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we were wondering if there are any couples out there with a straight female? it seems to us that every couple has a bi female.....only an observation, let us know what you all think.
g+d xx
Aren't all women bi or bi curious? smile
(will I get spanked for that?)
i think most must be bi curious !
but then is this just a sensative feeling ?
jaky
Hi there
my partner maggie is straight! she's never been curious at all?
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Hi there
my partner maggie is straight! she's never been curious at all?

Quick someone convert her !!!!! rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: ... or pervert her....
Seriously tho... sex professor Alred Kinsey and his nympho wife reconned that everyone was on a sliding scale of bi-sexuality... it was just a case of how curious you are... some people live at the straight without extreme provocation end... and some live in the gay as handbells end.... But then he buggered up his nice two dimensional scale by descovering that most young boys in texas had done bad things with animals..!!! :!: :!: :!:
So really its a matter of personal preference if you choose to believe Kinsey's scale (on which you can be marked).. in the same way its a matter of personal preference if you happen to be a bi-wife.
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But then he buggered up his nice two dimensional scale by descovering that most young boys in texas had done bad things with animals..!!! :!: :!: :!:

Did that affect the Sliding bi-scale of the animals?
Or were they already bi..????
Dxxx
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we were wondering if there are any couples out there with a straight female? it seems to us that every couple has a bi female.....only an observation, let us know what you all think.
g+d xx

I dunno me and my shagging partner are looking for a girl for a 3some?? Does that make me bi or just curious or both??
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But then he buggered up his nice two dimensional scale by descovering that most young boys in texas had done bad things with animals..!!! :!: :!: :!:

Did that affect the Sliding bi-scale of the animals?
Or were they already bi..????
Dxxx
D.... Do most animals even get a say in the matter????
I was thinking in terms of adding a third dimension to the scale... perhaps turning it into a scattergraph :wanker: Can anyone suggest what the 4th dimension of sex might be??
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But then he buggered up his nice two dimensional scale by descovering that most young boys in texas had done bad things with animals..!!! :!: :!: :!:

Did that affect the Sliding bi-scale of the animals?
Or were they already bi..????
Dxxx
D.... Do most animals even get a say in the matter????
I was thinking in terms of adding a third dimension to the scale... perhaps turning it into a scattergraph :wanker: Can anyone suggest what the 4th dimension of sex might be??
How about horizontal gay to straight and vertical "normal" (in a socially accepted sense) to perverse? Does that work
biggrin Hm-- I was going to ask similar- Luce is in no way (outwardly) interested- the opposite in fact, to the point where the other night at a club she decided against us playing because she felt the lady was 'eyeing her up'-which made her feel a bit guilty and uneasy.
There does seem to be a propensity of bi-fems in the ads, almost to the point of being compulsory, which puts us off a little-(I dont mind at all-usual male fantasy, but I must respect her wishes)- are a high % of swinging fems bi? Or is it the female equivalent of VVVWE??? - A hook?- Bait? etc??? Response most welcome!!
Well, whenever asked about my sexuality I always state that I'm lesbian because I only ever sleep with women. wink
However, from a purely male perspective the propensity of females who tend towards the "bi" is at the same time exciting and frightening. On the one hand we (most men) like to see two women together, especially if we're between them. lol On the other hand, if these same women ever find out how to conceive without male intervention, we're history :doh:
not sure any more there's any such thing as a definition? there's only the boundaries you have right now. maybe they'll always stay the same, maybe they won't, but so long as everybody respects those boundaries and plays within them, does it really matter? dunno
neil x x x ;)
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biggrin Hm-- I was going to ask similar- Luce is in no way (outwardly) interested- the opposite in fact, to the point where the other night at a club she decided against us playing because she felt the lady was 'eyeing her up'-which made her feel a bit guilty and uneasy.

That is really interesting and thank you for posting that. As the um er new but perhaps becoming "resident" L*sbian with slight bi tendencies (i.e - I prefer women thanks - but don't say no to a bit of t'otha every now an then :twisted: ) - I do worry about being perceived as "predatory". It does make me hold back to be approached - rather than approach.
I would NEVER assume a woman was bi just 'cos she was in here tho.
Havign siad that - back in the days when I was young and in me twenties (she gets her pipe out, slippers on, sits back in the rocking chair) - I was curious. I wanted to know for sure if I was "gay". I thought at the time that sleeping with a woman would prove or dissprove all those feelings I had (yeah yeah - I know!!). So I went to a swingers sight.
Not at all saying that all the bi single women on here are doing the same - just my own experience.
Hiya funcouple_gd wave
Whilst it is true that the majority of couple do have bi fems the most important rule in swinging is respect... Therefore if someone approaches you and you are not a willing party you just say no... This goes for both men and women... There is no shame in saying sorry but no....
I am a bi fem, but I never assume that any woman will want to play with me because I am.... They may not be attracted to me and visa versa... So even though you may meet up with a couple that has a bi fem it doesn't mean to say that fem on fem fun is required....
I would suggest that you always make sure that people you talk to know if either of you are bi or straight... It saves any embarressment later on....
Have fun kiss
Shireen
xxx
sometimes she wants the soft touch of a woman,other times shes wants hard shagging
by one or more men wink but most times shes just horny,especially in a swinging enviroment,but we like most people on here would always respect other peoples bounderies
thanks for all the replys there, some very funny... and some very helpful and reassuring.
g+d xx
just one question: why would you want a straight female?? :shock: :shock:
have i missed something confused: :?: :twisted:
:laughabove:
In Satin's land of lesbian porn, the word "straight" isn't allowed............. :scared:
But hey, straight is cool............ isn't it? :huh:
loon
bolt
Different stokes for different folks....
Even thou im technically bi, I dont consider myself bi-sexual, just sexual lol :bounce:
I don't think we've yet had a couple at our parties where the girl wasn't at least bi-curious! Maybe part of it is that (even in the swinging world) its more acceptable/made easier for women to admit that curiousity than for a man to be bi-curious....shame as i'm all for it!
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Aren't most people just a little bi curious???
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just one question: why would you want a straight female?? :shock: :shock:

Yeh! Give me a bendy female any time lol