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Quote by Mash_2007
Wife wants to sample a black cock now. Should I let her?

Making the decision of consenting to your wife having another mans cock should be one of agreement between both you and your wife. Just as you playing with someone else should be agreed. Swinging as a couple (for us at least) should be for extra fun in your relationship, however that manifests it’s self with others. It shouldn’t feel a threat to your relationship. So as a couple only you and your wife can work that out.
As for colour, we are all human and I don’t see the difference.
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Quote by flower411
it depends on how you see it flower......
if someone wants to define themselves as a BBW then they have taken that decision to and more power to themselves....
However if you are asking me as a black man if i want to be defined as just a "black cock".. I don't think you are going to find many that will....
I had a really big and wordy answer for this earlier, that was before my computer stopped working..... so i have had time to think about it...
Personally now it is all water of a ducks back to me... I have been there and done that and am more worldly about it all now... when I first started I have to admit that there were times when yes I did feel like i was being used as "a black man" or "a black cock"

Yeah I know fabio !! But I think that some people are to quick to jump on others with limited social skills ... We could just ignore them ....lets be honest.....the thread would die much quicker if it was ignored which is really what it deserves .
What??? so you are suggesting the author has limited social skills? I just call it plain ignorance.
Aaw come on Flower, it's plain common sense!, this is about some people viewing a 'black' cock as the ultimate 'biggie' the 'thing to fill my wife up with' and forgetting about the man that belongs to it, it has nowt to do with social skills. The author also suggested "sampling" like it's some kind of test! The thread question could've been worded better.
You follow your own advice and ignore these threads (why you posting on them if that's how you feel beats me dunno), and I will continue to stick up for the person who belongs to the cock.
Sorry like. wink
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Quote by jaymar
it depends on how you see it flower......
if someone wants to define themselves as a BBW then they have taken that decision to and more power to themselves....
However if you are asking me as a black man if i want to be defined as just a "black cock".. I don't think you are going to find many that will....
I had a really big and wordy answer for this earlier, that was before my computer stopped working..... so i have had time to think about it...
Personally now it is all water of a ducks back to me... I have been there and done that and am more worldly about it all now... when I first started I have to admit that there were times when yes I did feel like i was being used as "a black man" or "a black cock"

Yeah I know fabio !! But I think that some people are to quick to jump on others with limited social skills ... We could just ignore them ....lets be honest.....the thread would die much quicker if it was ignored which is really what it deserves .
What??? so you are suggesting the author has limited social skills? I just call it plain ignorance.
Aaw come on Flower, it's plain common sense!, this is about some people viewing a 'black' cock as the ultimate 'biggie' the 'thing to fill my wife up with' and forgetting about the man that belongs to it, it has nowt to do with social skills. The author also suggested "sampling" like it's some kind of test! The thread question could've been worded better.
You follow your own advice and ignore these threads (why you posting on them if that's how you feel beats me dunno), and I will continue to stick up for the person who belongs to the cock.
Sorry like. wink
As usual Jaymar, your incisive posts cut straight to the chase...well said!!
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Quote by Mr-Powers
you can have the biggest cock in the world and still be the shittiest shagger...thankfully i have the second biggest cock in the world!

Does that make you the second shittiest shagger then? lol mwahhhh
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Quote by jaymar
it depends on how you see it flower......
if someone wants to define themselves as a BBW then they have taken that decision to and more power to themselves....
However if you are asking me as a black man if i want to be defined as just a "black cock".. I don't think you are going to find many that will....
I had a really big and wordy answer for this earlier, that was before my computer stopped working..... so i have had time to think about it...
Personally now it is all water of a ducks back to me... I have been there and done that and am more worldly about it all now... when I first started I have to admit that there were times when yes I did feel like i was being used as "a black man" or "a black cock"

Yeah I know fabio !! But I think that some people are to quick to jump on others with limited social skills ... We could just ignore them ....lets be honest.....the thread would die much quicker if it was ignored which is really what it deserves .
What??? so you are suggesting the author has limited social skills? I just call it plain ignorance.
Aaw come on Flower, it's plain common sense!, this is about some people viewing a 'black' cock as the ultimate 'biggie' the 'thing to fill my wife up with' and forgetting about the man that belongs to it, it has nowt to do with social skills. The author also suggested "sampling" like it's some kind of test! The thread question could've been worded better.
You follow your own advice and ignore these threads (why you posting on them if that's how you feel beats me dunno), and I will continue to stick up for the person who belongs to the cock.
Sorry like. wink
Think your being overly harsh with the word ignorant here, he may be guilty of stereotyping but that’s about it, what would you call a black cock? I would call it a black cock, and just because someone asks that question doesn’t mean that they would not be interested in the person to whom it belongs too if they decided to take it further, although clearly you think otherwise, sounds to me like your judging a person from their poor wording, and yes I agree it could have been worded better but why it annoys you is the bit I don’t understand.
Take the “black cock” out of it for a moment; lets say he wrote, "Wife wants to sample swinging now. Should I let her?" or even "Wife wants to sample another fem now. Should I let her?" would they have annoyed you, after all both of these also suggest he is only interested in the swinging, or the other fem rather than any people/person involved, that doesn’t mean that if they did try any of the above, including a “black cock” that they wouldn’t be interested in the person that it belongs to, so how can you say otherwise? After all the written word can be taken many ways. But why it annoys you so much and why you feel the need to stick up for a person is a bit puzzling, after all its hypothetical unless they eventually go through with it.
bbw_loverNkitty
Sex God
Quote by Fun Scottish Couple
it depends on how you see it flower......
if someone wants to define themselves as a BBW then they have taken that decision to and more power to themselves....
However if you are asking me as a black man if i want to be defined as just a "black cock".. I don't think you are going to find many that will....
I had a really big and wordy answer for this earlier, that was before my computer stopped working..... so i have had time to think about it...
Personally now it is all water of a ducks back to me... I have been there and done that and am more worldly about it all now... when I first started I have to admit that there were times when yes I did feel like i was being used as "a black man" or "a black cock"

Yeah I know fabio !! But I think that some people are to quick to jump on others with limited social skills ... We could just ignore them ....lets be honest.....the thread would die much quicker if it was ignored which is really what it deserves .
What??? so you are suggesting the author has limited social skills? I just call it plain ignorance.
Aaw come on Flower, it's plain common sense!, this is about some people viewing a 'black' cock as the ultimate 'biggie' the 'thing to fill my wife up with' and forgetting about the man that belongs to it, it has nowt to do with social skills. The author also suggested "sampling" like it's some kind of test! The thread question could've been worded better.
You follow your own advice and ignore these threads (why you posting on them if that's how you feel beats me dunno), and I will continue to stick up for the person who belongs to the cock.
Sorry like. wink
Think your being overly harsh with the word ignorant here, he may be guilty of stereotyping but that’s about it, what would you call a black cock? I would call it a black cock, and just because someone asks that question doesn’t mean that they would not be interested in the person to whom it belongs too if they decided to take it further, although clearly you think otherwise, sounds to me like your judging a person from their poor wording, and yes I agree it could have been worded better but why it annoys you is the bit I don’t understand.
Take the “black cock” out of it for a moment; lets say he wrote, "Wife wants to sample swinging now. Should I let her?" or even "Wife wants to sample another fem now. Should I let her?" would they have annoyed you, after all both of these also suggest he is only interested in the swinging, or the other fem rather than any people/person involved, that doesn’t mean that if they did try any of the above, including a “black cock” that they wouldn’t be interested in the person that it belongs to, so how can you say otherwise? After all the written word can be taken many ways. But why it annoys you so much and why you feel the need to stick up for a person is a bit puzzling, after all its hypothetical unless they eventually go through with it.
Sorry Fun Scottish Couple but I think Mar is absolutely right. I also think you're missing the point.
To say you want to sample swinging is perfectly valid because you're describing an activity. Likewise to express a desire to sample a "fem", for instance, not only describes a whole person, but also implies a person with a certain set of values.
However the desire for a "black cock" is specific in it's objectification. There is no indication of a person or a set of values, it merely expresses desire for a body part. "Black arm", "black leg"? See how ridiculous it sounds?
Don't get me wrong, and I hope this thread doesn't decend into another racist rant, but it's just as offensive as men who say they're looking for someone with "big boobs".
I have met many women who wouldn't describe their desires in that way. They often say that they prefer "black men". See? The whole person. With any luck the "cock" will come with it.
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fabio
Sex God
actually i was looking for a specific post to answer a question Fun Scottish couple posted about what happens when people ask the question as in general without using the word "black"... and look what i stumbled across...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/169831.html
asked the same question 5 months ago :shock: :shock:
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Quote by fabio
actually i was looking for a specific post to answer a question Fun Scottish couple posted about what happens when people ask the question as in general without using the word "black"... and look what i stumbled across...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/169831.html
asked the same question 5 months ago :shock: :shock:

Odd this, but I'm not surprised rolleyes
fabio
Sex God
actually found what i was looking for... had to go thru a year of RPM's post because it is something that stuck with me......
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/165762.html
and
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/99391.html
so questions can be asked without the mention of colour... which is what i try to
and for the record.. I do think there is a difference between someone asking you if you are into black men (of which people are entitled to preferences) and you are into "black cock"
I have asked people the former as I think is a legitimate question to ask, after all different things are going to float peoples boats..... however I do think the latter can be construed as being quite demeaning and condesending
HugsnKisses
Orgasminator
The original question was asked by a man. It occurs to me that he used the sort of phrase we are used to in porn and he probably had no idea that it could be offensive. I actually think he was probably getting very horny at the time of writing it. I know a lot of men find the idea of watching their partner with a black guy very appealing, but how many do it? Do they still believe that once u go black u never go back? It is also a very common misconception that women who like black men only want a big cock.....sorry but I definately don't agree.
I just think black guys look good naked and treat me good. Yep I am that shallow!! lol
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Quote by fabio
actually found what i was looking for... had to go thru a year of RPM's post because it is something that stuck with me......

Someone get Fabio a Doctor- FAST! lol
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Quote by bbw_lover
it depends on how you see it flower......
if someone wants to define themselves as a BBW then they have taken that decision to and more power to themselves....
However if you are asking me as a black man if i want to be defined as just a "black cock".. I don't think you are going to find many that will....
I had a really big and wordy answer for this earlier, that was before my computer stopped working..... so i have had time to think about it...
Personally now it is all water of a ducks back to me... I have been there and done that and am more worldly about it all now... when I first started I have to admit that there were times when yes I did feel like i was being used as "a black man" or "a black cock"

Yeah I know fabio !! But I think that some people are to quick to jump on others with limited social skills ... We could just ignore them ....lets be honest.....the thread would die much quicker if it was ignored which is really what it deserves .
What??? so you are suggesting the author has limited social skills? I just call it plain ignorance.
Aaw come on Flower, it's plain common sense!, this is about some people viewing a 'black' cock as the ultimate 'biggie' the 'thing to fill my wife up with' and forgetting about the man that belongs to it, it has nowt to do with social skills. The author also suggested "sampling" like it's some kind of test! The thread question could've been worded better.
You follow your own advice and ignore these threads (why you posting on them if that's how you feel beats me dunno), and I will continue to stick up for the person who belongs to the cock.
Sorry like. wink
Think your being overly harsh with the word ignorant here, he may be guilty of stereotyping but that’s about it, what would you call a black cock? I would call it a black cock, and just because someone asks that question doesn’t mean that they would not be interested in the person to whom it belongs too if they decided to take it further, although clearly you think otherwise, sounds to me like your judging a person from their poor wording, and yes I agree it could have been worded better but why it annoys you is the bit I don’t understand.
Take the “black cock” out of it for a moment; lets say he wrote, "Wife wants to sample swinging now. Should I let her?" or even "Wife wants to sample another fem now. Should I let her?" would they have annoyed you, after all both of these also suggest he is only interested in the swinging, or the other fem rather than any people/person involved, that doesn’t mean that if they did try any of the above, including a “black cock” that they wouldn’t be interested in the person that it belongs to, so how can you say otherwise? After all the written word can be taken many ways. But why it annoys you so much and why you feel the need to stick up for a person is a bit puzzling, after all its hypothetical unless they eventually go through with it.
Sorry Fun Scottish Couple but I think Mar is absolutely right. I also think you're missing the point.
To say you want to sample swinging is perfectly valid because you're describing an activity. Likewise to express a desire to sample a "fem", for instance, not only describes a whole person, but also implies a person with a certain set of values.
However the desire for a "black cock" is specific in it's objectification. There is no indication of a person or a set of values, it merely expresses desire for a body part. "Black arm", "black leg"? See how ridiculous it sounds?
Don't get me wrong, and I hope this thread doesn't decend into another racist rant, but it's just as offensive as men who say they're looking for someone with "big boobs".
I have met many women who wouldn't describe their desires in that way. They often say that they prefer "black men". See? The whole person. With any luck the "cock" will come with it.
evil
Thank you and yes, the point was missed... I had to laugh actually, someone implied the author lacked social skills and I'm damned for saying it's ignorance rotflmao
It's ignorance for the pure face it's people we're talking about not their body parts. FunScottishCouple, it's not about you, it's about people just being recognised for themselves, I wouldn't want to meet you for your kilt or what was under it would I? I would want to meet you for you.
That's the end of my posts on this thread. :gagged:
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Quote by welikesinglemen
I just think black guys look good naked and treat me good. Yep I am that shallow!! lol

...flippin ell, if you saw Chox in the buff it'd change your view! :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Quote by bbw_lover
Sorry Fun Scottish Couple but I think Mar is absolutely right. I also think you're missing the point.
To say you want to sample swinging is perfectly valid because you're describing an activity. Likewise to express a desire to sample a "fem", for instance, not only describes a whole person, but also implies a person with a certain set of values.
However the desire for a "black cock" is specific in it's objectification. There is no indication of a person or a set of values, it merely expresses desire for a body part. "Black arm", "black leg"? See how ridiculous it sounds?
Don't get me wrong, and I hope this thread doesn't decend into another racist rant, but it's just as offensive as men who say they're looking for someone with "big boobs".
I have met many women who wouldn't describe their desires in that way. They often say that they prefer "black men". See? The whole person. With any luck the "cock" will come with it.
evil

Well said BBW Lover..I'd also like to venture another slightly off beat notion...it seems that it's mainly white males (and some mis guided black ones!) that use this kind of phraseology, maybe they don't feel threatened, in terms of their relationship, by what a black cock might do to it. They may well believe that their wives wouldn't 'run off' with a black man, so engaging with the 'black', 'black cock' appears to them to be a risk free thrill. I would not of course, include the many, many genuine people who enjoy inter racial sex/relationships for lots of positive reasons smile
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by fabio
actually i was looking for a specific post to answer a question Fun Scottish couple posted about what happens when people ask the question as in general without using the word "black"... and look what i stumbled across...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/169831.html
asked the same question 5 months ago :shock: :shock:

So is it safe to assume that Mash's wife isn't too interested but he's still trying to persuade her? rolleyes
Go away and have a good think about whether you want to stay married, Mash. She might just try the things you want her to, enjoy it more than you expected and fuck off.
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Quote by Freckledbird
actually i was looking for a specific post to answer a question Fun Scottish couple posted about what happens when people ask the question as in general without using the word "black"... and look what i stumbled across...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/169831.html
asked the same question 5 months ago :shock: :shock:

So is it safe to assume that Mash's wife isn't too interested but he's still trying to persuade her? rolleyes
Go away and have a good think about whether you want to stay married, Mash. She might just try the things you want her to, enjoy it more than you expected and fuck off.
well said :thumbup:
shaz x