I found myself wondering this earlier as i was doing what i do after a break up... Having been in a relationship for over 4 years i sadly find myself single.
Having done the crying n existing on nothing but cigarettes & alcohol I suddenly realised that my bathroom needed decorating lol, halfway through i realised that on previous break-ups my house has benefitted enormously...last time twas the bedroom, lounge n kitchen (geez that must have been a bad one), this time tis been the bathroom i did that in 1 1/2 days n have jus started on the downstairs loo.
So it looks like i have wot maybe another 12 hrs work (carpet fitting is not one of my forte's n neither is rehanging doors think the pops may be roped in for that one) n then i have to think hmmm where else can i tackle , maybe the kids will benefit lol.
Like i said was just wonderin wot ova peeps do to keep themselves busy either conciously or un-conciously n no i aint for hire lol
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breakin up n wtf do you do after???
Sexlightened
i find as many single mates as i can and go out and get drunk! the best way for me to get over someone is to get under someone new! 
whiplash, you certainly have hit on some good coping strategies, clear visible changes to you and your surroundings post break up.
I have some darned good rock solid friends to turn to and I think music and movies can help as well, you hear or see things in songs or films you can relate to and project your feelings on.
I have some darned good rock solid friends to turn to and I think music and movies can help as well, you hear or see things in songs or films you can relate to and project your feelings on.
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Sex God
'fat slapper' a bit of advice for post break up .............. get on with living for you now not some sad git that was obviously not good enough for you and also didnt realise what he would lose...... be strong and lean on your friends when you need to ..... you have my number hun use it at any time (the worst i will say is p*** off its 3am) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by Peanut
Whatever happened to the classics like Valium or razor blades?
the valium is all being used up by those in boring vanilla relationships and the razor blades for us who what to be smoothie swingers lol
actually ts been so long i might need to head for b& q for a strimmer rather than superdrug for a razor
( there are other shops available
)xx fem xxx
whips, loud music and keeping active. then clear out all his crap and realise who much space you now have for new shoes and clothes lol
xx fem xx
Sex God
Sorry to hear about your break up.
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Sex God
I joined a swinging site :D:D:D:D
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Sex God
i tend to drink more and write third rate poetry about how miserable i am......great fun
Quote by Sara_2006
'fat slapper' a bit of advice for post break up .............. get on with living for you now not some sad git that was obviously not good enough for you and also didnt realise what he would lose...... be strong and lean on your friends when you need to ..... you have my number hun use it at any time (the worst i will say is p*** off its 3am) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
thanks old tart ya a gem may put ya to the test one morning at daft o clock jus to see if you really only tell me to p*** off lol
Quote by blonde
Like i said was just wonderin wot ova peeps do to keep themselves busy
I am busy looking for a new budgie .......... someone, who shall be nameless, murdered mine!
:x :x 
It gets easier!Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i soooo did not murder ya budgie i jus took the rap for it
Sex God
I found it very theaputic packing up all his belongings and sending them to Bosnia. I needed the space in the wardrobe for all the new clothes I was gonna buy. Its fantastic buying what you want, when you want and not having to say " it only cost £20" when in actual fact 'it' cost £40!!! I went on loads of shopping sprees 
