what are you ideas or opinions on bondage?
light bondage?
hard bondage?
or the hard core people..... extreme bondage?
also has anybody been hogtied? whats it like?
its a idea as well as a fantasy so i need some help with idea's :shock:
cheers guys n gals
i shall watch this one with interest ;)
If you talk to any person with a taste for BDSM you will never get the same response.....the whole point is that is personal to the individual.
First thing you need to discover is are you sub or dom.........you may already know or you may want to try both....
Some folk just like the occasional smack on the bum and others like much more......
Try things, that is the only way to discover what you like and dont like. `if you have a regular partner who shares your interests then that will help as they will get to know your limits. Always use a safe word so that you can stop if things go further than you are comfortable with.
BDSM mostly utilises the most important sexual organ of the body - the brain.....
Feel free to pm me
I've never been into heavy bondage. Tried light stuff but I can't be doing with blindfolds and all that ( scared of the dark :scared: ) plus I don't really like the feeling of not having any control over what is happening.
Maybe I'm more of a dom than a sub
or maybe I shouldn't be reading Venus In Furs as it's giving me ideas :twisted:
Teachme - you are welcome......
So what do you think you are? sub or Dom?
Just call me nosey (and take the consequences, lol) or maybe im on a recruitment drive.....
A few simple rules.
The most important thing is trust, never even consider it if you don't completely trust the person you're playing with.
Have a safe word or signal that you are both clear on so if it gets too much for either of you it stops immediately.
Be clear before you start what is and isn't allowed, pushing boundaries can be done with time but to start with talk first about what's allowed and what isn't.
The lead up to it can be just as exhillarating as the actual doing, the talking and teasing is part of the game. Most importantly, enjoy it!
H.x
it is called being "switch" 36....... which is what I am :twisted:
Yes, indeed a switch.....which is a very sexy place to be.......you could say best of both worlds, lol
`I have a girlfriend who is sub to me, but Domme with males which is most interesting. We occasionally team up and my male sub gets the full benefit of our domination.......
`i think another aspect of this kind of sex play is that if you treat each other with respect, no matter what role you play, then everyone benefits. I personally prefer to have long term subs but I have another friend who only enjoys seeing sub males once. She however is quite cruel....lol........she isnt on this website guys, lol!
Mistress
I can't get my head round switching, I must be too set in my ways, or too much of one thing. Although, why change if you're good at it :twisted:
H.x
MMMmmmmm Shibari! :inlove:
im lost again. :shock:
whats that mean? sorry for being thick..
x
now im with you, a lil like hogtied?
cheers again, x
it might hurt,
