I was wondering if any couples have encountered other couples who are not what they say they are and how common this could their men who pay women to accompany them at swinging clubs?
Also, would anyone object against this deceptive behaviour or should this be must desroy the spirit of things and jeopardise mens morals as an unaware partner could be encouraging prostitution and be in risk of infection.
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I am sure there are people who band together to get into clubs. Just like people do at regular clubs, so as they are not a single-gendered mob.
I remember, in the '80s and '90s, a group of 5 or more single guys (or girls) would not get into a night club, so would 'solicit' the other sex to pretend they were a mixed sex party, or that they were several 'couples'.
You'd usually get a couple of drinks for agreeing to this. Does that make it prostitution? Does it bollox.
I remember, in the '80s and '90s, a group of 5 or more single guys (or girls) would not get into a night club, so would 'solicit' the other sex to pretend they were a mixed sex party, or that they were several 'couples'.
You'd usually get a couple of drinks for agreeing to this. Does that make it prostitution? Does it bollox.
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Lots of people who get into clubs as a "couple" are not really a couple. They just going through the door together so the guy doesn't play the membership fee. So what, what's the big deal with that? They are most probably friends anyway. My friend and I go to clubs together, we split the cos of a couples fee. And????
However, if the guy is paying a woman in and the arrangement is she gets paid in for sex only.... as in a guy paying an escort for an evenings services then chooses to take her to a swingers club, that is prostitution. Yes it does happen, not all that often but regular enough for it to be noticeable. I don't really have a problem with it, guys pay for escorts and where they take them is none of my business provided they don't come on this site and advertise for them
, or the woman doesn't come on here advertising for guys who will pay :roll: :roll: .
Other than that, can't see the problem tbh.
However, if the guy is paying a woman in and the arrangement is she gets paid in for sex only.... as in a guy paying an escort for an evenings services then chooses to take her to a swingers club, that is prostitution. Yes it does happen, not all that often but regular enough for it to be noticeable. I don't really have a problem with it, guys pay for escorts and where they take them is none of my business provided they don't come on this site and advertise for them
, or the woman doesn't come on here advertising for guys who will pay :roll: :roll: . Other than that, can't see the problem tbh.
Sex God
Quote by duncanlondon
If you go to any club, you are 'paying' to meet other people, are you not?
Well no, actually you are paying to get through the door. There might be no-one else there, remember
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Quote by da69ve
If there are men who pay women to accompany them to swinging clubs...wouldn't it be cheaper just to pay the single guys membership fee at the end of the day??
Yes, but then they wouldn't have a guaranteed shag when they got in there.
Quote by bluexxx
If there are men who pay women to accompany them to swinging clubs...wouldn't it be cheaper just to pay the single guys membership fee at the end of the day??
Yes, but then they wouldn't have a guaranteed shag when they got in there.
so they want the best of both worlds....... a back up shag!
duncanlondon wrote:
If you go to any club, you are 'paying' to meet other people, are you not?
Well no, actually you are paying to get through the door. There might be no-one else there, remember
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Sounds like a useless club to me. I pay to to 'go through the door', because ther are people on the other side, who haver already paid to be there. Whom I am happy to fork out the entry fee to meet.
If you go to any club, you are 'paying' to meet other people, are you not?
Well no, actually you are paying to get through the door. There might be no-one else there, remember
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Sounds like a useless club to me. I pay to to 'go through the door', because ther are people on the other side, who haver already paid to be there. Whom I am happy to fork out the entry fee to meet.
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duncanlondon wrote:
If you go to any club, you are 'paying' to meet other people, are you not?
Well no, actually you are paying to get through the door. There might be no-one else there, remember
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Sounds like a useless club to me. I pay to to 'go through the door', because ther are people on the other side, who haver already paid to be there. Whom I am happy to fork out the entry fee to meet.
Someone always has to be the first to arrive and possibly the only there all night.......unless you want to wait outside until you see people go in.
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Quote by duncanlondon
Sounds like a useless club to me. I pay to to 'go through the door', because ther are people on the other side, who haver already paid to be there. Whom I am happy to fork out the entry fee to meet.
That may be so, but you are still paying your money to get through the door. The people already inside (if there are any
) might not want to talk to you, let alone shag you. Just cos you have paid a few quid to get in, meeting anyone is by no means guaranteed.Actually, I very often go to clubs and don't care if I don't speak to anyone all night. I go to chill out, use the pool, use the jacuzzi, use the sauna, have a piece of quiche or a cheese butty...... there are lots of reasons why people will pay to get through the door of a swingers club!
Quote by da69ve
If there are men who pay women to accompany them to swinging clubs...wouldn't it be cheaper just to pay the single guys membership fee at the end of the day??
according to the intro/rules/info of one of the clubs listed on SH there are men who pay women to get them through "couples only" nights (something the clubs does not like cos they are not really a couple), the paid ladies' job is only to get them through the door they then refuse to play... but yes you're right sounds too expensive but if that's what rocks their boat and if they have the money well it's up to them I suppose..
Sex God
Quote by duncanlondon
Its starting to sound a bit bleak this club of yours.
Well, no-one is making you pay to get in
:lol: :lol: theres a few guys that take hookers to our local club, u can spot them a mile off, think the reason men do it is cause no only are they on 4 a sure shag with the women they also have a better chance of getting other wome to join in if not a single guy, don't suppose it really mattters so long as no1 in the club is charged, each to their own i suppose, as for meeting cplz who are not who they say they are.............ermmm been there, done that got a fecking shop full of t-shirts lol
Quite extraordinary really this thread. Any guy who has an escort, (it would not be hookers by the hour type) will want to put on a show and it will be in front of strangers, not his family! He will need an audience, so he will go to a club that has people in it. It does not take much to recognise how little they know about each other. I find that kind of thing just entertaining, hardly sinister.
Sex God
About a year ago I went to a couples only night at a club in swinton.
There was another couple sitting VERY close to us on the orgy bed -
Making moves to suggest that they wanted to join in with us.
upon my partner performing a certain act on me, the guy quips…. “oooh we love doing that – don’t we†to which the girl shuddered , then composed herself to reply.. “oh err yeah!â€.
This, added to the fact that we later heard them in the changing room with him thanking her for coming gave us a giggle about how much his night at the club has actually cost him.
Needless to say we never played with them.
I have no problem with other people paying for sex if they want to, but I am not being involved in it.
As one person said….. “why would I swap my partner – whom I love - with a guy , for someone he is paying for by the hour!â€
Hardly a fair transaction!
There was another couple sitting VERY close to us on the orgy bed -
Making moves to suggest that they wanted to join in with us.
upon my partner performing a certain act on me, the guy quips…. “oooh we love doing that – don’t we†to which the girl shuddered , then composed herself to reply.. “oh err yeah!â€.
This, added to the fact that we later heard them in the changing room with him thanking her for coming gave us a giggle about how much his night at the club has actually cost him.
Needless to say we never played with them.
I have no problem with other people paying for sex if they want to, but I am not being involved in it.
As one person said….. “why would I swap my partner – whom I love - with a guy , for someone he is paying for by the hour!â€
Hardly a fair transaction!
Sex God
Quote by duncanlondon
There's nothing in what you said that would explain whether or not the woman was an escort, being paid for her work. Is there ?
the fact that he was pretending to be a couple and pretending that they knew each other intimately,despite them not , as well as the fact that she was pretending to like things to go along with him and please him suggests to ME that this may have been the case!
i never stated that she definately was.. just gave my opinion.. is that ok???????????????
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There's nothing in what you said that would explain whether or not the woman was an escort, being paid for her work. Is there ?
Possibly not, but all the signs were there. Experienced clubbers can usually spot the meter ticking quite easily. There is a guy that comes to our club, always with a different girl. He uses them to get in on couples only times. As soon as he is in he tries to get it on with as many couples as he can before his money runs out. He only succeeds with new couples to the club, and only then if he gets to them before any of the regulars warn them.
Are they escorts? Yes, because we've chatted to them when they've left him sitting on his own.
