "pic?" or "put your cam on and show me your tits" every two minutes
Needless so say, he was blocked and deleted
Another guy replied to our ad and after chatting for a couple of weeks by email and MSN I gave him our mobile phone number. All seemed to be going smoothly.
However he then decided that he would phone me up on a daily basis and want to talk for ages. If I said I was at work or not able to chat for anyother reason, he would get all shitty and say I was ignoring him :shock: :roll:
Even if Jon answered the phone he would ring back later to see if I would answer it :roll:
If the end I had to change my phone to stop him calling me all day and night
Another guy gave out my phone number to three of his mates after I refused to meet with him on my own :shock: They then called me at different times saying this guy had told them I "would be up for a shag"
Yep! There sure are some idiots out there, but on the other hand, there are also some great peeps too and luckily they far out number the twats
Tracy-Jayne
Orgasminator
oh yeah some blokes just havent got a clue......ive never had a lady getting forcefull on me tho. :cry: ..well not since my ex but thats another story
Funniest thing we had was we was chatting to a couple and they asked if we wanted 2 swap pics on messenger so we swapped addys and he sent me a pic of him and his mrs, only when i opened the pic it was of me and my hubby :shock: so i posted back wow ur mrs is georgeous i think ur a bit outa our league 
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: so he put back don't be silly send me some naughty pics i'm sure we will like you cheeky twat
But in answer to your question yes we get that a lot, yes i like the friendship side of things, i'm happy to meet anyone for a drink, and have met several people on a few occasions even tho we will never play, but to some people swinging is sex end of and thats their choice theres no right and wrong u just have to be honest with people and let them know what u expect then its upto u if u want to meet them or not.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: so he put back don't be silly send me some naughty pics i'm sure we will like you cheeky twat But in answer to your question yes we get that a lot, yes i like the friendship side of things, i'm happy to meet anyone for a drink, and have met several people on a few occasions even tho we will never play, but to some people swinging is sex end of and thats their choice theres no right and wrong u just have to be honest with people and let them know what u expect then its upto u if u want to meet them or not.
Orgasminator
christ naughty thats bang out of order! some proper low-lifes about thats for sure. name and shame name and shame!
Orgasminator
yeah steph can just imagine the shock the sad twat would get seeing "himself" and "his mrs" looking back at him. that would be priceless. theres nothing worse than a liar. going to that extreme to finding something to wank over is incredible. whats wrong with going down the cornershop and buying "razzle"......or typing "free porn" into google? 
Orgasminator
maybe its like collecting pokemon cards or something...these fellas have meetings and play a card game over it. "ive got big bertha and she has 40dd tits. beats your thongizard by 10 points"
Orgasminator
hmmmm "amateur wives top trumps" now theres a money spinner.......
Sex God
I really couldn't care less when people want pics of me (usually cock or bum shots) so I oblige them. Don't do face pics though.
Usually I never hear any more from them so assume they must have used them as wank material.
ops: :oops: Now that I like! :grin: :grin:
Am I shocked? Am I hell :bounce: :bounce:
Usually I never hear any more from them so assume they must have used them as wank material.
ops: :oops: Now that I like! :grin: :grin: Am I shocked? Am I hell :bounce: :bounce:
Quote by EagerSlut.
I really couldn't care less when people want pics of me (usually cock or bum shots) so I oblige them. Don't do face pics though.
Usually I never hear any more from them so assume they must have used them as wank material.
Am I shocked? Am I hell :bounce: :bounce:
HEHE way to go eagerslut send me pics please ermm bum cock i dont mind lol
Sex God
Quote by debz4u.
I really couldn't care less when people want pics of me (usually cock or bum shots) so I oblige them. Don't do face pics though.
Usually I never hear any more from them so assume they must have used them as wank material.
Am I shocked? Am I hell :bounce: :bounce:
HEHE way to go eagerslut send me pics please ermm bum cock i dont mind lol
:shock: :shock: :shock:
What do you think I am, some kind of tart? :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
:smackbottom: :rascal: :rascal: :rascal: :rascal:
You can click on the SH Calendar link in the margin for starters! :P
:wink: Quote by EagerSlut.
I really couldn't care less when people want pics of me (usually cock or bum shots) so I oblige them. Don't do face pics though.
Usually I never hear any more from them so assume they must have used them as wank material.
Am I shocked? Am I hell :bounce: :bounce:
HEHE way to go eagerslut send me pics please ermm bum cock i dont mind lol
:shock: :shock: :shock:
What do you think I am, some kind of tart? :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
:smackbottom: :rascal: :rascal: :rascal: :rascal:
You can click on the SH Calendar link in the margin for starters! :P
:wink: NO just send the pics now lol Sex God
Quote by EagerSlut
I really couldn't care less when people want pics of me (usually cock or bum shots) so I oblige them. Don't do face pics though.
Usually I never hear any more from them so assume they must have used them as wank material.
Am I shocked? Am I hell :bounce: :bounce:
Quite flattering really, I suppose :twisted:
